Not a single one among us is born knowing how to use money perfectly. Our skill with money comes from making mistakes and learning from them.

For my part, I’ve made several notable mistakes with money over the years. I’ve written before about how I failed to take action with my investment plan for 5 full years. That one still hurts when I think about it. It took me 5 years before I finally rectified that situation by committing a good chunk of my paycheque towards my automatic savings plan. Now, I benefit from using dollar cost averaging to invest my money on a regular basis.

I hate to admit it but choosing to invest in dividend products instead of equity products is one of my biggest money mistakes! Had I started investing in equity ETFs instead of dividend ETFs way back when, then I’d be in a position to retire today…even with the recent volatility in the stock market.

Sadly, this money mistake cannot be un-done. I have been investing in a dividend portfolio since 2011, instead of a broad-based equity exchange-traded fund. The financial media has spent the last 3 months talking non-stop about the pandemic’s effect on the stock market, and how it has brought the 10-year bull run to an end. It’s true – the market took a deep fall in March. However, it has bounced back. It’s still quite volatile, and – in my completely amateur opinion – the stock market will continue to be volatile for the next 2-3 years.

I’ve been forced to realize that one of my biggest mistakes with money was to delay investing in equity ETFs. I’ve only just started investing in equity investments in 2019! It’s true that I managed to catch almost the very tail-end of the bull market, but the smarter play would’ve been to start investing in equity ETFs back in 2011… ideally, back in 2006.

Water Under the Bridge

‘Tis true. I can no more turn back the hands of time than I can lick the spot between my own shoulder blades. We make our choices then we take our consequences.

I shouldn’t be too, too hard on myself. Nine years of consistent investing has yielded a nice little cash flow for me. While my monthly dividends are in the 4-figure range, they’re not quite enough for me to retire just yet. I equate my little army of money soldiers to income from a part-time job that I don’t have to actually perform. Truth be told, it’s nearly a perfect side hustle since it’s money I earn without the sweat off my brow. How cool is that?

So why am I divulging one of my biggest money mistakes to you?

Two reasons. First, people in the personal finance world don’t talk about their mistakes with money nearly enough. The only regular mention I see of this reality is on the ESI Money website, where the millionaires who are interviewed are asked about some of their errors with money. I think it’s important that people realize that everyone who is good with money has made their own mistakes with it. Like I said at the beginning, no one is born as an expert with money.

Secondly, I don’t think that there’s any reason for you to make this mistake yourself. You can just as easily learn from someone else’s mistakes as you can your own. The more information you have, the more likely you’ll be to make a decision that best fits your particular circumstances. I firmly believe that people make the best decisions they can with the information that they have at the time. When you know better, then you do better.

Hard-Won Truths

Money mistakes are unavoidable. Mine isn’t the worst one in the history of the world, and it certainly won’t derail my financial future. And, let’s be honest – I ought not complain too much. I earn a small boatload of dividends month in and month out. How bad of a decision could I have really made 9 years ago?

My investing journey isn’t over. And I’m sure that I will make different mistakes in the future, but I just don’t know what they are yet. I still have choices and options for my money. I can choose to continue building up my army of money soldiers. The other option is to start investing in equity ETFs and take part in the stock market’s recovery. I’m quite confident that the stock market will continue to trend higher. It’s recovered before, and it will recover again. A third option is to simply coast on what I’ve already invested a la Military Dollar, so that I can spend today’s money on today’s things – home renovations, landscaping, a new vehicle, spa treatments, whatever…

I want you to accept that mistakes with money are an inevitable part of investing. That’s why it’s so very vital that you continually learn about it throughout your life, and that you put what you learn into practice. Invest as much as you can as early as you can. Invest for the long-term. Keep your mitts off your investments by simultaneously building an emergency fund for those emergencies that will crop up in life. Live below your means and stay out of debt. Save, invest, learn, repeat – this is a recipe that works.

By following these foundational principles with your money, the impact of your money mistakes will be minimal rather than nuclear.

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Weekly Tip: Set timelines for your goal so you know which ones are short-term, which ones are medium-term, and which ones are long-term. Generally, short-term goals are the one to be accomplished within the next 12 months. Things like vacations and concerts would fall into this category. Medium term goals are one that take between 1 and 5 years to accomplish. Think new vehicle and down payments on a home or a business. Long-term goals are those that will take longer than 5 years. Common examples are retirement and paying off a mortgage. Once you have a timeline, then you’ll be in a better position to prioritize where your money goes and to segregate your money so that each goal is funded.