Month: June 2020

Tough Choices

Try as I might, I still haven’t figured out a way to get everything that I want. There are always tough choices to be made about money. I honestly believe that tough choices are the foundation of the non-financial side of personal finance.

While the Single Ones among us do not have to fight with anyone about money, it’s still incredibly important for us to identify our spending priorities. Being single does not eliminate the requirement to take responsibility for our money. Setting priorities helps us figure out what to do when tough choices have to be made about how to spend our dollars, and which goals to pursue.

Last weekend, I found a wonderful house. It’s a 1500sqft bungalow with main floor laundry, a double-car garage, and – wonder of wonders! – a large foyer that opens into a beautiful, bright living-space. Did I mention the large composite deck, the spacious & fully-furnished basement, and the fabulous ensuite off the master bedroom? It’s even in the neighbourhood that I’ve been watching for the past ten years!

So why didn’t I jump on the change to buy it?

Here’s why… Doing so jeopardizes my retirement plans.

The house is almost perfect for me. It’s main drawback is that it would require me to commit to working for at least another 5 years. Time is precious. I’m not one of the Very, Very Fortunate who loves their job and would do it for free. While my job has a great many benefits, I’ve long dreamed of the days when I can spend my time doing what I want and not what my employer pays me to do. I don’t want to sacrifice 5 years of my retirement for a house.

And it wouldn’t just be losing 5 years of retirement. Having a mortgage again would mean that I would lose the financial flexibility that I have right now. In pre-COVID times, it was so nice to be able to say yes to spontaneous invitations without worrying if my budget could handle the expense:

  • Dinner with friends to celebrate the warmer weather? Sure.
  • Can I afford the Rimrock to attend a good friend’s wedding? I’ll be there with bells on!
  • How about a last-minute theatre performance? Not a problem!
  • Why not pop over to the Emerald Isle in six weeks? I’m on my way!

Taking on a six-figure mortgage at this stage of my life would mean giving up the little extras that bring me joy. Those little extras are my reward for having been diligent and focused in my younger years, when I was paying off student loans, car loans, and the mortgage on my current house. Back then, I said “No” a lot more than I do today. Friends and family often chided me for the financial choices that I made, but I don’t regret following my plan. After all, I was the one who had to live with the consequences of my spending choices.

So as much as I wanted to buy the very awesome new house, I had to make a tough choice between two competing priorities. I could stay on track to retire, and continue to live in my current home which is perfectly suitable for me. Staying in place means that I don’t have to forego time in retirement. Alternatively, I could go back to having a mortgage and living on a tighter budget. In addition to all its lovely features, this new house’s property taxes are twice what I pay now. I’d have a higher heating bill each month, and I expect that the other costs of running a house would be higher too. Also, little renovations that I would want – a railing for the deck, new paint in the dining-room – would have to be put off. My budget wouldn’t handle renovations and mortgage payments at the same time.

At the end of the day, I chose to say “No” to the new house. The truth is that I’m not prepared to give up my goal of retiring when I want. I don’t hate my current house but I’m also not enamoured of the idea of never living anywhere else before my long dirt nap starts. Part of me is craving to be the Joneses, to buy another house, to set up a new little spot to call my own. It seems that everyone I know has bought a new house in the past 5 years – family, friends, colleagues, acquaintances. Why should I be the only one who doesn’t get to buy a new house?

The last question is a stupid one. I am not being deprived of a new house! I’m simply making a different choice. Those who have bought won’t have the option of retiring a wee bit sooner. They’re committed to repaying the bank or losing their home to foreclosure. The choice for them was to buy the house and to work longer than I’ll have to.

When it comes to money, tough choices have to be made sometimes. I’d already defined my priorities so it wasn’t too, too hard to walk away from the new house. I know what’s most important to me.

Ideally, you’ve also defined your priorities and you’ve figured out how to spend your money so that you can meet them. You’re the one who works hard for your money so make sure that you’re pursuing your priorities whenever you spend it. Whether you want a new vehicle, a new home, a new book, or new clothes, just make sure that your money is going towards the priorities you’ve set for your life.

The tough choices won’t go away completely. Knowing your priorities will better equip you to choose the alternative that gets you closer to the life you want to live.

************

Weekly Tip: Update your net worth every month, or on a regular schedule that best suits you. Net worth is determined by adding up your assets and subtracting your debts. If you have a negative net worth, that means you’re in debt. If you have a positive net worth, then your assets exceed your debts. Your net worth is a snapshot of your finances at a given point in time. Knowing this number will help you to determine what your next steps need to be on your financial journey.

Mistakes with Money

Not a single one among us is born knowing how to use money perfectly. Our skill with money comes from making mistakes and learning from them.

For my part, I’ve made several notable mistakes with money over the years. I’ve written before about how I failed to take action with my investment plan for 5 full years. That one still hurts when I think about it. It took me 5 years before I finally rectified that situation by committing a good chunk of my paycheque towards my automatic savings plan. Now, I benefit from using dollar cost averaging to invest my money on a regular basis.

I hate to admit it but choosing to invest in dividend products instead of equity products is one of my biggest money mistakes! Had I started investing in equity ETFs instead of dividend ETFs way back when, then I’d be in a position to retire today…even with the recent volatility in the stock market.

Sadly, this money mistake cannot be un-done. I have been investing in a dividend portfolio since 2011, instead of a broad-based equity exchange-traded fund. The financial media has spent the last 3 months talking non-stop about the pandemic’s effect on the stock market, and how it has brought the 10-year bull run to an end. It’s true – the market took a deep fall in March. However, it has bounced back. It’s still quite volatile, and – in my completely amateur opinion – the stock market will continue to be volatile for the next 2-3 years.

I’ve been forced to realize that one of my biggest mistakes with money was to delay investing in equity ETFs. I’ve only just started investing in equity investments in 2019! It’s true that I managed to catch almost the very tail-end of the bull market, but the smarter play would’ve been to start investing in equity ETFs back in 2011… ideally, back in 2006.

Water Under the Bridge

‘Tis true. I can no more turn back the hands of time than I can lick the spot between my own shoulder blades. We make our choices then we take our consequences.

I shouldn’t be too, too hard on myself. Nine years of consistent investing has yielded a nice little cash flow for me. While my monthly dividends are in the 4-figure range, they’re not quite enough for me to retire just yet. I equate my little army of money soldiers to income from a part-time job that I don’t have to actually perform. Truth be told, it’s nearly a perfect side hustle since it’s money I earn without the sweat off my brow. How cool is that?

So why am I divulging one of my biggest money mistakes to you?

Two reasons. First, people in the personal finance world don’t talk about their mistakes with money nearly enough. The only regular mention I see of this reality is on the ESI Money website, where the millionaires who are interviewed are asked about some of their errors with money. I think it’s important that people realize that everyone who is good with money has made their own mistakes with it. Like I said at the beginning, no one is born as an expert with money.

Secondly, I don’t think that there’s any reason for you to make this mistake yourself. You can just as easily learn from someone else’s mistakes as you can your own. The more information you have, the more likely you’ll be to make a decision that best fits your particular circumstances. I firmly believe that people make the best decisions they can with the information that they have at the time. When you know better, then you do better.

Hard-Won Truths

Money mistakes are unavoidable. Mine isn’t the worst one in the history of the world, and it certainly won’t derail my financial future. And, let’s be honest – I ought not complain too much. I earn a small boatload of dividends month in and month out. How bad of a decision could I have really made 9 years ago?

My investing journey isn’t over. And I’m sure that I will make different mistakes in the future, but I just don’t know what they are yet. I still have choices and options for my money. I can choose to continue building up my army of money soldiers. The other option is to start investing in equity ETFs and take part in the stock market’s recovery. I’m quite confident that the stock market will continue to trend higher. It’s recovered before, and it will recover again. A third option is to simply coast on what I’ve already invested a la Military Dollar, so that I can spend today’s money on today’s things – home renovations, landscaping, a new vehicle, spa treatments, whatever…

I want you to accept that mistakes with money are an inevitable part of investing. That’s why it’s so very vital that you continually learn about it throughout your life, and that you put what you learn into practice. Invest as much as you can as early as you can. Invest for the long-term. Keep your mitts off your investments by simultaneously building an emergency fund for those emergencies that will crop up in life. Live below your means and stay out of debt. Save, invest, learn, repeat – this is a recipe that works.

By following these foundational principles with your money, the impact of your money mistakes will be minimal rather than nuclear.

**************

Weekly Tip: Set timelines for your goal so you know which ones are short-term, which ones are medium-term, and which ones are long-term. Generally, short-term goals are the one to be accomplished within the next 12 months. Things like vacations and concerts would fall into this category. Medium term goals are one that take between 1 and 5 years to accomplish. Think new vehicle and down payments on a home or a business. Long-term goals are those that will take longer than 5 years. Common examples are retirement and paying off a mortgage. Once you have a timeline, then you’ll be in a better position to prioritize where your money goes and to segregate your money so that each goal is funded.

Scratching my Head!

I’m fascinated by people who oppose the idea of becoming financially independent.

Personally, I think that this opposition is borne of the acronym FIRE. Most of us in the personal finance echo chamber know that this is an acronym for Financial Independence, Retire Early. It’s rather unfortunate that so many have twinned the two concepts together. They are not the same thing. A person can pursue one aspect of FIRE while completely eschewing the other.

A large cohort of people think that both elements must be pursued with equal vigour. I’d like to take a few minutes to tackle this misunderstanding into the ground.

Financial Independence =/= Retiring Early

Becoming financially independent can be a goal that is completely separate and apart from retiring early. Everyone should strive to become financially independent because it maximizes the options that one has for living the life that they truly want. Volunteering to build houses for six months after a hurricane? Travelling for 18 months just because you can? Taking a job that requires you to only work 3 days a week instead of five so that you have more time for doing what you love? When you’re financially independent, you can do all of these things without worrying about how to maintain your employment.

If you love your job, great! No one is saying that you have to quit the job you love simply because you have enough money to live without receiving a paycheque from paid employment. One of the side benefits of being financially independent is that you can continue to go to work if that is what makes your stomach do little flip-flops!

I’m always left scratching my head when people ask me why I would ever want to retire early. Sadly, I’m not one of those people – think professional athletes or celebrity entertainers – who is paid to do what they love. If anyone is looking to pay me cold hard cash to read books while enjoying a nice glass of wine, please speak up.

No one will stop you from working!

Allow me to be exceptionally clear on the following point. Being financially independent is not an obstacle to working. If anything, it gives you the power to work on what really matters most to you. When your stash of cash can pay for your bare necessities, then you’re free to take a paycut – if necessary – in order to do work that you find fulfilling. Rent – food – utilities can all be paid for by your Stash’O’Cash while your newly-reduced paycheque can be stretched to cover everything else. In the meantime, you have the pleasure of knowing that your life’s energy and your precious time are being applied to your true calling.

When you’re not financially independent, there’s a good chance that you are somehow being prevented from pursuing your dreams and living the life you want. It could be that you have debt that eats up a good chunk of your take-home pay. Maybe you’re caring for a parent or grandparent. Perhaps it’s just that you weren’t fortunate enough to have a job that pays more than ‘just enough’ to make it from one paycheque to the next. Whatever the reason, the lack of financial independence means that you cannot spend your time doing what you truly want with your time.

No one should be ashamed to pursue financial independence. It is not synonymous with greed or selfishness. Instead, it is a recognition that each of us has been granted one life. We only have so many tomorrows. Achieving financial independence allows us to spend our days doing what is most important to us. We are not shackled to someone else’s goals in exchange for a paycheque.

Save, invest, learn, repeat. Do this until you’ve become financially independent. At that point, take stock of how you spend your time. If you want to keep working, trust me when I say that no one will stop you. You can continue to collect a paycheque, content in the knowledge that you’re doing so because you truly want to and not because you have to.

**************

Weekly Tip: Keep your emergency funds separate from your other savings accounts. When the money is all co-mingled, it’s too easy to forget that the emergency money should NEVER be spent unless there is a true emergency that threatens your financial security. At the time of this post, millions of Canadians have lost their jobs due to the COVID19 pandemic. They’re facing a true financial crisis. Another scenario where an emergency fund is imminently reasonable is if your home burns down. An emergency fund comes in very handy if your town catches on fire and you have to relocate quickly. I’m looking at you Fort McMurray.

When Should I Start Saving?

In a perfect world, you would have started saving with the first dollar that you ever received, i.e. birthday money, paper route money, graduation money.

You would have gone to the bank – or your parent would have taken you – to the bank and you would have opened an account. Then you would have deposited that dollar before you’d had a chance to spend it. Everyone seems to know that the sooner you start saving, the better. However, there appears to be a disconnect between knowing and doing.

You’re the only person who can bridge the chasm between knowing what to do and then actually doing it. The truth is that it is quite simple to open a savings account in today’s world of online banking. It’s another very easy and straightforward matter to put an automatic transfer in place, thereby eliminating the need for you to manually transfer money into your savings account. The automatic transfer kicks in every time you’re paid – easy peasy lemon squeezy!

The very next best time to start saving money is immediately. I cannot stress this enough! Savings work best if you take steps to save money. Step one – save. Step two – don’t spend your savings. If you’re not yet accomplishing these two things, then you’re only dreaming about saving… which is all fine and good but it won’t help you very much since you can’t use dreams to acquire what you want. Dreaming about saving is not the same as actually starting to save.

I love dreams as much as the next lady, but dreams don’t put the cream in cupcake. You need to actually start saving – the sooner, the better. I speak from experience. One of the reasons that I’m able to seriously consider an early retirement is because I started saving a portion of my first paycheque when I was 15 years old. I’ve made many stupid decisions with my money over the years, but starting my savings plan in my teens is not one of them.

Now, let’s say there’s a good reason why you can’t start saving today. If this is your situation, then I want you to start saving money on any day that ends in the letter “y”. That leaves you with Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. Each of these is a very fine day to start saving your money.

Whatever else you do, please don’t start saving tomorrow. First of all, tomorrow is promised to no one. Further, it is not a day ending in “y” so it’s not a suitable day on which to start saving. And while I hesitate to state the obvious, I feel that it’s best to articulate the fact that everyone eventually runs out of tomorrow’s. No one ever runs out of today’s – go back to my first point. Today is the very best time to start saving money.

********************

Weekly Tip: Practice delayed gratification. Wait a day or a week or a month before buying what you want. It gives you a chance to assess if you really want to make the purchase. It also gives the retailer a chance to put the item on sale. This is good because the whatever-it-is-that-you-want will be cheaper if you decide to make the purchase after a prescribed waiting period.