Living Underwater is Fantastic for Fish & Bad for People!

When it comes to mortgages, you never want to be underwater. Repeat after me – living underwater is for fish, not people!

A person is underwater on their mortgage when the mortgage amount owing is higher than the value of the house. For example, if you have a $450,000 mortgage but you would only be able to sell your house for $395,000, then you are underwater on our mortgage.

This is a not a desirable situation because it means you cannot sell your house without taking the deficiency to the bank in order to pay off the bank. In the above example, the deficiency is $55,000 (=$450,000 – $395,000). The mortgage debt to the bank can only satisfied by a payment of $450,000. This is known as discharging the debt.

Unfortunately for you, potential buyers of your home are only willing to give you $395,000. In order for the bank to discharge your mortgage debt, you would need to take the $395,000 from the buyers of your home and another $55,000 from your own pocket to the bank.

Just out of curiosity, do you have an extra $55,000 lying around? No? Then you, my friend, are trapped in your house.

The Downsides of Being Trapped in a House

If you’ve got no reasons to leave the house you’re in, then living underwater on your mortgage is an academic problem. Since you’re not going anywhere, there’s no issue about having to pay any sort of deficiency to the bank. You can continue to pay your mortgage and wait for the real estate market to recover. Even if recovery takes a decade, you don’t need to care since you won’t be trying to discharge the mortgage on your house.

The situation is quite different if you want to move across the country for a new job, or your health status changes and your home is no longer suitable for you. There are any number of reasons why you might choose to move your current abode to another one. None of them change the fact that being underwater on your mortgage means you can’t sell your place without satisfying your full debt to the bank.

I ask you again, do you have enough money in your wallet to satisfy the deficiency and get the mortgage discharge you need?

Mortgage Rates are Rising

Those without a mortgage can be forgiven for not realizing that the cost of mortgages is increasing. For the rest of you, it’s imperative that you start thinking ahead. When it comes time to renew your mortgage, will your budget accommodate a 1%-2% increase in your current rate?

If the answer is “No”, or “I don’t know”, then you should be making extra payments to your mortgage. Make extra payments as often as you can. And make those payments are large as you can! This will ensure that, at renewal time, your mortgage is as small as it can be. This means that your new payment at the higher rate will be lower than it would be otherwise.

You can use an online calculator to estimate the size of your next mortgage payment. Whatever rate you’re paying now, add 2%. Assuming you’ll be renewing a mortgage of $350,000 and the anticipated 5-year rate at renewal time will be 5%, here are the mortgage payments generated by this online calculator.

  • If you’re renewing with a $350,000 balance at 5%, then your bi-weekly mortgage payment is $1,017.81 or $2,025.62 monthly.
  • If you’re renewing with a $325,000 balance at 5%, then your bi-weekly mortgage payment is $945.11 or $1890.22 each month.

How to Stop Being Underwater

There are a few ways to stop being underwater. Some are harder than others. The most effective way to cease living underwater is next to impossible – you can change market conditions so that the value of your house rises above the balance on your mortgage. See what I mean? That method is next to impossible. Manipulating market conditions likely isn’t within your particular skillset.

Your best bet is to find a way to make extra payments on your mortgage until the balance equals, or is less than, your mortgage’s balance. At that point, the trap is sprung! In other words, what you get from a potential buyer is enough to satisfy you debt to the bank.

Paying extra on your mortgage is a simple plan. Note that I said “simple”, not “easy”. Depending on your other financial obligations, it might not be easy to find the extra money to throw at your mortgage. You might take on another job or start a business. Maybe you’ll sell you no longer need or take in a roommate.

Ridding yourself of non-mortgage debt facilitates another way to make extra payments. Maybe you owe money on student loans, credit cards, vehicle loans, or other consumer loans. As you pay off other debts, re-direct that former payment to your mortgage. Think about it. You were already sending that money to a creditor, so you’ll keep doing so. Your lifestyle won’t change since you were living without that money anyway. All that will change is the name of the creditor.

However you choose to do it, the goal is to stop living underwater on your mortgage.

Spend Your Money on What You Love!

Today, I’m encouraging you to spend your money on what you love. The beauty of personal finance is that it is uniquely specific to what each individual needs and wants. There are general, overarching financial needs that everyone has – think emergency funds, retirement accounts, and just-for-fun money. Everyone who is alive needs to have these in one form or another.

However, my just-for-fun money will be spent very differently than how my family & friends spend their just-for-fun money. This is why I want you to pay very close to attention to what makes you happiest, and then I want you to spend your money on what you love.

Not so fun fact – inflation in Canada is up 6.7% from where it was last year. Boo!!!

A very fun fact – spring has sprung in my corner of the world. Yay!!!! In a few short weeks, I’ll be shopping at a number of greenhouses, picking up various annuals and containers and fertilizers and stakes and nozzles and potting soil… You get the idea. I’m an amateur gardener, and I love the anticipation that comes with the start of the gardening season. One of my favourite ways to spend my money is on flowers. As a matter of fact, I’m taking a container gardening course tomorrow at a local greenhouse.

When I’m feeling a little blue, I visit another greenhouse and tour their gardens and stroll their aisles. Of all the greenhouses I’ve visited, this is the one where I’m most like to find all of the plants I want in one place. One of my favourite greenhouses isn’t particularly large but they have the most spectacular geranium selection I have ever seen in my life. And it was the only place where I found sweet potato vine when I needed it. It is one of my happy places!

My garden is a work in progress.

For me, it is very easy to spend my money on my flowers. I’m trying my hand at planting perennials, since that’s the frugal way of doing things. Last year’s tulips are emerging and I hope to see some blooms very soon. It took some doing but I finally found some hollyhocks for the south wall along my garage. My fingers are crossed that they come back this year. Due to some landscaping work, I had to transplant several established perennials – hostas, balloon flowers, peonies – last year. I’m holding my breath that I didn’t kill them in the process!

Perennials are a frugal gardener’s friend. A one-time investment can yield years of enjoyment. There are spots in my garden where I dislike trying to plant new annuals every year. If I can get my perennials well-established in those spots, my knees and lower back will thank me…. and I’ll have something beautiful to look at instead of just dirt.

However, I’m becoming a huge fan of container gardening too. Elevated planters have been a game-changer for me. Waist-high and arm-length wide, these wonderful creations allow me to comfortably plant, fertilize and water my wee baby plants while standing. I’m in a zone 3, so I can only plant annuals in these planters but that’s okay by me. While I’m a big fan of perennials, I’m an even bigger fan of annuals – petunias, coleus, begonias, geraniums, zinnias! These are my darlings. They’re so colourful! If I don’t particularly enjoy a colour one year, then I simply don’t buy it the next year. Annuals flower for the whole season, while perennials only flower once. They’re all beautiful but there is nothing more satisfying to me than to watch my annuals bloom continuously all summer.

Indulge me for a moment…

These are my beloved ballon flowers. I started with 2 blue plants, and the white ones came up a few years later. Fingers crossed that they survived my transplanting efforts!

Back to spending your money on what you love

So I’ve been in my current home for 18 years… wow! That seems like a long time, but I swear I just moved in a few days ago. Anyway, ever since my first summer here, I’ve been tinkering with a few new flowers each season. Though I still don’t have a formal gardening plan, I’ve enjoyed the show each year. There are so many beautiful and varied things to try. I’m like a kid in the candy store when I visit my greenhouses!

Today, I’m at the point of seriously considering the benefits of hiring a landscape designer and a crew to build some flowerbeds for even more perennials and some raised beds for my annuals. The only drawback I see to this option is the cost. It won’t be cheap. Yet… the fact remains that I likely won’t regret spending my money on this particular want. I have a great big backyard, that’s currently just grass. Gardening is a great hobby, one I can enjoy for the next 20+ years barring any physical limitations. It’s a way for me to get outside and enjoy all the spots of my property. I’m thrilled to see things bloom, and I like the idea of helping pollinators get what they need to stay alive.

One of the reasons that I sacrificed a few experiences when I was younger was so that I could fully fund my RRSP and my TFSA. I’d also wanted to have my non-registered account well-funded long before retirement. My financial dream had been to create a cash flow that I could live on when I stopped working. Lately, I’ve been crunching my numbers with a fee-only financial planner, and various internet calculators. They’re all telling me the same thing – that I will be okay. I’m starting to believe them!

So now it’s time for me to loosen the purse strings a little bit. I’ve enjoyed the journey up to now, but it’s okay for me to enjoy it a little bit more. So kindly wish me the best as I head to the greenhouses with the hordes of other gardeners. There are wee baby plants in my future and it’s almost time for me to get my hands back in the dirt.

So this is my non-professional and completely non-binding advice to you. Do what you need to do to ruthlessly cut out all spending that doesn’t bring you joy. Get out of debt. Fund your emergency, retirement, and investment accounts to the best of your ability. Spend some fun-money along the way, but not too much! When you’ve identified what brings you the most joy, spend your money freely. Do so with a smile on your face and joy in your heart as you spend your money on what you love!

F.I.R.E. – A Refreshing New Perspective

For those who don’t know, F.I.R.E. is the acronym for Financial Independence, Retire Early. It’s a financial point of view that has gained traction in the past 10-15 years. People live significantly below their means in order to grow their money as fast as possible until they no longer need to work. Once they hit that point, they are considered financially independent. If they wish, they can choose to retire early at that point. There are a multitude of websites and blogs devoted to the F.I.R.E. way of life. I will admit that my personal finance coming-of-age was heavily influenced by the initial hardcore tenets of FIRE.

For a long time, I easily adopted the face-punching viewpoint of Pete who runs Mr. Money Mustache even though I was not going to give up some of things that he clearly eschewed. For a little while, I was also enamored with the draconian thriftiness espoused by Jacob’s on his website, Early Retirement Extreme, even though I would never choose to live that way. I was constantly searching for stories of people who lived well-below their means because I wanted to see how far I was willing to go to have money for my investments. When I found a poster on YouTube who only ate once a day in order to save money for investing, I realized that I had limits. Starving when you don’t have enough money is one thing. Purposely starving yourself in order to invest money is offensive to me. I decided to stop seeking the extremes.

Lately, a refreshingly new perspective has emerged. In my view, it is healthier and more welcoming than what I learned. The concept is an homage to living your best life while investing your money. Your money should be used to make your life as good as possible. This doesn’t mean going into debt. It doesn’t mean working forever. It does mean being laser-focused on that which is most important to you. Debts eventually get paid. Salaries increase, one way or another. Consistent contributions to investments will churn out capital gains and dividends. At some point, the gap between the cost of your monthly necessities and the cash flow coming to you will widen to an appreciable amount. This is called your disposable income. The new perspective is about figuring out how to spend that disposable income in a way to brings the most joy and happiness into your life.

I find the new perspective more persuasive than I would have even 5 years ago. One of my biggest challenges is finding balance between living today to the fullest while saving and investing just enough for tomorrow. Two authors come to mind. They’ve articulated ideas about living each day to the fullest, without ignoring the onus to take care of Future You. Specifically, I’m thinking about Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You To Be Rich and his exhortation to live your rich life now. The other author is Bill Perkins, who has encapsulated the essence of the new perspective in his book book, Die With Zero.

What I like most about the new perspective is that it offers a sense of balance. It gives people permission to enjoy the present, and to enjoy spending a little bit of money today. The new perspective recognizes that time is fungible – once gone, it can never be reclaimed. Accordingly, everyone should figure out what is most important to them and spend their money accordingly in order to maximize the utility of their money while securing their financial future.

Ramit Sethi encourages people to pursue their rich life today. As I understand his message, he doesn’t want you to wait 10-15-20 years to start living well. He wants you to determine what you want and to figure out if you can incorporate it into your life today. Mr. Sethi advises people to ruthlessly cut out the stuff that doesn’t matter so that they can focus their money on the things that do.

I love this idea! For my part, cable TV is unimportant. I cut it out of my life 8 years ago, and I don’t really miss it too much. I can’t host Grey Cup or Super Bowl parties, but that’s the extent of the drawbacks to not have cable in my home. What I do love is traveling to new countries. Before the pandemic, I was able to fund 3 trips to Europe in the space of 4 years. For me, that was a huge accomplishment. My rich life definitely includes travel!

In Die With Zero, the author’s position is that dying with too much money means that you have deprived yourself of experiences that could have enriched your life. This book really challenged my views about spending, saving, and investing my money. Truth be told, my mind was blown! First of all, how could a person die with too much money? Was that even a thing? I really had to slow down and contemplate what the author was saying.

Speaking only for myself, this book forced me to consider whether I was spending money in ways that made me happiest. I’ve been saving consistently since age 21. I’d finally visited a fee-only financial planner to get an objective opinion on whether I could hit my financial goals. (The answer was a resounding “Yes!”) By the time I read Die With Zero, I was comfortably past the Coast F.I.R.E. point in my money journey. I was ready to contemplate the idea that I might not have been using my money in the best way possible. After reading this book, dying with un-spent millions no longer seemed like the wisest choice.

It’s truly not my intention to be the richest person in the graveyard. There are experiences that I’d like to have which will require me to open my wallet. Though I’m not entirely convinced that I should die just as my net worth hits $5.47, I appreciate the ridiculousness of dying with millions of dollars to my name. That money will only benefit my heirs. The opportunity for me to benefit from the money dies the moment that I do. While I intend to leave something to my heirs, I want to help and not hinder. There is an intrinsic value in attaining your own personal goals. I won’t deprive them of the chance to experience the pride of accomplishment.

Right now, I’m still searching for the sweet spot. In my humble opinion, the new perspective is going to gain traction. There are those who hate their jobs and want to leave as soon as humanly possible. To those unfortunate masses, I encourage you to change jobs or find a new career. Life is too short to be miserable at work. If changing jobs isn’t an option, then know that I completely understand why you’re willing to sacrifice time today and gamble that you’ll have the time tomorrow to enjoy your money when you eventually do quit.

There will always be hardcore adherents to the “sacrifice everything in the short-term to retire ASAP” view of F.I.R.E. However, that path to financial independence and early retirement is not palatable to everyone. As with most lessons to be learned in life, it is up to each of us to take what we need and to leave the rest. We alone are the ones who know best what we truly desire from our precious time here on Earth. We owe it to ourselves to learn new ideas, try them out, see if they work, keep them if they do, discard them if they don’t, and to do it all over again.

My 5 Most Successful Steps to Retiring As I Wish

Ever since I started working, I’ve been thinking about the day that I can stop – for good. Thankfully, I’ve had very good jobs and worked with amazing people. My work has been challenging and my tasks have been interesting. All that said, work is not my passion in life. I’m not one of those people who bounds out of bed every morning because I’m excited to get to the office. Nope. I’m willing to admit that I’m happier with life when I’m not at work. Whether it’s two weeks away on my annual vacation, two days away on a weekend, or a day off during the week for whatever reason. I’m always happier with my life when I’m not at work.

Thankfully, I learned this truth about myself when I was quite young. As a result, I started my retirement planning when I was 21 years old. Here are the most successful steps that I’ve taken over the years to maximize the odds that I can retire as I wish.

Contributing the Maximum to my RRSP

In hindsight, maybe it wasn’t the best decision to start investing in my Registered Retirement Savings Plan at age 21. I still remember my parents’ accountant telling me that taking the tax deduction while I was a student wasn’t the best idea. He didn’t have any qualms with me contributing to my RRSP but he thought I should wait to claim the deduction in the future when I’d graduated and was working in my chosen profession.

Looking back, I can see that his advice was very good. Admittedly, I didn’t really understand it. My lifelong love of learning about all things personal finance was nascent so I didn’t appreciate the wisdom of his words. At 21, I happily claimed the deduction and spent it on some item whose memory thereof has been lost to the mists of time.

Stupid decision or not, the RRSP-habit was formed. I have contributed the maximum allowable amount to my RRSP every single year since age 21. The money first went into GICs, then into mutual funds, and finally it is now all invested in exchange traded funds. As I learned better, I did better. Over the years, my MERs have dropped and my returns have skyrocketed.

Contributing the Maximum to my TFSA

In 2009, the federal government introduced the Tax Free Savings Account. I can still recall sitting at my computer desk and hearing the words come out of the Minister of Finance’s mouth as I listened to the recap of the federal budget. My head whipped around and I immediately started paying attention. What had he just said? There was going to be a new way for me to save money without paying taxes? Tell me more!

My wise younger sibling then said the following to me:

“Blue Lobster, for you, the TFSA is just another retirement savings vehicle.”

Lightbulb on!

Ever since it’s been available, I have been making the maximum contributions to my TFSA. These contributions have never been sullied by interest rates incapable of matching inflation, as are offered by GICs, nor have they been brutalized by the higher-than-necessary MERs of mutual funds. Nope. I immediately put my TFSA money to work in dividend-paying ETFs.

After another discussion with my accountant, I decided that my TFSA could be used to create a tax-free stream of income in retirement. If I invested in dividend-paying ETFs, then I could withdraw the monthly dividends from my TFSA in retirement. It would be tax-free cash flow. Cha-ching! There was also the tiny little benefit that money from my TFSA wouldn’t impinge my ability to get OAS payments.

Was this the smartest use of my investment? Probably not. I now listen to the wisdom of Bridget Casey of Money After Graduation, and she’s convinced me that I should’ve gone for growth by investing in different equity ETFs. She’s probably right. There was a bull run in the stock market from 2009 to 2020. My TFSA would be bigger had I made different investment choices.

Contributing a Good-Sized Chunk of my Paycheque to my Brokerage Account

This is where the rubber really hits the road. Once I’d paid off my mortgage, I had a good bit of money remaining in my bank account every two weeks. (For the record, I’m a big believer in accelerated bi-weekly mortgage payments.)

Instead of spending that money on this-and-that, I put it to work in my non-registered investment account at my brokerage. My former mortgage payments went straight into ETFs. As with my RRSP & TFSA investments, I put everything on the dividend re-investment plan. When I got raises, I diverted some of the newly-earned money to my investment portfolio and some of it went to increasing my standard of living. As time passed, I was able to get to the point where I’m investing 1/3 of my net pay into my brokerage account and living on the rest.

Staying Away from Debt

In today’s world, it is very hard to avoid all debt. I understand that. I don’t like it, but I understand it.

For my part, I’ve had student loans, vehicle loans and a mortgage. Thankfully, I’ve never had revolving credit card debt. In the interests of transparency, I’ll admit that I do use my credit card but I pay the balance in full every single month.

However, I don’t have debt. The last time I bought a vehicle was in 2008. I used my line of credit and I did everything possible to pay off that LOC-debt within 6 months. It sucked but I didn’t care. I knew that having a car loan for 5 years would’ve sucked too. In my mind, 6 months of short-term sacrifice was well-worth the extra 4.5 years of car-loan freedom. And, yes – my former car loan payments were re-directed to my investments once that debt was gone.

My house has been paid off for 15+ years. While the property taxes, utilities and insurance aren’t cheap, my housing costs are far less than they’d be if I still had a mortgage to pay on top of everything else.

Life without debt is generally better. Instead of money going to your creditors, it can be re-directed to paying for your life’s dreams. It’s best avoided altogether. And if you can’t avoid debt, then minimize it to the greatest extent possible. While it’s in your life, do whatever you can to get rid of it as soon as possible.

Playing the Lottery

Bet you weren’t expecting that one, were you?

It’s true. I play the lottery every week – to the tune of about $20/wk. Even though it hasn’t yet paid off, I consider this one of my most successful steps.

I’ve heard that the lottery is a tax on the stupid, and that those who can’t do math are the ones who play the lottery. I don’t care. The fact of the matter is that I can’t win if I don’t play. Someone has to win and it might as well be me.

Let’s face facts. I’m contributing the max to my RRSP and my TFSA. One third of my paycheque is going into my investment portfolio. I don’t have any debt. Spending $1040 per year on lottery tickets is not going to make or break me. My retirement plans are still on track. If I win the lottery, they’ll just get a fantastically, awesome boost and I can retirement today instead of tomorrow.

Playing the lottery is my indulgence and I’m not giving it up. Other people will spend their disposable income as they wish. I will too. No judgment.

Final Thoughts on Why I Save So Much

I’ve been working in my current position for a long time now. Believe me when I say that my feelings towards working haven’t changed. I’m still happier when I’m not at the office. And I say this despite the fact that I have mentally challenging work. I’m rarely ever bored by my work. My colleagues are truly wonderful people who carry their weight and are always there for me when I need guidance, advice, or mentorship. My bosses are all fairly good people. And while I would never turn my nose up at a raise, the truth is that my compensation allows me to live the life I want. Even my benefits are not too shabby. All in all, I have a working situation that many others can only dream of yet I’m still far happier when I’m at home or with family or on vacation.

I have no illusions that my feelings are unique or that others prefer working to spending time doing what they love with those whom they love. The difference between me and them is that I’ve created a financial foundation for myself where work is becoming optional. This blog post is about the most successful steps I’ve relied on during my working life. Thanks to them, I’ve put myself in a position where I don’t have to allow my paycheque to be the overriding factor in decisions about my life. If my paycheque were to disappear, I wouldn’t have to find another one immediately… or at all. I have the comfort of knowing that my investments – and hopefully a newspaper-worthy lottery win! – will replace my paycheque when I’m ready to part ways with my employer.

Meal Planning is Your Secret Weapon Against Food Inflation

If you’ve been paying attention at all, then there’s no way that you’ve missed the impact of inflation at the grocery store. Food has gotten more expensive! One of the few ways to combat the increase in prices is to make each grocery dollar stretch a little bit further. Enter meal-planning.

One of my friends has a large family. She’s been meal-planning for as long as I’ve known her. Each week, she scours the flyers and plans her meals around whatever’s on sale. I’ve always admired her commitment to keeping her grocery expenditures as low as possible while still feeding herself (and her family) very well.

Yesterday, I failed to heed my mother’s wisdom and spent $36.31 on takeout. I let myself get too hungry and the result was that I made a bad choice with my food dollars. Had I been a little more thoughtful earlier in the week, I would have taken that same $36.31 to the grocery store and bought the fixings for a good meal that would have generated some leftovers.

My mother has been a widow for nearly 20 years. Her “trick” to keeping her food costs down is to always have food cooked in her house. Yes – that’s it. That’s the trick. My mother cooks every few days and she makes enough to last. After raising her family, she no longer wants to cook every single day. At the same time, my Wise Mother knows that she’ll make better food choices if her fridge is well-stocked with tasty leftovers. She lives and breathes the benefits of meal planning.

Why am I not as smart as my own mother? Very good question. I know better!

Two things are true.

One, you know best what you like to eat. Two, you will be hungry later. These are irrefutable facts. You have the power to use these two bits of knowledge in ways that will maximize the utility of your money.

The internet is rife with recipes! If there’s a recipe that you like, rest assured that someone somewhere has written about it online or has created a video for you to watch on your desktop, your tablet, or your phone. Here are a few of my favourite spots to find new recipes, or to be inspired by someone else’s culinary wizardry at filling their freezers.

When you plan your meals in advance, you aren’t forever asking yourself what you want to eat. If you’re anything like me, you are tired of wondering what’s for dinner every night! It would be nice to have a couple of nights in a row where I didn’t have to ask myself that question.

I used to believe that cooking for one was harder than cooking for a family. If you believe that too, then please stop. It’s time to start thinking differently. There are always ways to scale a recipe down for one or two people.

  • You need not cook the whole turkey if that’s what you’re craving. You can buy turkey parts at the grocery store. One turkey thigh can last 2-3 days, depending on how your use it.
  • Maybe you’re craving a lasagna? Cut the ingredient list in half and make it in a smaller dish. Or make the full-sized recipe and freeze the leftovers. The beauty of most pasta recipes is that they freeze and thaw beautifully, which means that much less work the next time you want to eat that particular meal.
  • Perhaps you’re craving homemade bread? I love it too, but it’s a lot to eat in 2 days. Homemade bread goes stale fast. You know what takes as much time but doesn’t go stale as fast? Homemade buns! Make a pan – eat what you want – freeze the rest. When you want another bun, just take it from the freezer.

Impediments are in your mind.

Meal planning is a skill that will take time to master. My mother has it down to a science. She’s retired so she has more flexibility with her time and can grocery shop as needed. For those of us who still work, a teensy bit more effort is required. We have to find the time to grocery shop. Not a problem. If you can’t get to the grocery store, then go online, order your food, and pick it up at a time you’ve scheduled. You can even have it delivered to you at your convenience. The time it takes to grocery shop is not an impediment if you truly want to maximize your money.

In the same vein, there has to be time to prepare your food before it gets cooked. Again, this is not an insurmountable problem. Read the recipe before you start cooking. Then read it again. Personally, I enjoy prep work – the slicing, the dicing, creating little piles of food that have to be combined in a particular order. I find it both relaxing and satisfying to get ingredients ready before I start my recipe.

If you don’t find prep work satisfying, that’s not a problem. You can buy pre-shredded cheese, minced garlic, pre-cut onions, pre-sliced carrots, etc… You can even use a meal prep service if that’s your fancy! The bottom line is that someone, somewhere has already done the prep-work for you, but you still need to get the ingredients into your kitchen so you can cook them.

Step #3 is the follow-thru. In other words, you actually have to cook the food that’s in your kitchen. I know, I know – this might be a radical idea to some of you. My advice is to buck up and get it done. Remember what I said about the internet? It’s everywhere! You can be commuting to work while watching cooking videos on YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, and websites. There is nothing holding you back from meal planning and cooking your own food.

Meal planning is not hard. It takes practice and patience, and a willingness to try something new. It’s a skill that gets better over time. The more meals that you prepare and/or eat at home, the more money you will save for the other parts of your life.