I want you to keep your money. Yes – that’s right. You should put yourself in a position to keep your money.

Obviously, you can’t keep all of it. When you get paid, you have to give away some of your money. It has to go towards shelter, food, utilities, a basic wardrobe, and transportation. These are the necessities. Everything else is a nice-to-have. Beyond necessities, purchases are Wants. If they’re expensive enough, they might even be called luxuries.

Before you spend your money on the Wants & Luxuries, put some money aside to fuel your money-making machine. Ideally, you would pay yourself first, then pay for the necessities, and then pay for the Wants & Luxuries last. Many people don’t do this, and their reluctance to do so befuddles me. Truly, I’m befuddled by this behaviour. When you work so hard at a job that possibly might not fill your heart with joy and gladness, you should save a little bit of that money for yourself so that you can fund your dreams.

The first step to keeping your money is to plan your spending. If you don’t know how much you spend on shelter, food, utilities, transportation, and a basic wardrobe, then keep track of how much you spend. You can do this old school, with pen and paper, or you can use one of the fancy apps available for your phone. Either way, you need to know how much you spend living your current life.

Though I wish this did not need to be said, I’m going to say it anyway. If your monthly spending exceeds your monthly income, then you’re in a bad situation. You are living in debt, and this is a bad situation. It can lead to bankruptcy, homelessness, and other very unpleasant outcomes. If your monthly spending is less than your monthly income, fantastic! This situation is called living below your means. You have money to re-direct towards your money-making machine.

Once you’ve tracked your expenses, then you can plan how your next paycheque is to be allotted. I want you to think about the spending you did on your Wants & Luxuries. How happy were you with those purchases? Did the happiness last a long time or was it fleeting? If you hadn’t made the purchase, how would it have impacted your life? Any chance that you’d consider culling your future Wants & Luxuries purchases to only the ones that bring you joy and fond memories when you think about them?

I would never suggest that you limit your spending to necessities and savings. That’s no way to live. Everyone needs a little bit of frivolity once in awhile. What I am going to suggest is that you carefully evaluate why you made the expenditures that you did. Necessities? Obviously, you spend in this category so that you don’t starve to death a naked homeless person. I want you to focus on the Wants & Luxuries categories. If the purchase didn’t bring you joy, then why did you make it? Was it an impulse purchase? Did that impulse arise from a feeling of guilt? A need to self-soothe? A desire to be liked and included? Once you know why you spend, then you’ll know what triggers to avoid in order to keep your money in your pocket so that you can fund your most important dreams and priorities.

Keep the W&L expenditures that bring you true and lasting joy. Discard all the others. Use those savings to fund your money-making machine. My machine is an army of little money soldiers. Every month, I’m paid dividends from my investment portfolio. I’ve set up a Dividend Re-Investment Plan so that my dividends are automatically reinvested in my divided-paying exchange traded fund. This means that I’ll receive even more dividends the following month. It’s a sweet system!

Your money-making machine need not be the same as mine. You might want to get into rental properties. (And if the talking heads are to be believed, interest rates in Canada are going to go up. This may lead to a slew of foreclosures as people cannot service their mortgages at a higher renewal rate. Should that happen, property values will fall. If you have the money, and the desire to own a home, you may be able to buy a duplex or a triplex or multi-family property and start house-hacking.) There are some fantastic websites out there that can teach you how to do this. It’s not my preference but you should explore all of your options and decide for yourself.

Another money-maker is starting your own business. The entrepreneurs that I know are doing quite well for themselves. They work extremely hard, and are reaping the rewards of their efforts.

Don’t worry if you don’t know what your money-making machine is going to be. You can figure that out while you’re diligently finding ways to keep your money. Trust me! You don’t want to discover some fantastic opportunity and not have the money in place to take advantage of it.

You get one life! Keeping a part of your income from every paycheque is the most reliable way to have the money in place to fund your most important dreams and goals. It makes no sense to spend your life working hard for your money only to then disburse your life’s energy on things that don’t bring you lasting joy. It would be an absolute shame if you wind up regretting the choices that you made because they didn’t get you closer to fulfilling your dreams. Keep your money and build the life that you truly want!