Every day that you wake up offers you the chance to move closer to, or further from, your priorities. You can spend your life’s energy, time, and money in ways that are making your dreams come true. You can just as easily spend your resources making someone else’s dreams come true. One way or another, you will be spending our life doing something. It’s up to you to decide what that “something” is.
As the title of this post states, priorities are personal. There’s a very good chance that your priorities are not going to be the same as anyone else’s. Sure – there are general themes that apply to all of us. We all need food and shelter every day. Yet, some people will only eat organic while others will never learn to cook more than toast. Some people want a water view from their bedroom balcony, while others need easy access to the slopes and mountain trails in order to feel at peace.
The distinctions are in the details. And since this is a personal finance blog, I’m here to encourage you to spend your hard-earned dollars in ways that permit you to achieve your life’s priorities.
Most of the time, the things we want cost money. In the Before Times, I travelled every single year. In 2016, I had started travelling overseas. A big chunk of my annual spending was devoted to this priority – flights, hotels, food, souvenirs, excursions. It added up to $5,000 – $7,000 per year. Travel was one of my priorities so I was willing to give up other things. I ate breakfast at home instead of buying it at the coffee shop before work. I learned to cook more recipes in my own kitchen, instead of relying on the good folks of the restaurant industry. Spa treatments were curtailed. Concerts were foregone in favour of Spotify or CDs. Each of these littles choice allowed me to save between $100-$150 each week in order to fund my travel priority.
You can do the same thing.
List out everything that you want. Whether you cap the list at 10-20-30 things or experiences that you really want is entirely up to you. This is your list of priorities. Once you’ve completed the list, move to step two.
Put this list in order of importance. Is getting a pet more important to you than season’s tickets to a sporting event? Would you rather save for a down payment or go to a weekly happy hour? Does retirement matter more than upgrading your vehicle?
Once you have your priorities in order, you turn your attention to the money. How are you going to pay for all of your priorities?
Honestly? You can’t pay for everything at once. If you could, then there’d be no need to prioritize. You list is meant to help you choose where to allocate each dollar. As each priority is funded, the dollar can move to the next one.
For my part, my priorities are well-defined. Some of them will take a long time to pay for, but others can be funded in less than two years. Priority number one is paying for the annual expenses that will only stop when I do – property taxes and insurance premiums. I know in my heart of hearts that the day I don’t pay my insurance premiums is the day that my house burns down while my car is in the garage. I have an automatic savings plan in place so I can accumulate the money to pay these annual bills when they come due.
Retirement is priority number two. Sadly, I am not a member of the “I Love My Job” Club. My job is challenging, interesting, and well-compensated. I work with very smart people and am part of a well-functioning team. However, I’m not gleefully jumping out of bed every morning in order to do my job. I’m looking forward to retirement so I don’t have to do those parts of my job that I don’t enjoy.
As you may have surmised, travel is priority number three. In the Before Times, I’d be planning my next trip on the flight home. The world is a big place. I might not always have the physical ability to see it. Ideally, I will see as much of the world as I can while I still have the ability to walk, stand, sit, and maneuver without too much difficulty. However, we’re currently in pandemic times so travel is taking a back-burner.
Fixing up my house is priority number four. And by “fixing up”, I don’t mean replacing furnaces and water heaters. Those are things that fall under “maintenance/repair/replace”. No – I’m talking about landscaping projects. I’m taking about new carpet, new paint, new cabinetry. The stuff that has made HGTV so incredibly successful! There’s a good chance that I will be in my house for a very long time, so I want it to be comfortable and to my taste.
Priority number five…
Well, truth be told, there really isn’t one. Maybe replacing my SUV in the next 5 years? Whatever isn’t spent on priorities 1-4 sits in a slush fund, accumulating until such time as there’s something that I really and truly believe will make my happy.
It’s up to you to do the same with your money. From this day forward, think about your priorities before you spend your money. A simple way to do this is to set up automatic transfers to fund your priorities. Hive off part of your income into a savings account – for short term goals only – so that the money is there to pay for your priority. Long-term goals like retirement need to have their allocations invested in the stock market – RRSP and TFSA for registered monies and investment accounts for non-registered monies.