A Woman Always Needs Her Own Money.

Single or not, a woman needs her own money.

Full stop. I’ll never be convinced otherwise so don’t even try. I’ve lived for a long time and I see the importance of having money in the bank. The only thing that money buys is options. The more money you have, the more choices you get to make about how to live your life. When you don’t have your own money, you’re living at the risk that someone else might take away access to shelter, food, transportation, and everything else that you need to have the life you want.

International Women’s Day was celebrated on March 8, 2024. Think about yourself and the women in your life. What are you doing to take care of your money so that it’s always in place to take care of you?

A good portion of self-care is having money. It’s never explicitly stated but money gives you the ability to walk away from situations that you don’t want in your life. Job sucks but you have money in your FU-fund? Then you can walk away and find another one without worrying about how to pay your bills. You want to move because your new neighbours blast their music until 3am every night? You’ve got the money for the damage deposit already sitting in the bank, waiting to be deployed. You want to take a sabbatical because you’ve been grinding for years and you’re simply burned out? Money in the bank means that your bills will be paid while you replenish your soul.

Always have your own money, Ladies! There should be atleast two bank accounts that only have your name on them. One account should be a chequing account, for day to day expense and monthly bills. The other account should be your investing account. You should be funneling money into your investment account from your chequing account every time you get paid. The money invested in the second account will be there to pay for your life once you’re no long employed. Money invested today funds the retirement of Future You, who will tire of going to work at some point.

You need an emergency fund to cover your life’s expenses if you and your income part ways. The emergency fund keeps financial vulnerability away. Trust me! It is far more precarious to depend on the kindness of strangers than it is to have 6-12 months of income in the bank.

A little bit of today’s money should be spent on those luxuries that bring you joy. You shouldn’t be at the mercy of someone else’s mood every time you want to splurge on something. Do you want to book a trip to Paris? Tokyo? Ghana? Maybe you want a weekend away in a ski chalet? Or maybe you’ve decided it’s time to buy that vintage car you’ve been eyeing. Whatever you little luxury is, you deserve to buy it for yourself without having to worry what anyone else has to say. If you’re dependent someone else for your money, then you’re in the financial position of a child and you need to wait for someone to give you spending money.

This week I heard someone say that money can’t buy happiness. What is equally true is that poverty can’t buy anything. If satisfying your hunger makes you happy, then you’ll need money to purchase food. Grocery stores and restaurants aren’t giving it away for free. Maybe you need medication for a chronic condition, or even a one-off medical concern? If so, then you need money to buy the medicine you need. Camping and homelessness both involve living outside yet one costs money while the other one doesn’t. Tell me honestly – wouldn’t you prefer to say “I went camping” rather than “I am homeless”?

In honour of International Women’s day, I encourage all women to do what they must to get their own money. It is the one tool that can be used however you want. You need money to create the life you want and to pursue the opportunities that come you way. Money amplifies your ability to make choices without needing someone else’s financial permission. Every woman should have that.

Have You Decided How to Spend Extra Money?

Most of us dream of winning the lottery, but there are times when smaller lump-sums come into our lives. What should be done with that extra money?

In my humble opinion, you should split that extra money in the following way:

  • 50% to your investments
  • 30% to your debts (if you have any)
  • 10% to your emergency fund
  • 10% to whatever you want

Investments need to be funded.

My advice is to invest money when you have money. Your Tax Free Savings Account and your Registered Retirement Savings Plan will not fund themselves. It’s up to you to put the money into both of these accounts. Once you’ve made the contributions to your TFSA and RRSP, you have to invest that money so that it can grow over a long period of time.

If you’ve already maxed out your TFSA and RRSP contribution room, then put the money into your non-registered brokerage account. The government taxes capital gains and dividends earned in your brokerage account less than it taxes income received from your employer. This is a very good thing.

So when that “extra money” lands in your bank account, invest half of it.

Pay down your debts.

In an ideal world, you don’t have any debts.

Most of us don’t live in an ideal world. Debt is a part of many people’s lives via student loans, credit card debt, medical debt, mortgages, car loans, etc… I view debt as a financial cancer. Debt prevents you from building your own financial cushion. It prevent you from accumulating wealth. When you send money to your creditors, then you’re unable to invest those same dollars for Future You. Debt limits your ability to make life a little bit easier for Today You.

So when extra money comes your way, send atleast 30% of that amount to your debts. If you want my opinion, pay off any debts that can be paid in full. I subscribe to the Debt Snowball method of repayment because it feels good to get rid of debt. Positive psychological boosts are generally good motivators, so I’m a fan.

Top up your emergency fund.

It takes a very long time to build up an emergency fund. While some people are comfortable with a smaller one, my goal is to work my way up to 12-months worth of expenses. I’ve yet to meet this goal and I’m still working towards it. Thanks to my automatic transfers, I’ll get there eventually.

In the interests of transparency, I’ll tell you that I recently had to pull money from my emergency fund. Accordingly, refilling my emergency fund has moved up my priority list for my money. I need my cushion to be replenished as soon as possible because there’s no way to know when the next emergency will arrive.

When extra money comes your way, it’s an extremely good idea to put atleast 10% of that money into your emergency fund. You don’t know when that emergency is going to land. There is a high likelihood that there will be a financial component to your emergency. Right now, there’s no way for you to know how big that financial hit will be. Trust me when I say that you will be very happy to have some money salted away the day that you have to deal with your emergency.

Spend the rest however you want.

That’s right. I want you to spend the last 10% of your extra money however you want.

While I firmly believe that it’s important to save for the future and to get out of debt, I realize that one of the main benefits of money is buying those things that will make you happy today. Is it a nice dinner out? Maybe a day on the links? Or you need to refill your wine-rack? Perhaps you want to upgrade your phone or your computer? Is there a getaway that you’ve been wanting to do?

Whatever it is, make it happen with the remaining money without going into debt.

Let your priorities guide you.

It’s your money. You’re the one deciding how to spend your extra money. My suggestion allocation of how to use that money is for those who might need help in figuring out what to do with their extra money.

Now, the allocation suggested above is just my preference. Other people might have different priorities for their extra money. Some people might want to put all that money towards paying off their debts. There are others who will put the whole amount into their investments. Of course, there are also those who will see this as “found money” and will choose to spend the entire amount on whatever they want at the moment.

Do what makes sense for your life. Having a plan for your extra money ensures that your priorities are met, and that you’re not left wondering where all that money went.

Procrastination is the Thief of Time.

Truer words have never been spoken. When it comes to investing your money, procrastination is also robbing your wallet.

See – it’s like this. If you invest $0 today, then you’ll definitely have $0 tomorrow.

On the other hand, if you invest something, then you’ll have way more than $0. The more you invest, the more you’ll have. It’s a simple, direct relationship between the choices you make today and the outcomes that you’ll have tomorrow.

First lesson – invest your money. Start with what you can and work your way up. I suggest increasing your investment contribution by 1% every year. When you get paid capital gains and dividends, re-invest them.

Keep an eyes on your management expense ratios. The MER is the amount of money that is fleeced from your account. I look at it this way. The businesses that offer the investment products need to get paid too. That’s fair. What is not fair is me paying 2% per year instead of 0.35% (or less) for the same product from someone else.

Play around with this investing fees calculator for a little bit. It shows you the impact of MERs on your investment account. The longer you keep your account, the more money is siphoned away to someone else. By choosing good investments with lower MERs, you’ll be keeping more of your returns in your own pocket.

Second lesson – understand the impact of fees. Canada has a reputation for having some of the highest MERs in the world. The longer you pay higher MERs, the less money you’ll have for Future You when you really need it. Try to pick investment products with low MERs.

Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. You’ll always learn more from your mistakes than you will from your successes. Make your mistakes. Learn from them. Don’t make the same one over and over again. Your goal should be to earn-save-invest-learn-repeat. It’s a pattern that should never stop. As you learn better, you’ll do better.

Trust me. I started out investing in mutual funds with one of the Big Six banks. I wasn’t paying a 2% MER, but it was around 1.75%. I didn’t know any better. The Big Six bank didn’t even have a way for me to automatically deposit to my mutual funds every month. I did it in person, which got weird very quickly. So I went to an investment firm. I loved that investment firm, and I got wonderful service every time I called. Unfortunately, while the MERs were lower, they were still pretty high. But I didn’t know any better so I stayed with them.

Eventually, I started hearing about something called exchange-traded funds, or ETFs for short. They offered the same diversification as mutual funds but with MERs that were much, much lower. By the time Vanguard came to Canada, I couldn’t move my accounts fast enough.

Third lesson – make your mistakes fast so you can learn fast. No one is perfect at investing, and everyone makes mistakes sometimes. The key is to learn from your mistakes so you don’t repeat them. The biggest mistake that you can make when it comes to investing is to never start.

If you’re not yet investing, start today. If you’ve started and your MERs are too high, then move your accounts to equally good and less expensive options. If your MERs are low already, then work on increasing your contribution amount by 1%. Make sure you’ve turned on the dividend re-investment plan feature on all your investments. If your brokerage doesn’t allow for a DRIP feature, then move your accounts to one that does. Trust me on this. You most certainly want to have the DRIP in place so that your investment returns compound as fast as possible.

You’re smart enough to learn how to do this. The fact that you’re here, reading my blog, means that you have an interest in attaining financial security at some point. That’s the seed that’s needed to plant your Money Tree. By starting today, you’re preventing procrastination from stealing any more time from you.

Scared of Making Investing Mistakes? Do It Anyway.

You learn a lot from failure. It’s a more instructive teacher than success.

Everyone makes mistakes with their investments. Warren Buffett started investing when he was 10. Do not let anyone convince you that every investment he’s made in his entire life was a winner. If I had to guess, I’m sure that he’s made a really bad investment or two in his time. No one picks a winner every single time, not even Warren Buffett.

The reason he became super-rich is due in part to the fact that he never gave up investing after making his mistakes. You shouldn’t either.

The fact that Mr. Buffett has been investing for the past 83 years also hasn’t hurt him. Take a page from his book. Once you’ve started down the investing road, don’t stray from the path. Invest – err – learn – repeat. That’s the key to getting good at anything.

You need to start investing today. My inexpert & amateur recommendation is that you start investing into your TFSA. Don’t be misled by the name – Tax Free Savings Account. This account is best used for investing your money, not saving your money.

If you invest $0 this year, then you’ll only be harming yourself. Procrastination is your enemy when it comes to investing your money for long-term growth. Think of how far ahead you’d be with your investing knowledge if you’d started 10 or 15 years ago. Let that be your impetus to stop dawdling and to start doing.

Start with $1/day. That’s $365 going into your TFSA. If you can swing $2/day, then that’s $730 working for you on a tax-free basis. And if you think anything less than $1,000/year isn’t worth attempting, then all you need to set aside is $3/day to have $1,095 working hard for you.

Invest your money…and learn from your failures. No one is expecting you to be perfect the first time out. As a matter of fact, it would be downright weird if you never made mistakes with your money. I’m not suggesting that you make money mistakes on purpose. I just don’t want you to be so paralyzed with fear of making mistakes that you never invest.

If you could remember when you learned to walk, then you’d remember how many times you tried and fell down. Each time, you got back up and you tried again. Your first forgotten lesson was that you couldn’t move both feet at the same time. You next lesson was probably that holding onto something made walking a lot easier. Couches, tables, a bigger person’s fingers – whatever was steady and handy was good enough. Next, you figured out that you could do it on your own but leaning too far back or too far forward resulted in toppling over. It took a bit of time, but eventually you got very, very good at walking. Now, you do it with barely a second thought.

Bottom line is that you mastered walking. The same can be said for investing. Try – fail – learn – repeat. You’ll make errors. So what? Make them quickly, learn from them, then never make the same one twice. Learn from others’ mistakes too. That’s a perfectly valid way to learn a lesson. Re-invest your dividends. Increase your automatic transfer amount as you’re able to do so. Max out your TFSA. Then max out your RRSP. Then open a brokerage account and invest money there too. It doesn’t have to, and very likely won’t, happen quickly but it will happen. So long as you start today.

If you’re 18 or over, open your TFSA. It’s easy. Every financial institution has made it a seamless process to open your TFSA online. Do you have one already? Great! Set up an automatic savings transfer. Every time you get paid, money goes into your TFSA. I would suggest $24/paycheque since we’re going into 2024. You can pick your own number, whatever your budget can bear. In 2024, the maximum TFSA contribution is $7,000. Don’t beat yourself up if you can’t put in the maximum contribution. Anything more than $0 is fantastic!

And if you’re under 18, you can’t legally open a TFSA. That shouldn’t stop you from opening a savings account at an online bank. (Most youth accounts at brick-and-mortar banks are free too, but don’t use a bank where you have to pay fees.) Put your money into your savings account. When you turn 18, open a TFSA then transfer the money over.

Everyone starts somewhere. Your journey won’t be the same as everyone else’s but you do need to start. And once you do, don’t stop. Keep that investment train chugging along by investing a portion of every paycheque for long-term growth.

Automatic Savings Plans Perform Better Than Promises.

Another year is quickly barreling towards its expiration date, and that means it’s time for me to assess what I’ve learned about money and my own behaviour towards it. And this year, the big thing that I’ve learned is that automatic savings plans perform better than promises.

For the most part, I have the same financial goals every year:

  • Max out my TFSA & RRSP contributions.
  • Have a sinking fund for my annual property taxes and insurance premiums.
  • Take a trip, whether domestic or overseas.
  • Renew my Broadway Across Canada subscription.
  • Contribute money towards the education funds of younger family members.
  • Pay off my credit cards in full every month.
  • Invest a big chunk of every paycheque for my retirement years.
  • Buy birthday and holiday presents for family and friends.

These are my priorities each year. Some are long-term goals for my money, while others are very definitely short-term goals. I generally have sinking funds for each of them. These little pots of money make it super-easy for me to pay for big expenditures every year without worry.

That said… yet there is one goal that I set for myself that is just as un-finished as it was at the start of 2023. That goal relates to my emergency fund. You see, I had promised myself that I would add atleast $2,000 to my emergency fund this year. It didn’t happen.

And why didn’t it happen?

Dear Reader, the answer to that question is very simple. Promises about money don’t work as well as automatic savings transfers. Had I spend 2 minutes in January setting up a transfer of $100 every payday from my chequing account to my emergency fund, I would’ve easily hit my goal. Instead, I promised myself that I would send any “leftover” money to cover my future emergencies.

Do you want to take a guess of how many times I actually transferred that leftover money?

Zero. That’s right. Over the past 346 days, I haven’t made a single deposit to my emergency fund.

Ask me what I’ll be doing on the morning of January 1, 2024. You guessed it! I’ll be setting up an automatic savings transfer of $100. Knowing myself as I do, I cannot count on myself to abide by financial promises. Instead, my most effective route to achieve my goal is to use the power of automation and allow inertia to do the work for me. Once I’ve put an automatic savings transfer in place, I’m loathe to interfere with it. Increasing the transfer amount is permissible, but cancelling the transfer is unfathomable to me. This is how I know that creating another transfer to increase my emergency fund will be extremely effective in getting me to my goal.

The part that really chaps my cheeks is that I use automatic savings plans for nearly all of my other financial goals. My cherished sinking funds aren’t funded by well-wishes and good thoughts. Nope! I have automatic savings transfers in place. My chequing account is fat and juicy for roughly 25 minutes on payday before steadily being eroded by my various transfers.

Relying on automation has been one of the most effective methods I’ve used to build my investment portfolio. I don’t have to choose to invest when I get paid because the computers are doing the heavy lifting for me.

So why am I so backwards with my emergency fund? That’s a very good question, but I don’t have any good answers. Here’s the key though… I don’t need to have a good answer before I rectify the problem. I can ponder that problem for as long as my heart desires after I’ve set up the automatic savings transfer to my emergency fund. The questions about why I didn’t do what I should have done can linger for as long as my brain wishes to dwell on them. I don’t really care about the answers. What I have to do is set up a system to save myself from my own bad choices and habits.

In this case, it’s another automatic savings transfer for the win!

What are Your Money Goals for 2024?

At the time of his point, there are 26 days left in 2023. Hard to believe that this year will be done in little over 3 weeks, but that’s the reality we’re living in. Maybe you should take a few minutes to think about 2024 and your money goals for the upcoming year.

If you don’t have any, that’s okay. I’ll lend you one of mine. It’s simple and straighforward:

Now, this isn’t my only money goal. And this one needs a bit of polish because it’s a bit vague. After all, what does “a nice chuck mean”?

For me, it means investing $1 out of every $3 that I bring home. You can choose a different percentage if you want. Maybe you’re hardcore and you want to invest atleast 50%. That’s fine. Or perhaps you’re just starting out and you want to go small, with something like 5% or 10%. It’s not ideal, but it’s definitely a way better than investing 0% of your take-home pay.

The next area that needs fleshing out is the part about investing. After all, money sitting in a bank account is not invested. It’s an emergency account, or maybe even a sinking fund. However, it is most definitely not invested for growth. And I want my money grown big and strong!

For me, investing my money means filling my TFSA and my RRSP with equity-based exchange traded funds. Equity-based ETFs allow me to buy small pieces of a great many companies that are listed on the stock-exchange. As these companies grow, so do my investments in them. At some point, those companies will pay out dividends and capital gains. In a nutshell, this is passive income that is taxed much more lightly than my paycheque. For the record, I love earning dividends and capital gains!

Living below my means is a simple shorthand phrase that means I won’t spend every penny I make. Oh, I’ll definitely spend some of my take-home pay. I just won’t spend all of it. After all, if I spend it all then I’ll have nothing left to invest. Without anything to invest, I’ll have no way of ensuring that my dividends and capital gains grow large enough to replace my paycheque. And that would be a shame.

What about you?

Think about your life. Determine whether you want something different. Either way, carefully consider if the money you have is being used to make your life just the way you want it to be.

And be ruthlessly honest with yourself. Are you spending to impress others? Do you have things just because other people have them?

For myself, I cancelled one of my streaming services today. It wasn’t that I couldn’t afford it. Rather, my motivation for cancelling was that I simply didn’t want to pay for it anymore because it wasn’t making my life better. It doesn’t matter that others have that service. That’s their choice and, hopefully, it brings them great joy. For me, this expense won’t be missed. The money can go towards something else.

Do you have expenses like that in your life? Are you still paying for something even though it no longer brings you happiness? If yes, then what’s stopping you from cancelling that service?

Never forget that you should always be the one in control of your money. You’re a Single Person, which means that you don’t have to consult anyone else about how to spend your money. This is one of the superpowers of being single. Every penny you earn is yours to do with as you please.

Don’t give away your superpower!

Next Steps on the Path

Perhaps you’ve already set up your sinking funds, your DRIPs, and your automatic savings plans. You’ve already done everything to make sure that your money is working hard and churning out those sweet, sweet dividends and capital gain. Congratulations!

What is the next step? Well, I would have to say that your next step is figuring out how to best spend your the rest of your money.

While I’m a huge proponent of savings and investing, I also know that we have to live in the present too. There’s no sense getting to dotage and not having anything to reflect back on. Also, no one is promised tomorrow. That’s why it’s so vitally important to live in the present once you’ve set up systems to have your money automatically invested.

Is there a class you want to take in 2024? If yes, then put it on your list. Are you interested in travelling beyond your city, province, country? If so, then jot that down too. What about moving? Replacing a vehicle? Taking another job? Joining an amateur sports league? Starting a garden?

Whatever it is, write it down. That’s the first step. And then, you prioritize which goals absolutely have to be done in 2024 and which ones can roll over a little bit longer. For example, let’s say you want a new car but your current vehicle works just fine. That’s okay. You can still want another vehicle. All you need to do is take advantage of the fact that your current one is running just fine. Start a sinking fund and throw a “car payment” in there very month. Assuming all goes well, your current vehicle will run until you have enough money to buy the next one.

See how that works? You wrote down a money goal and you came up with a plan to get what you want. By creating a sinking fund and using an automatic transfer plan, you won’t have to go into debt. Maybe it will take a few years to save up for this big of a purchase but so what? If something bad happens to your current vehicle, the money will be there as a down payment on the next one and your car payments – shudder!!! – will go to your financing company instead of your sinking fund.

Let’s go back to the example of you taking a course. Maybe you’ve always wanted to take a culinary tour in Italy. Food and travel combined – what could be better? Write it down. Is this very, very important to you? If yes, then start a sinking fund today for this trip so that you need not rely on debt to achieve this goal. Once your automatic savings plan is in place, the next step is to visit Google and get a list of websites for companies that offer these kinds of tours. While you’re building the stash you need to move this money goal from your Want-To-Do list to your One-of-the-Best-Things-I’ve-Ever-Done list, you’ll be learning about what it takes to get the most out of this kind of trip.

Living the Life You Want Is Achievable

So long as you control how your money is spent, you can achieve all of your money goals. The first step is defining what your money goals. The second step is sticking to your plan. The final step is living the dream life that you’ve created for yourself.

Don’t delay anymore. Decide what you want then go and get it!

The Secret to Wealth? Invest the Difference.

Three little words. These three small words have the power to change your financial destiny if you make the choice to implement them in your life.

Invest the difference. What does that mean?

In a nutshell, it means you should be living below your means. The LBYM-lifestyle translates into always having a gap between what you earn and what you spend. Your goal is to make the difference between your earnings and you spending as big as possible while still enjoying your life from day to day. Then you’ll take that amount, ie. the difference, and you’ll invest it for the long-term. The bigger that amount, the sooner you’ll reap your investment gains. Then you’ll let those gains compound for a couple of decades. At some point, your investment gains will able to support Future You, whether wholly or in part, when you’re no longer able to send your body out to make money.

Kindly keep in mind that staying out of debt is a key part of living below your means. If you’re constantly paying money to creditors month after month after month, then you won’t have those dollars going into your investment portfolio. Also, paying creditors 29.99% when you can only reasonably expect an average return of 8%-10% over the long-term is a losing proposition for you.

Pay off your debts then start investing.

If you have debts, focus on paying them off first.

Unless you’re over 35. If you’ve hit your mid-30s, then you need to invest while you’re simultaneously paying down your debts. Yes – you’ll pay a little more interest this way, since your debts will stick around longer. In my humble opinion, that’s not your biggest concern. Once you’re solidly into your adult years, then you need to start making adult decisions. And one of those decisions is to take care of Future You by investing money for your care and feeding 30 years from today. Once you’ve hit your mid-30s, then you need your money to be working for you as soon as possible. In your case, ASAP = immediately. It doesn’t not mean “tomorrow”.

The trick will be to not go into anymore debt. Make a plan and stick to it. As your debts get whittled away, re-direct 50%-75% of your former loan payments to your investment. The rest of the former payment can be spent bulking up your emergency fund. If your emergency fund already holds 9-12 months expenses, then spend that money on the little luxuries that make your life more comfortable.

Maybe you want to enjoy a nice bottle of wine once a month? Or would you rather travel somewhere? Perhaps you finally have the money to comfortably handle the long-term financial commitment of a pet? You know what you want better than I do. My point is that you should use some of that money to add what you really want into your life.

If you need a plan for how to pay down your debts, I would suggest using the Debt Snowball method. Despite the controversies that are always swirling around the man who made them famous, this method of paying off debt is an effective and straightforward way to rid your life of creditors. Do not go into further debt while paying off your current ones. I cannot stress this enough. Staying out of debt is incredibly important to Future You’s survival and comfort.

Where should you invest your money?

In my humble and inexpert opinion, your money should first go into your Tax Free Savings Account. Then it should go into your Registered Retirement Savings Plan. Finally, you should be investing in your non-registered investment account, aka: your brokerage account.

Don’t feel bad if you can’t max out your TFSA and your RRSP right away. It literally took me years to max out my contributions. (And I treated myself to something nice when I finally accomplished this goal!) Invest as much as you can, as soon as you can. Eventually, your debts will be gone and you’ll have the funds to contribute. Stick to your knitting and you’ll accomplish this goal. Remind yourself as often as you need to that it likely won’t happen overnight.

So those are the broad strokes. Think of them as the first principles of wealth. You simply have to live below your means, stay out debt, and invest the difference. If you do that consistently for a very long time, the odds of you becoming wealthy increase dramatically.