Dreams are Always Free, but Fulfilling Them Costs Money.

Dreaming is free. We all know this. You can have as many dreams as your imagination and desires will allow.

  • Home ownership?
  • Early retirement?
  • Volunteering at something full-time?
  • Running your own business?
  • Seeing the seven wonders of the world?
  • Visiting an animal sanctuary or ancestral homeland?
  • Participating in rebuilding efforts after a natural disaster?
  • Starting or finishing your education?
  • Publishing a book?
  • Taking over a farm and living off the grid?
  • Becoming a parent?
  • Breaking a world record?
  • Creating a garden oasis?
  • Supporting a loved one to achieve their goals?
  • Living a life filled with joy?

Whether big or small, everyone has dreams for their lives. We all desire to see, do, taste, touch, experience certain things in our lifetimes. It’s perfectly natural since each of us secretly or not-so-secretly wants to live our lives a certain way. The thing that few of like to admit outloud is that making those dreams a reality generally always involves finances.

I’ll be the first to say it. Whatever your dream is, attaining it has price tag. There’s always a financial cost to making dreams come true.

Our capitalist system runs on everyone spending money incessantly. Honestly, the system doesn’t much care where you spend your money, only that you spend it immediately or before you’ve actually received it. In other words, if you don’t have cash then credit will do. The AdMan and his trusty sidekick, the Creditor, are intimately aware that immediate consumption doesn’t happen when you’re saving up for a dream. Tough! That’s a capitalism-problem, not a you-problem.

Don’t let the AdMan and the Creditor get in your way! You have dreams and you want to see them made real. Never forget that you alone are responsible for directing where your money goes. You get to decide whether to go into debt or to go towards your heart’s deepest desire, whatever that may be.

Forgive me. I want to focus your attention on a harsh reality that few, if any, ever discuss in the personal finance sphere. Every single one of us has a limited amount of time, and none of us know when our time will run out. You owe it to yourself to use every moment of your precious, precious time to building the life that you really want to live. Dreams don’t fund themselves. The onus to fund your dreams rests on your shoulders, no one else’s. Make your dreams come true before it’s too late by getting good with your money.

I’ve always believed that debt is an anathema to making dreams a reality. The sad fact is that when you’re beholden to your creditors, then you’re legally bound to repay your debts. If you don’t, your creditors will eventually garnish your wages or your bank account. At some point, you might even be pushed into bankruptcy. That’s not a fun process and it will have severe consequences on your future.

You can only spend each dollar once. It should go without saying that money repaid to debt is money that cannot be directed towards dreams. If you’re in debt, you best bet is to figure out how to get out of it ASAP. Cut the fat from your budget. Get another job. Sell stuff you no longer need, want, or use. Only spend cold, hard cash. Whatever works for you is what you should be doing.

Train yourself to think about your dreams every single time you go to pay for something. Does paying for whatever-it-is get you closer to your dreams? If the answer is “yes”, then make the purchase. If the answer is “no”, then delay or forego the purchase. By delaying the purchase, you’re forced to figure out if staying away from realizing your dream is a price that you’re willing to pay.

Dreaming is always free, but turning dreams into reality costs money. Please don’t squander your limited resources on things that won’t bring your dreams to life. It’s on you to use your time and your money in ways that bring you closer to fulfilling your dreams. You can do this!

This is the Greatest Way to Use Credit Cards!

The greatest way to use credit cards comes down to 2 simple steps.

  1. Only credit cards when you have cash in the bank to pay the balance.
  2. Pay your credit card balance off in full every single month.

In the interests of transparency, I will admit that I use my credit card all the time. Gas? Groceries? Travel? Clothing? Repairs? Streaming services? Subscriptions? Theatre tickets? Birthday presents? Electronics?

Yes, yes, yes! I tap my credit card for all of it. I love earning points with my card because points translate into dollars at the grocery store. A few times a year, a big grocery haul can be purchased with points. This is a great thing for my cash flow. Other people I know prefer to swipe for travel rewards. They’ve got large families so travel rewards work to ensure no one family member need be left behind. And I know there are people who simply love getting cash-back. If I weren’t getting “free” groceries, I would definitely be using a cash-back card.

Also in the interest of transparency, I pay off my credit card balance every single month. I have a very simple method for doing so. After I make a purchase on my credit card, I go to my chequing account and send a payment equivalent the purchase amount to my credit card.

I rely on the pay-as-you-go method to keep my credit card balance at $0. Personally, I prefer to pay off the charges right away, instead of waiting to get my statement at the end of the billing period. Making multiple payments throughout the month ensures that I don’t “accidentally” spend the money in my chequing account on something else. By paying the charges as I incur them, I’m not under the gun to come up with a large amount once a month to pay off the full statement balance. Also, paying my credit charges as they arise is a pain the butt. If I don’t want to experience the pain, then I don’t spend.

For those larger-than-normal purchases that crop up in life, I rely on my sinking funds. I don’t swipe my card without having the money set aside already. For example, I replaced my computer this week. I knew a new computer would be a 4-figure hit to my wallet, so I’ve been saving for this purchase for the past 6 months. When I went to buy it, it was no big deal to use my credit card. The money for this expense is already sitting in the appropriate sinking fund. All I have to do now is simply transfer the money over to my chequing account and send a payment to my credit card. Easy-peasy-lemon-squeezy!

By following these two rules, I have discovered the greatest way to use credit cards. I never pay interest. My credit score remains high. I stay out of revolving debt since my credit card balance is always at $0. And I get to collect lots of points that can be used to buy anything I want at my preferred grocery store.

If there’s a better way to use credit cards, please do share with the class.

DreamChasers: Making Mistakes to Make Dreams Come True!

No one – and I mean no one – fulfills their dreams without making some mistakes along the way. Making mistakes is integral to the journey. After all, how are you expected to learn and grow if you don’t have mistakes from which to learn and grow?

You’ve heard me speak about my mistakes before. And they were doozies! If I had to choose, my biggest mistake of all was not investing in low-cost, well-diversified, equity-based exchange traded funds as soon as I possibly could. Instead, I stuck to dividend-generating ETFs for far, far too long. I didn’t correct this mistake until October of 2020… sigh… Some mistakes will bite you harder in the ass than others, and this one still stings.

My second biggest mistake was not appreciating that I had another 20 years of investing in my future after selling a couple of rental properties. Instead I took that money and I paid off my primary residence’s mortgage. That was a colossal error! When all was said and done, I had a nice six-figure cheque in my hand. I should’ve taken that money and invested it into an equity-based mutual fund. (I sold my rental properties right before ETFs started to become well-known in Canada. Before ETFs arrived, I invested into mutual funds.) Yes, I would’ve kept my mortgage longer. The flip side is that I also would’ve been fully participating in the bull market than ran at a steady clip between 2009 and 2020. There’s a good chance I would’ve been retired now had I simply kept my principal residence’s mortgage for a few extra years.

My third biggest mistake was listening to people who told me not to be too hard on myself. I’ve been investing since I was 21. I was fortunate enough to max out my RRSP early in my career, and I didn’t immediately know what to do with the extra money over and above my RRSP contributions. So I increased my mortgage payments each year instead of increasing my investment contributions. After I’d eliminated my mortgage, I took some time to treat myself to vacations and a few other luxuries. Given the benefit of hindsight, I can admit that I should’ve simply thrown a good chunk, if not all, of my former mortgage payment into my investment account. Listening to the advice to let up the gas on my investing was not in my best financial interest.

No sense crying over spilled milk, right? I eventually learned from my mistakes and I have since course-corrected. Despite some very big errors on my part, I’ll still be able to make my dreams come true.

Three instrumental decisions have led me to this place in my life. The catalyst for my current financial situation was the decision to start investing. I know that sounds trite, but you would be amazed at the number of people who never start. Those who invest $0 today will have $0 waiting for them tomorrow. It’s that simple. Maybe they get an inheritance, or win the lottery. But it’s more likely than not that neither of those things will happen. The vast majority of us have to invest our own money if we expect to have any in the future.

I made 2 more decisions that were instrumental in helping me get to this point with my money:

  1. Live below my means, aka: stay out of debt.
  2. Automatically invest a portion of my paycheque every time I got paid.

When I started my investment journey, I was in debt. I had student loans, vehicle loans, and a mortgage. I didn’t let debt stop me. Contrary to a lot of advice, I invested while I paid off my debts. Thanks to some bonuses at work, I was able to eliminate my student loans within a couple of years. Those former student loan payments were rolled into my car payment so that one disappeared fairly quickly too. And I was fortunate enough to pay off my mortgage in short order thanks to a couple of real estate investments that paid off due to an exceptionally hot real estate market.

Once I was out of debt, I stayed out. Was it easy? No. Did I have to delay gratification for a month or two? Yes. Was it worth the wait? Absolutely yes!

Staying out of debt hasn’t stopped me from doing any of the following things:

  • travelling to Europe 4 times in 8 years
  • going to concerts at home and abroad
  • maintaining my theatre subscription to Broadway Across Canada
  • updating my wardrobe as needed
  • taking road trips
  • dining out with friends and family
  • renovating my home
  • replacing my vehicles
  • making new friends
  • spending time with family and those I love best

In short, staying debt-free has allowed me to use my money to live life on my own terms. Since paying off my mortgage, I’ve never had to commit my future income to paying off debts. Big purchases are paid with a credit card and the credit card is paid off with savings. Yes – I’m old school that way. I save up for things first before I buy them. It’s old-fashioned but it works like a charm, every single time. I’ve yet to have a vendor say “No, sorry. We won’t take your money today because you didn’t give it to us yesterday.”

Vendors will be just as willing to accept your money after you’ve accumulated a pile of it to buy your preferred whatever-it-is.

When I switched jobs, I didn’t have to worry about missing any payments to creditors while I waited for my new paycheque to start. I had the luxury of having some money in the bank to pay for my life while I adjusted to a new pay schedule. There was no fear of what could happen to my credit score. As a matter of fact, I rarely ever think about my credit score because I don’t apply for new credit. I don’t need more credit. I have cash, which is superior to credit. Owing no one is a financial super-power, and it’s available to nearly everyone.

Automatically investing from every paycheque was the step that put the sizzle in my steak! It only took me a few minutes to set up the automatic transfers that I needed. As my income went up, I increased the size of my investment contribution proportionally. I started at $50 per paycheque and moved up from there. Never once have I regretted my choice to invest automatically. Truth be told, I’ve never even heard of anyone who has wished that they had saved less money for their future.

You know what I love best about automatic investing? I never have to think about it! Money is skimmed from my chequing account to my investment account every two weeks without any effort from me. I have enough other things on my plate to think about every week, so eliminating the bi-weekly task of transferring funds is wonderful. The money goes where it needs to and I can sleep peacefully, knowing that I’ve taken another step towards building Future Blue Lobster’s financial security.

The other benefit is that I can happily ignore the Talking Heads of the Financial Media. I don’t pay any attention to whether the stock market is up or down. Negative news doesn’t influence how or when I invest. My money is transferred and invested into broadly diversified, equity-based ETFs. There is little financial analysis on my part and I love it! I don’t want to spend hours studying the stock market to chase outsized returns. I’m quite happy earning the long-term average return and watching my money steadily grow over the long-term.

I have read The Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins. It’s a great book! And the principles espoused in that book work, so that’s why I follow them. Consistent investing in the stock market over a long period of time is a highly effective strategy, regardless of how much money you invest. Obviously, investing more sooner means a higher final amount a few decades later. Don’t let the size of your contribution discourage you from investing as soon as possible. Remember, I started with $50 every two weeks. Had I known better earlier in my life, I would’ve started with $25 or even $10.

The most important thing is to start. The second most important thing is not stop. Making mistakes is part of the process. At the end of the day, your dreams will still come true.