There’s no one perfect way to become financially savvy. Yet, I can promise you that you won’t obtain the knowledge you need unless you start today.

There are very few people in your life who will care about your financial health as much as you do. If you’re lucky, your family will take it upon themselves to teach you what you need to know to be successful with money. Once you’re an adult, you owe it to yourself to build upon the lessons that your family taught you and to share that increased knowledge with those closest to your heart.

Your employer pays you to do a job. She really doesn’t care what you do with your money so long as it doesn’t negatively impact how you perform as an employee. She doesn’t care if you save to pay cash for your goals, whether you pay off your debts, or if you invest for your retirement. At best, she cares that you don’t ask for her to pay you any more than you currently earn to do your job.

On the other hand, the AdMan cares about your money very much, and so does his trusty sidekick, the Creditor. They care about taking it away from you. The AdMan’s sole goal is to convince you to give your money to someone else – a restaurant, a retailer, a car dealership, a pharmaceutical company. The AdMan doesn’t care who you give it to, so long as you give your money away.

The Creditor simply wants you to give your money to him. The Creditor will lend you money because he wants you to pay it back with interest.

Your ability to avoid falling into a deep debt hole is contingent on learning how personal finance works. Creating effective strategies to achieve your goals and dreams is going to be somewhat dependent on how you handle the money that comes your way. Part of self-care is learning the lessons of money.

Start today. Whether you need to pay off a debt or you want to save for next year’s vacation, I want you to start today. It may take a while to achieve your goal and that’s perfectly okay. The sooner you start, the better off you’ll be. No one has ever regretted handling their money in a way that allows them to meet their life’s goals.

Don’t be too hard on yourself. No one has ever learned it all at once, and you won’t either. Believe me when I say that you won’t pick the perfect investment – no such thing exists. You can start immediately – there’s no need to wait until January 1 of next year. There’s no time like the present. Transfer $1, $5, $10 to your savings account. If you don’t have a saving account, open one then make the transfer. Commit to one no-spend day per week or per month. Figure out how to prepare and cook more of your own meals. These are small changes within your locus of control. They will help you reach your goals.

Your money situation won’t change by itself. Nothing changes until you do. Start reading books and blogs today. You don’t have to master it all at once. Open a savings account – set up an automatic savings plan – accumulate your first $1,000. And while you’re doing that, read books and consume blogs about investing so that you feel more comfortable with the topic. Again, don’t be too hard on yourself; no one knows everything so you’re not alone. And when you are finally comfortable making your first investment, I want you to only invest in things you could explain to your grandmother. If you don’t understand an investment product, do not invest in it until you do. Never let anyone bully you into putting your hard-earned money towards something you don’t understand.

Today is the best time to plant your money tree. The sooner it’s planted, the longer it has to grow.

Start learning – don’t ever stop. Start saving money – don’t stop! Start taking care of yourself financially so you’re not dependent on others to do so.

Knowledge is power. Take the small steps first. Start today.