Category: Money Mistakes

DreamChasers: Making Mistakes to Make Dreams Come True!

No one – and I mean no one – fulfills their dreams without making some mistakes along the way. Making mistakes is integral to the journey. After all, how are you expected to learn and grow if you don’t have mistakes from which to learn and grow?

You’ve heard me speak about my mistakes before. And they were doozies! If I had to choose, my biggest mistake of all was not investing in low-cost, well-diversified, equity-based exchange traded funds as soon as I possibly could. Instead, I stuck to dividend-generating ETFs for far, far too long. I didn’t correct this mistake until October of 2020… sigh… Some mistakes will bite you harder in the ass than others, and this one still stings.

My second biggest mistake was not appreciating that I had another 20 years of investing in my future after selling a couple of rental properties. Instead I took that money and I paid off my primary residence’s mortgage. That was a colossal error! When all was said and done, I had a nice six-figure cheque in my hand. I should’ve taken that money and invested it into an equity-based mutual fund. (I sold my rental properties right before ETFs started to become well-known in Canada. Before ETFs arrived, I invested into mutual funds.) Yes, I would’ve kept my mortgage longer. The flip side is that I also would’ve been fully participating in the bull market than ran at a steady clip between 2009 and 2020. There’s a good chance I would’ve been retired now had I simply kept my principal residence’s mortgage for a few extra years.

My third biggest mistake was listening to people who told me not to be too hard on myself. I’ve been investing since I was 21. I was fortunate enough to max out my RRSP early in my career, and I didn’t immediately know what to do with the extra money over and above my RRSP contributions. So I increased my mortgage payments each year instead of increasing my investment contributions. After I’d eliminated my mortgage, I took some time to treat myself to vacations and a few other luxuries. Given the benefit of hindsight, I can admit that I should’ve simply thrown a good chunk, if not all, of my former mortgage payment into my investment account. Listening to the advice to let up the gas on my investing was not in my best financial interest.

No sense crying over spilled milk, right? I eventually learned from my mistakes and I have since course-corrected. Despite some very big errors on my part, I’ll still be able to make my dreams come true.

Three instrumental decisions have led me to this place in my life. The catalyst for my current financial situation was the decision to start investing. I know that sounds trite, but you would be amazed at the number of people who never start. Those who invest $0 today will have $0 waiting for them tomorrow. It’s that simple. Maybe they get an inheritance, or win the lottery. But it’s more likely than not that neither of those things will happen. The vast majority of us have to invest our own money if we expect to have any in the future.

I made 2 more decisions that were instrumental in helping me get to this point with my money:

  1. Live below my means, aka: stay out of debt.
  2. Automatically invest a portion of my paycheque every time I got paid.

When I started my investment journey, I was in debt. I had student loans, vehicle loans, and a mortgage. I didn’t let debt stop me. Contrary to a lot of advice, I invested while I paid off my debts. Thanks to some bonuses at work, I was able to eliminate my student loans within a couple of years. Those former student loan payments were rolled into my car payment so that one disappeared fairly quickly too. And I was fortunate enough to pay off my mortgage in short order thanks to a couple of real estate investments that paid off due to an exceptionally hot real estate market.

Once I was out of debt, I stayed out. Was it easy? No. Did I have to delay gratification for a month or two? Yes. Was it worth the wait? Absolutely yes!

Staying out of debt hasn’t stopped me from doing any of the following things:

  • travelling to Europe 4 times in 8 years
  • going to concerts at home and abroad
  • maintaining my theatre subscription to Broadway Across Canada
  • updating my wardrobe as needed
  • taking road trips
  • dining out with friends and family
  • renovating my home
  • replacing my vehicles
  • making new friends
  • spending time with family and those I love best

In short, staying debt-free has allowed me to use my money to live life on my own terms. Since paying off my mortgage, I’ve never had to commit my future income to paying off debts. Big purchases are paid with a credit card and the credit card is paid off with savings. Yes – I’m old school that way. I save up for things first before I buy them. It’s old-fashioned but it works like a charm, every single time. I’ve yet to have a vendor say “No, sorry. We won’t take your money today because you didn’t give it to us yesterday.”

Vendors will be just as willing to accept your money after you’ve accumulated a pile of it to buy your preferred whatever-it-is.

When I switched jobs, I didn’t have to worry about missing any payments to creditors while I waited for my new paycheque to start. I had the luxury of having some money in the bank to pay for my life while I adjusted to a new pay schedule. There was no fear of what could happen to my credit score. As a matter of fact, I rarely ever think about my credit score because I don’t apply for new credit. I don’t need more credit. I have cash, which is superior to credit. Owing no one is a financial super-power, and it’s available to nearly everyone.

Automatically investing from every paycheque was the step that put the sizzle in my steak! It only took me a few minutes to set up the automatic transfers that I needed. As my income went up, I increased the size of my investment contribution proportionally. I started at $50 per paycheque and moved up from there. Never once have I regretted my choice to invest automatically. Truth be told, I’ve never even heard of anyone who has wished that they had saved less money for their future.

You know what I love best about automatic investing? I never have to think about it! Money is skimmed from my chequing account to my investment account every two weeks without any effort from me. I have enough other things on my plate to think about every week, so eliminating the bi-weekly task of transferring funds is wonderful. The money goes where it needs to and I can sleep peacefully, knowing that I’ve taken another step towards building Future Blue Lobster’s financial security.

The other benefit is that I can happily ignore the Talking Heads of the Financial Media. I don’t pay any attention to whether the stock market is up or down. Negative news doesn’t influence how or when I invest. My money is transferred and invested into broadly diversified, equity-based ETFs. There is little financial analysis on my part and I love it! I don’t want to spend hours studying the stock market to chase outsized returns. I’m quite happy earning the long-term average return and watching my money steadily grow over the long-term.

I have read The Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins. It’s a great book! And the principles espoused in that book work, so that’s why I follow them. Consistent investing in the stock market over a long period of time is a highly effective strategy, regardless of how much money you invest. Obviously, investing more sooner means a higher final amount a few decades later. Don’t let the size of your contribution discourage you from investing as soon as possible. Remember, I started with $50 every two weeks. Had I known better earlier in my life, I would’ve started with $25 or even $10.

The most important thing is to start. The second most important thing is not stop. Making mistakes is part of the process. At the end of the day, your dreams will still come true.

Regretting Financial Mistakes Is a Waste of Your Time

Regret has no place in your financial plan. You’re not perfect and you will make mistakes with your money. Once you’ve identified a money mistake, don’t spend your time regretting it. Simply make a course correction to stop making that mistake and move forward. The past cannot be changed so learn from your mistakes and resolve not to make the same ones in the future.

When I started investing, I picked a dividend investment strategy. I started by buying into dividend mutual funds. Eventually, I learned about management expense ratios (MERs) and discovered that I was making the mistake of paying 10x as much for mutual funds when I could acquire the same assets through exchange-traded funds (ETFs). There was no way to recoup my time or those MERs, so I simply moved my money to ETFs. I made a course correction and moved on.

What is the point of spending time regretting choices that were made when I didn’t have the best information available to me?

Once I learned better, I chose better.

Dividends vs. Growth

A doozy of an investing mistake still hurts. I can only blame myself for this one. My belief in the wisdom of my own choices meant that I didn’t properly consider what was going on around me. I wasn’t learning the lesson, no matter how many times it was hitting me in the face…sigh…

Remember that phenomenal bull-run that was experienced in the stock market between 2009 and the onset of the pandemic in 2020? The one where the S&P/TSX Compound Index grew by 125%? The one where the S&P500 increased by 378%?

Guess who was still investing in a dividend strategy instead of investing in US-growth equities?

That’s right. Me.

It was a huge mistake in my financial planning. I had so much faith in my own choices that I missed out on a fantastic opportunity to invest over the long-term. I made sub-optimal investing choices for 11 years!!! At any point, I could’ve realized how I was missing out on growing my portfolio much, much faster… but I didn’t.

Instead, it wasn’t until October of 2020 that I finally saw that I was again missing out. I was determined to benefit from recovery that followed the pandemic-induced stock market plunge. So I course-corrected. I started investing in an equity-based, well-diversified ETF and I haven’t looked back.

Regret has no place in my financial plan. Of course I wish I had made optimal choices at every single point throughout my investment life, but horses aren’t wishes so this beggar can’t ride. I’ve done what I’ve done and I get to live with the consequences.

And all told, my choices weren’t the absolute worst ones out there. To date, I’ve been investing for 3 decades. My dividend portfolio will ensure that my retirement is nice and comfy. I chose to start young, which is always preferable to starting when old. As far as mistakes go, I could’ve done far worse.

Now, all of my investment contributions are going into the equity-based growth ETF. Its performance is giving my portfolio higher returns, which is always appreciated. I have no plans to stop investing in my ETF, even after I retire. It will continue to mimic both the volatility and growth of the stock market, which is a good thing over the long-term.

Taking a Break vs. Riding the Rollercoaster

I made another huge mistake during the crash of 2009. Instead of continuously investing, I stopped my contributions. Thankfully, I didn’t make the mistake of selling anything while the price was down! Yet, it would’ve been smarter to ride the rollercoaster of volatility during that crash. I would’ve been buying into my dividend-paying companies when they were all on sale!

Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda.

No regrets, remember? Instead, I resolved to never stop investing. As we all remember, the stock market took a huge plunge when COVID-19 was declared a pandemic. Between you, me, and the fencepost, I lost a third of my portfolio’s value on paper. I know because I checked my brokerage account daily during those first few months.

Truth be told, I really don’t know how many paper losses I suffered because I stopped looking at the number after I’d lost that first third. It was too painful.

But you know what I didn’t do? I didn’t stop investing! Even though the market plunged steeply between February 21, 2020 to March 23, 2020, I continued to buy into my dividend-ETFs. And throughout the recovery between March and October of that year, I stuck to my investing schedule and bought many, many, many units in my ETFs-of-choice.

The mistake of 2009 was not to be repeated! Instead of taking a break from investing, I rode the rollercoaster of the stock market. It paid off. Buying those ETF-units when the market was down allowed me to accumulate way more units that I would have otherwise. Each of those units pays more dividends today than they did in 2020. The end result is that my monthly dividend payment is much higher than it was before the pandemic.

Secret Sauce

Like I’ve said before, the secret sauce isn’t being bright. Rather, it’s being persistent. The genius of the secret sauce is following 3 basic steps, over and over and over again.

Make the choice to invest. Then invest. And don’t stop investing.

Everything after that is simply a detail. You follow the steps, and you course-correct when you make your inevitable mistakes. Don’t waste your time on regret. There’s nothing to be gained from that activity. Instead, always remember that you’ll do better when you know better.

I’m not an expert but….

I am not certified by any governing body to tell you how to spend your money. My words of advice were earned at the School of Life, a place where all of us are students. I’m telling you this so that you realize that I’m not an expert, but I’ve still learned a thing or two. If you do what I did, you’ll do fairly well with your money over a lifetime. Here are my tips to acquiring a heavy wallet.

Don’t spend every penny you earn.

First off, I’ve yet to meet anyone who’s been harmed by living below their means. Spending less than your take-home income has no downsides, as far as I can tell. The difference between your net income and your expenses is called “savings” and savings can always be stashed away for various things.

Emergency Funds are not optional.

Secondly, life without an emergency fund is an invitation for financial trouble. There’s an emergency in your future. You simply have no way of knowing when it will show up. I promise you this though. No one in the history of the world has ever lamented about having too much money set aside to deal with the inevitable emergency. If you don’t have an emergency fund, start one immediately and set up an automatic transfer from your paycheque to fund it.

It’s going to take a bit of time to build up a decent emergency fund. That doesn’t matter – just start building it. When the emergency hits you smack in the face, you’ll be quite grateful that you won’t have to worry about the financial side of dealing with it.

Investing for Tomorrow You isn’t optional either.

Thirdly, start investing your savings. Yes – some of your saving will go to building an emergency fund. The rest of your savings should be split between your short-term, medium-term, and long-term goals.

One your most important long-term goals is how to feed, shelter, clothe, and entertain yourself when you’re too old to work. Tomorrow You still needs money to survive until the very last day of your life. The steps you take today to invest your savings will increase Tomorrow You’s chances of having a financially comfortable life once employment is over.

You need to start funding your retirement accounts – namely the Tax Free Savings Account and the Registered Retirement Savings Plan.

If you have to choose between filling the TFSA or the RRSP, my recommendation is to fill up the TFSA first. The TFSA contributions do not generate a tax refund, but the money invested inside the TFSA will grow tax-free and can be withdrawn tax-free.

Should you be so fortunate as to have sufficient money to fill both your TFSA and your RRSP, then do so.

If you still have savings After you’ve filled your retirement accounts, then open a non-registered account with an online brokerage. Invest your remaining savings to earn capital gains and dividends. The money earned in your non-registered account will be taxed every year. The upside is that the taxable rate on your capital gains and dividends will be less than the taxable rate on your earned income.

Inflation isn’t going away anytime soon.

Fourthly, inflation is running high. No one knows when it’s going to go down, so assume that things will be increasingly expensive for the foreseeable future. There are no simply answers to this problem, so my advice to you is to cook more of your own food. I love socializing over food as much as the next person. And I do sometimes yield to the incessant call of the fast food window or the food delivery app. However, inflation running at 7%-8% has forced me to be a lot more disciplined. I’m heading to the grocery store instead of tapping out an order on an app. I’m slicing and dicing, mincing and sautéing, frying and baking in my own kitchen. One of these days, I’ll even master the art of meal planning for the week instead of simply for the next 3-4 days.

My advice to you is learn to grocery shop then spend more time in the kitchen. If there’s something you want to learn to make, there’s someone on the Internet who has a recipe and a video to show you how. I can promise you that $60-$80 spent at the grocery store will yield you a ton more food than the same amount spent at a restaurant, fast food outlet, or food delivery service.

Stay out of debt

For whatever reason, our society has decided that it’s a good idea to put people into debt. The scope and manner in which any one person is able to go into debt is truly breathtaking: student loans, vehicle loans, mortgages, credit card debt, etc…

There’s no legal limit either. It’s not like there’s a law which says “No person is permitted to carry more than $650,000 of debt at any one time.”

So long as there is a creditor who is willing to extend you credit, you can dig a deep a hole as you choose. Even after a creditor stops extending you new credit, the hole still gets deeper thanks to the power of compound interest and the piling on of fees.

Do yourself a favor. Don’t go into debt. If you’re already in debt, then work very hard to get out of it.

You know those savings that I was talking about at the start of this post? Take 25% of them and throw them at your debt. You can use the snowball method or the avalanche method to make extra debt payments over and above your minimum payment.

I really don’t care, which method you choose. Just start making those extra debt payments and get yourself out of debt as soon as possible.

Again, I’m not an expert.

I’m just a person who has learned a few things about money from my own experience. I’ve also observed the financial choices and outcomes of others. Getting out and staying out of debt has done wonder for my financial life. Spending less than my net income has allowed me to set aside money for my retirement while also fulfilling most of my short-term and medium-term goals. Cooking at home has definitely contributed to a heavy wallet. My emergency fund helps me sleep well at night.

Even though I’m not an expert, some of these tips might help you too. Take what you need – leave the rest.

Money Habits Ought Not to Be Underestimated

When I first delved into the world of personal finance, I came across the idea that savers have trouble spending their money. Basically, the belief is that those who have saved all their lives are incapable of reversing their behaviour and spending their savings once they retire. I pooh-poohed that point-of-view. After all, how could being fiscally prudent be a bad thing? Or result in a bad outcome?

I promptly dismissed a perspective that I considered nonsense and happily continued along my own path of saving and investing. Save some, spend some seemed to be a far more intelligent way to use money IMHO. I worked my way up to saving a third of my paycheque for retirement. The rest of my take-home pay was spent on travel, concerts, home renovations, the daily Care-&-Feeding-of-Blue-Lobster, gifts for & celebrations with family & friends, and various other things. Surely I had it all figured out in my 30s didn’t I? Why should I even considered another way of seeing things when it came to how to spend money?

As they say, with age comes wisdom. It’s been many years since I discarded the notion that I would have trouble spending money when the time comes. Lately, I’ve been reviewing my own beliefs and taking another look at my own money habits. For more than 20 years, my method has been to rely on automatic transfers to fund my investment account. Rightly or wrongly, I picked out several mutuals funds then moved on to exchange-traded funds and invested my money into those investment products every single month.*** Every dividend earned has been re-invested through a dividend re-investment plan (DRIP). When I received raises, my contribution amount was increased too. A portion of each raise was invested for the future and the rest went into increasing my day-to-day comfort.

I’d thought I was doing most things right. Earn – invest – spend the rest. Looking back, I know that I didn’t pick the perfect investment products for my goals. (I’d been investing in dividend ETFs instead of equity ETFs. That “little mistake” was corrected in October of 2020.) With the benefit of hindsight, I see that I could have made better choices earlier in my investment journey but c’est la vie!

Today, I’m quickly approaching my anticipated retirement date. I’m quite happy about getting 100% of my time back. My work is mentally challenging and my colleagues are fantastic. I’ve been very fortunate in many aspects of my career. In spite of all of that, working at my current job until I take my last breath has never been a goal that’s made it onto my Bucket List. I’m very much looking forward to retirement. However…

I must confess that I’m feeling much more than slight trepidation about the idea of spending my money. The paycheques will stop and I will have to turn to other cash flows in order to continue paying for my life. And after a lifetime of money habits to save-save-save, it’s going to be a challenge to spend instead. My youthful self’s pooh-poohing is coming back to bite me in the butt.

Two years ago, I finally attended a meeting with a fee-only financial advisor. He told me that I was doing very well, and that I would have plenty for my retirement. He even told me that I could retire 2 years earlier than I’d planned! My financial advisor set up a withdrawal system for me… and that’s when it hit me. I would have to spend my money. Not all of it, and not all at once, of course – but I would have to spend some of it every year until my death.

Truthfully, the realization left me more than a little shaken.

Since then, I’ve also started listening to Ramit Sethi and his view on how to create a rich life. According to Mr. Sethi, who I do admire, I am not living a rich life because I haven’t yet defined what that would look like for me. In his estimation, I’m not using my money in the best way possible. While I’ve never been dissatisfied with my money choices, it would appear that I might not have been asking myself the right questions.

In addition to Ramit Sethi, I’ve started following Bridget Casey. She is another proponent of living a rich life. Now, she’s a few years younger than me so her life circumstances are very different than mine. However, she’s asking herself the questions now that I should have been asking myself when I was her age. Ms. Casey is also a fan of Ramit Sethi, so she’s building her rich life today. There’s a small part of me that wishes I had learned about this concept earlier.

So the question is the following: do I regret my money habits?

I wish I had a simple answer to that question. My money habits are going to allow me to retire 2 years earlier than planned. I will never regret that! At the same time, my money habits – particularly the one about never borrowing money to travel – prevented me from attending a wedding in Paris. I had just gotten home from Italy (or Spain?) when I received the invite to head back to Europe in a few months for a cousin’s wedding. My sinking fund for travel was empty and I didn’t have the funds to pay for the wedding trip in cash. So I declined the invitation. Do I regret that decision? Yes, but only a little bit.

Abiding by my money habits for so long has crippled my ability to make most decisions without considering the financial implications. Now, one of the biggest financial goals of my life is going to force me to amend my money habits. Firstly, I don’t need to save and invest anymore. I’m still not certain that I will stop completely or that I’ll ever feel comfortable turning off my DRIP. (My financial advisor said I should stop the DRIP when I retire.) Life without an automatic transfer into my savings/investing account is unimaginable to me, although I’m well aware that the vast majority of people do not save and invest regularly. That’s their choice and their choices aren’t my business, but if I’m not doing it – saving and investing – for myself then I start to feel rather anxious.

I’m very glad that I’m learning this about myself today, instead of after I retire. There’s time for me to start making some changes. One of those changes has been to decrease the amount of money that goes into my various sinking funds. I’ve redirected a few hundred dollars towards another goal, but I still need to get some advice from my accountant. Once I’ve spoken to her, then those few hundred dollars will probably go towards little day-to-day luxuries like a 4-6 hot-stone massages every year and a monthly housekeeper. My “rich life” might not be as grand as those of Mr. Sethi and Ms. Casey but that’s okay. Their priorities aren’t mine.

So I take it from me. Money habits should not be underestimated. Once you’re in a particular groove with your money, it’s going to be challenging to change them. While I’m still a fierce proponent of saving and investing, I’m going focus the next few years on figuring out how to spend my money too. I want my spending to bring me just as much comfort, joy and happiness in the next phase of my life as my saving-and-investing has brought me up to now. There’s a way to ensure I’m living my own rich life in retirement and I’m determined to find it.

*** There was an unfortunate 4-month hiatus during the most severe period in the 2008 recession. I could’ve been buying equities when the stock market was at its lowest, but I got scared and stopped my contributions. Trust me – I have since learned my lesson. We’re in another stock market downturn right now (2022) and I’m turning over the seat cushions to find money to invest in the stock market before this recession is declared over.

Can You Save Too Much Money?

This question recently came up, and I’ve been noodling on it ever since. My whole adult life, I’ve been following the habit of maxing out my RRSP, my TFSA, and saving another chunk of my paycheque in my non-registered investment account. However, yesterday, someone asked me what I was saving it all for and whether I would still be able to achieve my retirement goals if I saved slightly less and spent more money in my day-to-day.

Mind blown!

In all honesty, I have never seriously considered that possibility. When it comes to my own money, I’m very rigid and allow for little, if any, deviation from my money rules. I wanted to hit certain savings targets in my life, and I’m pleased to say that I’ve hit them. It simply never occurred to me that doing so would mean that I would be saving too much money.

Bridget Casey, Ramit Sethi, and Bill Perkins are three people whom I’ve started following online in the past few years. Each of them, in their own way, discusses the importance of operating from an abundance mindset instead of a scarcity mindset. All of them encourage their readers/followers to live a rich life today and to avoid putting off today’s happiness to save for tomorrow’s.

It was brought to my attention that, though I read those books, there’s a very, very, very teensy-weensy, itty-bitty, little chance that I might not be putting their advice into practice. It’s quite possible that I’m operating from a scarcity mindset. Maybe I’m operating out of a place of fear that I won’t have enough, despite all the evidence to the contrary? A very wise and very good friend has suggested to me that I’m in a position where I have enough invested for the future. (Truth be told, I’ve heard that same message or a variation thereof from other people who love me.) The suggestion was made that continuing to save for tomorrow will prevent me from having what I want today. My friend’s words threw me for a loop and I’ve been thinking about them ever since she uttered them.

So again, my question is can you save too much money?

This question leads me to more questions. According to calculations I trust, I will die with several million dollars in the bank if I stick to my current Rigid Rules. I’m a Single. No spouse, no kids. Strictly speaking, I have no natural heirs of my own issue. Does it make sense for me to die with that much money when I don’t have my own children? Isn’t there the slightest possibility that I could cut back on my saving right now and let my current investments ride? After all, I would still die with a nice fat cash-cushion, but I could have a little more fun along the way if I spent more of my money day-to-day.

Yet that viewpoint leads me to the next question that I think is important. Am I unhappy with how I currently spend my money?

My honest answer is that I’m not. In all honesty, when I want something, I buy it. Do I save for it first? Generally, yes – saving comes before spending. Do I stop or reduce my investment and retirement contributions to spend money? No, never. Is this a bad choice?

Until yesterday, I would have emphatically said “No – it’s not a bad choice.”

Today, I’m not so sure. If my retirement will still be quite comfortable, even if I spend a little bit more today, then does it make sense to continue with the same savings habit? Alternatively, should I be forcing myself to spend more money today just because I can?

The goal of life isn’t to simply die with a whole lot of money. Even I can appreciate that such a life is a wasted one. I don’t feel that I’m wasting my life by following my Rigid Rules. Right now, I go out with my friends. I travelled a lot before the pandemic. I spend a lot of time with my family. Buying what I want, when I want isn’t an issue. Could I spend more money on stuff for the sake of doing so? Sure, but I don’t want to fill my house with stuff that I don’t need or won’t use.

My whole life, I’ve been a money planner. I’ve been saving since I was a small child. My parents started us on an allowance. When I started working, I kept up the habit. Never once did I question whether I was doing the right thing by saving something from every paycheque. As my paycheques grew, so did the percentage that I saved and invested. Lifestyle inflation was never a problem for me. Living below my means has always be my guiding financial principle. I created a very large buffer between myself and the financial edge.

Now, I’m entering the second half of my life. The lessons that got me here might not be exactly the right ones to get me where I really want to be. It’s time for me to consider the possibility that I’ve moved into the “and” stage of my life. Up until now, I’ve always believed that I have to choose between various options. However, it’s starting to come to my attention that maybe there are situations where I don’t have to choose. Maybe I’ve reached a point where I can have both.

I can spend money today and still retire comfortably. It might be time for me to force myself to spend, in just the same way that I forced myself to save. Maybe I can cut my daily saving amount and still reach my financial goals. I get one life, and I want it to be as good as I can possibly make it. This means that I need to get back to assessing if what I’m still doing will continue to be the right choice. The strategies that I employed when I was younger may not be the strategies that will benefit me going forward.

Can you save too much money? The question will stick with me for a good while. I’m happy with how I live my life, but I have to consider the possibility that I could be happier. There’s a chance that I could be spending my money in a way that brings me more joy today while still ensuring that I’ll be taken care of tomorrow. And that’s the goal that I should be striving to fulfill.

Money Mistake #1027 – Finding My Community

As I’ve mentioned a time or two, I’ve made many mistakes with my money. One of my biggest money mistakes involved how I went about finding my community. When I first started to learn about financial independence, early retirement and investing, I made two mistakes based on arrogance. First, I mistakenly assumed that everyone was as interested in it as I was. Second, I believed that I was right.

So I would talk about money with everybody and give them unsolicited advice about how they should save and invest. I cringe when I think back on how I interacted with friends and family over this topic. While I still believe my intentions were good, the truth is that I had no business giving anyone unsolicited advice. I should not have been telling anyone what to do with their money!

As hard as this may be to believe, I failed to contemplate the extremely faint possibility that other people’s priorities and dreams weren’t exactly the same as mine!!!

If you’re here reading my ramblings, then I assume that you have some interest in personal finance. After all, I’m constantly talking about using money as a tool to build the life you want. Money should be allocated in a way that allows you to obtain your heart’s truest desires, atleast the ones that can be obtained with cold, hard cash. I exhort you to only spend your hard-earned money in ways that get you closer to your highest priorities, your most important goals.

In the real world, my family and friends were not willing to talk about money with me. They viewed my discussion of the topic crass, impolite, and – probably – judgmental. Save for one or two people, they were not my money community.

It took me a long time to accept that I couldn’t discuss a topic near and dear to my heart with those I was closest to. Truthfully, I felt hurt because I thought I was offering them help. Again, arrogance played a part in my hurt feelings. I have to admit that I thought my example of how to structure money was worth emulating. After all, that was one of the main reasons why I was sharing my thoughts about money. Despite the arrogance, my hurt feelings were also rooted in the belief that I couldn’t be my true self around those I loved best. I had to hide this side of my life, this part of my personality if I wanted to be with them.

I couldn’t be real with them. That sucked.

I set about finding my community, the ones who would allow me to be authentic in this area of my life.

Time has passed, and I like to think I’m a little bit wiser. Unless specifically asked for advice, I hold my tongue when other people bring up the topic of money. One of the fastest ways to alienate others is to make them feel judged. Sadly, I admit my guilt. I did judge people’s actions with money. I had too little respect for financial viewpoints that differed from my own. Now, I keep my mouth shut unless someone asks me what I think.

And when I am asked for my thoughts, I strive to be supportive when I share. Just because I don’t share someone else’s priorities and goals doesn’t mean that they aren’t entitled to pursue them just as ardently as I pursue mine. Racing in the Indiana 500, climbing Mount Everest, or becoming the world’s best potter might not be my dream, but I will help you figure out ways to fund it if that’s what you need from me.

Thankfully, I have learned. For some people, money is to be spent on the Now because it will create joy today. For them, spontaneity demands that one be willing to spend. Other people simply view life as completely unpredictable and that tomorrow will take care of itself. Everyone brings their own history to every money decision that they have ever made. I’ve known people whose illnesses were never disclosed to me, but they have lived far longer than they’d been told they ever would. For them, planning for retirement was not in the cards because they weren’t expected to live past age 35. What would be the point of saving for a future that they would never see?

Looking back now, it is easy to see why my exhortations to save fell on deaf ears. Everyone was coming at money from their own perspective, one built on their own goals and priorities. It wasn’t for me to change their mind. However, the onus rested on me to change my own viewpoint and to find the space where I could discuss these things.

Enter the internet. I’m old enough to remember chat rooms, so that’s where I started. Then I moved on to blogs, and stumbled upon the grand-daddy of them all – Mr. Money Mustache. And down the rabbit hole I went. Though there have been many wonderful blogs over the years, I don’t remember them all but here’s a quick list of the ones that stick with me:

Finally, I had found a place where others were talking about one of my favorite topics – money. The anonymous posters of the world wide web didn’t want me to shut up when I asked questions about how they invested. I didn’t feel that they were judging me for being curious about this part of life. If anything, I felt like I’d found my tribe, such as one can on this particular platform.

So I read more and more, learning a lot about so many things related to money: CoastFI, real estate investing, the housing bubble, geoarbitrage, early retirement, investment styles, crypto, income inequality, etc… I even found blogs that spoke to high income earners and opened my eyes to how their concerns differed from mine. The blogs that really got me thinking were the ones looking at the intersection of money and social justice. Once your personal needs are met, aren’t we ethically obliged to make the world a better place instead of engaging in further consumerism?

These were things that I could never have discussed with 98.5% of the people in my real life. It felt good to have found my community, even if it was online.

If it had to do with personal finance, I probably spent a fair amount of time reading about it and figuring out if it would work for me.

Finding my community online also helped my relationships in real life. I knew there were others I could talk to about money. That meant I could talk about everything else with family and friends. There was space for me to wonder why they weren’t interested in early retirement, automatic savings plans, the management expense ratios of mutual funds vs. exchange-traded funds. I was able to unload my thoughts about money elsewhere, with people who shared my financial point of view. That meant I didn’t have to work so hard to persuade my inner circle to share it too. I listened to them instead, and learned how they wanted to approach their finances.

And you know what? It was good for me, for our relationships. Their viewpoints helped me to improve my money-choices. I loosened the reins a tiny bit. An impromptu ice cream cone at the park wasn’t going to result in an impoverished dotage. However, it would create a great memory about a summer afternoon with loved ones. Watching how my family and friends spent their money, and the joy it brought them, forced me to question my own choices. Slowly, I realized that I had to find a balance between today and tomorrow.

Finding my community has been fantastic! I need not agree with everything every person posts online, but I have found like-minded people with whom to have discussions. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve also found people in real life who share my interest in money. I no longer need to change the hearts and minds of my family and friends on the topic of money. Finding my community has allowed me to be my authentic money-self without alienating those whom I love best.

Money Should Work Harder Than You Do

One of things that I’ve always understood about investing is that money works harder than people are able to. Money never gets tired, sick, distracted, or unmotivated. It literally works around the clock once it has been invested. People can’t do that. People need food, rejuvenation, sleep and time with loved ones. Those items are vitally important to being a healthy person and to living a good life. They also take people away from doing their jobs.

The trick to being healthy, living a good life and earning lots of money is to send your money out to work. Go back to the title of this post and believe what it says. Money should work harder than you do.

There are a few ways around this particular fact, but most of us have to do the initial work to get money. We exchange our labour (aka: life energy) for a paycheque. The paycheque may be from an employer, from our clients, or from our own business. It doesn’t really matter. We give away our life energy and receive money for our efforts.

The purpose of this post is to remind you that you can work towards a situation where you still earn an income to support your lifestyle without having to earn a paycheque. I’ve written before about how your income and your salary are not the same thing. Your salary is part of your income, but it’s not the only element. There are ways to fund your lifestyle without having to earn a paycheque. One of the ways to do this is by increasing your dividend and capital gains income. Dividend income and capital gains income are what I like to call passive income. As far as I’m concerned, passive income is wonderful.

Dividends and capital gains are monies paid to shareholders when companies make a profit. Your goal, should you wish to increase your income, is to invest in companies that pay dividends and capital gains. There are a number of ways to do so, but I strongly recommend exchange-traded funds and index funds. If you want to do individual stock-picking, then more power to you. That’s not my cup of tea because I don’t know how to do it.

Sadly, there is no way around the fact that you likely won’t earn life-changing amounts of dividends and capital gains at the start of your investment journey. Let me be clear. Your invested money will earn passive income. However, it will take some time before your passive income is enough for you to live on. This is one of the reasons why it’s important that you consistently invest each and every time you get paid. Secondly, you should aim to increase the amount you invest. Start with whatever amount you can commit and increase that amount over time.

You have to invest your money in order for it to work for you. The simple idea of investing has never generated a single nickel for anyone. Ask me how I know this. One of my biggest money mistakes was to not start investing my former mortgage payments as soon as that particular debt was gone. Instead, I spent years thinking about starting a dividend-heavy portfolio. I earned nothing while I was, in effect, procrastinating. The month after I stopped thinking and actually started doing, I earned my first dividend. I haven’t looked back since.

Remember how I said that your money should work around the clock? I wasn’t kidding. I set up a dividend re-investment plan, often called a DRIP. This way, my dividends are automatically re-invested into more units of my chosen ETFs and index funds. The dividends don’t sit in my bank account, and I’m not tempted to spend them. They are immediately put to work for the sole purpose of making even more passive income for me. It’s a highly lucrative feedback loop.

If you wanted, you could do the same thing.

Now, even though I’m a big fan of the Financial Independence Retire Early (F.I.R.E.) movement, I’m a super-huge fan of the FI part. I firmly believe that everyone who earns a paycheque should be working towards financial independence. If you part ways from your employer, or are otherwise unable to earn your keep, having a cushion of cash that’s funded by passive income is your safety net. The passive income can replace your earned income, if you choose to go back to work, or it can fund your retirement if you decide that working for a living no longer turns your crank.

Early retirement is not everyone’s goal. Some people love their jobs. There is no reason why they should stop doing what they love. The same cannot be said for financial independence. The best of both worlds is loving what you do and having financial independence. Most of us won’t have the former but all of us can work towards achieving the latter.

However, the money won’t start working for you, nor be there when you need it, unless you start investing part of your paycheque today. So start today – stay consistent – increase the amount you invest as you’re able to – achieve financial independence – live life & be happy!

Learning from my mistakes & doing better

You need not make every mistake yourself. There’s always the option of learning from my mistakes, or others’ mistakes, and doing better. It’s one of the better aspects of being a sentient being who can learn from the world around them.

Back in 2008/2009, there was a recession. I got scared and I stopped contributing to my investment portfolio. This was a huge mistake! (And I’ve made many mistakes over the years when it come to my money.) There’s no way to go back in time and change my choices. So, this time around, it’s incumbent on me to not make the same mistake.

Though the experts haven’t yet called it such, I’m pretty sure that we’re in the very beginning of a recession. The stock market’s gains from 2021 have been wiped out. My investment portfolio has suffered a 6-figure loss! I’ve stopped checking its value because it’s too alarming to see the numbers continue to drop day-by-day.

When my portfolio suffered losses in 2008/2009, I made a big mistake. My error was to stop investing my money while the stock market was on sale. The stock market, as a whole, was falling in value. That means it was on sale! I should not have stopped contributing money from every paycheque. Instead, I should have stuck to my plan and continued to buy units in my selected mutual funds. (At the time, I had not yet switched over to cheaper-and-equally-effective option of buying exchange-traded funds.)

Do not make this mistake with your own investment portfolio. Continue to invest your money!

This time around, I’ve stuck to my plan. A portion of every paycheque is still being re-directed to my selected ETFs. Since the unit price of my ETFs is down, I’m buying more units with the same amount of money. And when the unit price goes back up, which it will, the value of my portfolio will benefit from having bought the additional units at a cheaper price.

If you haven’t started, now’s the time.

If you haven’t started investing in the stock market, now is a great time to do so. Everything is down, which means everything is on sale. Don’t ever believe that the stock market only goes up. Its nature is to go up and down. This is normal. Right now, it’s going down. It will go back up at some point, but you need not worry when.

In my inexpert opinion, money that you don’t need for a long time should be funnelled into the stock market. I used to believe that a person had to be completely debt-free before investing. My views have become more nuanced. If you’re in your 30s, 40s or 50s, and you haven’t yet started investing, I would not suggest focusing solely on your debts. Even if you can only squirrel away $50 each month for investing, do so. As you pay off your debts, you can use 75% of your former debt payment to increase the size of the initial $50 contribution.

Your $450/month payment is finally done? Great! Add $337.50 (= $450 x 75%) to your $50 so that you’re now contributing $387.50 per month to your investment portfolio.

Time in the market is necessary for your portfolio to grow. Starting to invest during a recession is a good thing for you. It means you’re buying when prices are low. The more you buy now, the better your upside when the stock market starts growing again.

Also, you’ll have to develop a thick skin to deal with the volatility of the market. Remember, stock market investing is a long-term play. This won’t be the last recession that you’ll have to endure. Starting in a recession today will make the less volatile times ever so much more pleasant. You’ll also be that much more experienced when the next recession rolls around.

Stick to ETFs to keep your MERs as low as possible.

Learning from my mistakes and doing better means you can avoid paying higher-than-absolutely-necessary MERs. I used to invest in mutual funds. Canada has some of the most expensive mutual funds in the world, which means that people who own mutual funds pay more in management expense ratios that people who own ETFs.

When Vanguard Canada became an option for me, I compared their ETFs to the mutual funds in my investment portfolio. The ETFs were comprised of the same companies that were in my mutual funds. In other words, I could still invest in the same companies for a much lower MER.

I used to pay 1%-1.5% in MERs on my mutual funds. When I only had an investment portfolio of $10,000, the MER shaved off $100-$150 every year. That’s not a horrible amount of money. However, I knew that I would be investing for another 20 years or so, and that I wanted my portfolio to grow much larger than $10,000. The question was whether I wanted the investment company to siphon away more of my money every year. After all, whatever monies weren’t eaten by the MER would stay invested in my portfolio and have the chance to grow over time.

Put yourself in my shoes. Would you rather pay $15,000 or $3500 for nearly-identical investment products? What makes the mutual fund worth an additional $11,000 per year?

Today, my portfolio is brushing up against the Double-Comma Club of $1,000,000. It makes no sense to pay $10,000-$15,000 in MERs each year when I can pay MERs of 0.35% or less.

Save yourself from another one of my mistakes, which was needlessly paying too much in MERs for my investment holding. Invest in ETFs instead of mutual funds. If you’re currently in mutual funds, find a comparable ETF and move your money to the ETF.

Stock-Picking is not for me!

My suggestion that you invest in the stock market while it’s down is NOT for those of you who want to buy individual stocks.

I don’t do stock picking. Personally, I find it takes too much of my time and it’s a very good way to lose money. I don’t have the expertise to understand any given industry, nor how any one company can guarantee dominance in its industry. The only individual stocks I own are the ones my parents bought for me when I was a baby. Again, I don’t do stock picking. I choose to only invest in ETFs because they have built-in diversification and I’m not committing my money to any one company. ETFs allow me to invest in a variety of industries and a much larger number of companies than I ever could otherwise.

To me, stock-picking requires a level of expertise and commitment that I simply don’t care to develop at this stage of my life. There’s always a chance that will change. If you want to do stock picking, then do your research first and make sure you know what you’re doing.

In a nutshell, don’t stop investing in the stock market just because we’re going into a recession. If one of your money mistakes is that you haven’t started to invest, then this is a great time to rectify that error. The stock market is down, which means investment products are on sale. You need to get your money into the stock market, and you need to leave it there to grow over a long period of time. Don’t procrastinate any longer – start today!

Power thru the volatility & stick to your knitting

There’s no doubt about it. We’re in a period of volatility in the stock market. For the first time, in a long time, there’s been a run of “down” days. The stock market has been in the red and the market has closed lower than the day before. I do not claim to be any kind of expert on such things, but even I can see that the value of my portfolio is dropping too. This is entirely due to the fact that I’m invested in the stock market.

So what’s my next move? What steps should I take to make my portfolio go up?

Short answer: it’s time for me to stick to my knitting!

I can’t do anything to move the stock market the way I want it to go, which is up. The factors I control are how much I contribute, how often, and into which investment. Everything else is out of my hands. Over the long term, the stock market goes up. This has been proven repeatedly in the past. I have no reason to think it won’t go up again in the future. So I’m going to power thru the volatility.

And you should power thru the volatility too.

I view what we’re experiencing now as a correction. It’s happened before, and it will happen again. Corrections are completely normal! Do the Talking Heads of economic media generate a lot of jibber-jabber about them? Yes, they do…. because that’s their job. The jibber-jabber results in viewers, which translate into ratings, which translate into money.

Pay them no mind. Stick to you knitting.

When the 2009 correction rolled around, I made one of my biggest ever investing mistakes. I stopped making regular contributions into the market. In other words, I halted my dollar-cost averaging system of investing. I froze like a deer in the headlights because I focused on the jibber-jabber. I stopped my contributions for 3 months. Yikes! Huge mistake! Doing so meant that I wasn’t investing at the bottom, when the market was at its cheapest. I waited until the recovery and then I re-started my investment system. This was one of the stupidest moves I have ever made, and I promised myself that I would never make that particular mistake again!

Learn from mistakes wherever you find them.

You need not make this mistake yourself. Don’t stop contributing to your investments just because we’re in a period of volatility. Trust in your plan. You’re investing for the long-term, remember?

There have been subsequent corrections, and I’m happy to say that I’ve kept my promise. No matter what, my automatic transfer funnels money from my chequing account to my investment account and I buy units in my ETFs on the appointed day. My investment strategy has remained consistent ever since 2009.

These past two weeks haven’t been fun. No one likes to see the value of their portfolio decrease, including me. I’ve decided to stop checking the value of my portfolio for a little while. Before this correction started, I would check the value each day and smile to myself. Lately, my smile’s been turned upside-down. I’ve chosen not to torment myself. My transfer will remain in place, and I will continue to invest in my selected ETFs. However, I’ll check my portfolio’s value less frequently.

This is the lesson I learned from the 2009 correction. The stock market will never go to 0. It will go up and down, but it will never go all the way down to 0. I’m investing for the long haul. Even after retirement, there’s a good chance I’ll be around for another 20-30 years. This means I still have decades of investment ahead of me. (Whether I’ll be investing as much during retirement as I do now remains to be determined.) There is no point in worrying about the day-to-day gyrations of the stock market when I’m still invested for the long-term.

Allow me to very clear on this next point – I am not an expert. My wisdom, such as it is, comes from years of personal experience. I cannot predict the future, and I don’t know your particular circumstances. I am not qualified by anyone to give you expert advice. What I say is based on what has worked for me & for those in my circle who discuss such things. I fully admit that my experience is not going to be the same as yours.

That said, I want you improve your odds of ensuring that Future You is financially secure. Continue to invest in the stock market. Take a long-term view. Keep atleast 60% of your portfolios in equities. Invest on a regular basis. Stick to your knitting and ignore the jibber-jabber. Save – invest – learn – repeat. Power thru the volatility and enjoy the rewards on the other side of this correction.

Living Underwater is Fantastic for Fish & Bad for People!

When it comes to mortgages, you never want to be underwater. Repeat after me – living underwater is for fish, not people!

A person is underwater on their mortgage when the mortgage amount owing is higher than the value of the house. For example, if you have a $450,000 mortgage but you would only be able to sell your house for $395,000, then you are underwater on our mortgage.

This is a not a desirable situation because it means you cannot sell your house without taking the deficiency to the bank in order to pay off the bank. In the above example, the deficiency is $55,000 (=$450,000 – $395,000). The mortgage debt to the bank can only satisfied by a payment of $450,000. This is known as discharging the debt.

Unfortunately for you, potential buyers of your home are only willing to give you $395,000. In order for the bank to discharge your mortgage debt, you would need to take the $395,000 from the buyers of your home and another $55,000 from your own pocket to the bank.

Just out of curiosity, do you have an extra $55,000 lying around? No? Then you, my friend, are trapped in your house.

The Downsides of Being Trapped in a House

If you’ve got no reasons to leave the house you’re in, then living underwater on your mortgage is an academic problem. Since you’re not going anywhere, there’s no issue about having to pay any sort of deficiency to the bank. You can continue to pay your mortgage and wait for the real estate market to recover. Even if recovery takes a decade, you don’t need to care since you won’t be trying to discharge the mortgage on your house.

The situation is quite different if you want to move across the country for a new job, or your health status changes and your home is no longer suitable for you. There are any number of reasons why you might choose to move your current abode to another one. None of them change the fact that being underwater on your mortgage means you can’t sell your place without satisfying your full debt to the bank.

I ask you again, do you have enough money in your wallet to satisfy the deficiency and get the mortgage discharge you need?

Mortgage Rates are Rising

Those without a mortgage can be forgiven for not realizing that the cost of mortgages is increasing. For the rest of you, it’s imperative that you start thinking ahead. When it comes time to renew your mortgage, will your budget accommodate a 1%-2% increase in your current rate?

If the answer is “No”, or “I don’t know”, then you should be making extra payments to your mortgage. Make extra payments as often as you can. And make those payments are large as you can! This will ensure that, at renewal time, your mortgage is as small as it can be. This means that your new payment at the higher rate will be lower than it would be otherwise.

You can use an online calculator to estimate the size of your next mortgage payment. Whatever rate you’re paying now, add 2%. Assuming you’ll be renewing a mortgage of $350,000 and the anticipated 5-year rate at renewal time will be 5%, here are the mortgage payments generated by this online calculator.

  • If you’re renewing with a $350,000 balance at 5%, then your bi-weekly mortgage payment is $1,017.81 or $2,025.62 monthly.
  • If you’re renewing with a $325,000 balance at 5%, then your bi-weekly mortgage payment is $945.11 or $1890.22 each month.

How to Stop Being Underwater

There are a few ways to stop being underwater. Some are harder than others. The most effective way to cease living underwater is next to impossible – you can change market conditions so that the value of your house rises above the balance on your mortgage. See what I mean? That method is next to impossible. Manipulating market conditions likely isn’t within your particular skillset.

Your best bet is to find a way to make extra payments on your mortgage until the balance equals, or is less than, your mortgage’s balance. At that point, the trap is sprung! In other words, what you get from a potential buyer is enough to satisfy you debt to the bank.

Paying extra on your mortgage is a simple plan. Note that I said “simple”, not “easy”. Depending on your other financial obligations, it might not be easy to find the extra money to throw at your mortgage. You might take on another job or start a business. Maybe you’ll sell you no longer need or take in a roommate.

Ridding yourself of non-mortgage debt facilitates another way to make extra payments. Maybe you owe money on student loans, credit cards, vehicle loans, or other consumer loans. As you pay off other debts, re-direct that former payment to your mortgage. Think about it. You were already sending that money to a creditor, so you’ll keep doing so. Your lifestyle won’t change since you were living without that money anyway. All that will change is the name of the creditor.

However you choose to do it, the goal is to stop living underwater on your mortgage.