A Faucet of Income

Even if you’re a Singleton like me, the implications of intergenerational wealth may have touched your life at some point. I like to think of intergenerational wealth as a faucet of income that helps younger generations to start their adult lives without debt. It’s a financial tool that allows young adults to master the skills of successful adulthood without being burdened by the yoke of debt.

In my case, my parents were able to pay for most of my education. They did the same for my brother. And had I not moved out during my second degree, they likely would have paid for all of it. I graduated with $15,000 in student loans and was fortunately able to pay them off within 2 years of graduating.

I’ve mentioned before that my parents weren’t rich, but they were long-term thinkers. My “Baby Bonus” cheques were deposited into the bank to buy Canada Savings Bonds from the time I was born. Interest rates were good – the money grew – my (and my brother’s) university was paid for – hooray! This is but one small example of the power of intergenerational wealth.

The parents in my social circle are using Registered Education Savings Plans (RESPs) to fund the costs of their kids’ educations. I’ve no idea how they invest their money, but I admire their determination to ensure that their kids have access to this form of intergenerational wealth when the time comes.

This week, I was listening to Beardy Brandon of Bigger Pockets on his YouTube channel. (Rest assured that I’m not getting paid for mentioning this website.) If you don’t know who he is, Brandon is a very successful real estate investor who runs a very, very successful blog teaching other people how to be successful real estate investors too. In one particular episode, Brandon mentioned buying properties for his children and having them paid off by the time that his kids started post-secondary school.

Wait! What?

Yes – you read that right. Part of Brandon’s plan to create a faucet of income for his family is to buy his children a property when they’re young, have it paid off by the time they graduate high school, and use the rental income and/or equity to pay for their post-secondary schooling. Along the way, Brandon’s kids will learn the real estate investment business while having some skin in the game.

Plans are the Result of Dreams Mixing with Money

Intergenerational wealth starts with a plan. This is not surprising. Yet, a plan without the money to implement it remains a dream. If Brandon didn’t have money, then he couldn’t have bought homes for his children. If my parents hadn’t had money, then they couldn’t have bought Canada Savings Bonds for their kids’ education. Sam Walton had to have the cash set aside to buy the first store way back in the day, long before the Wal-Mart empire took over the world and ensured that his kids never had to run a cash register for a living.

What I find so incredible about the stories of intergenerational wealth is that the parents (or grandparents) set a living-and-breathing example of delayed gratification for their children. They are long-term thinkers who find ways to use today’s money to fund the dreams of a tomorrow that may be well over a decade away. I always imagine young parents holding their new baby for the first time and thinking “How are we going to pay for med school?”

The decision by an ancestor to keep a little bit back in order to invest it in something profitable changes a family tree. The parent is taking a leap of faith, although hopefully a well-researched one. No one knows what tomorrow will bring and there are no guarantees that the investment will pay off. However, choosing to never invest in anything is guaranteed to bring a return of absolutely nothing.

Start Adult Life Without Debt

If not for my stubborn decision to move out of the house, I could have graduated completely debt free. My parents had created a faucet of income that would’ve allowed me that privilege. Instead, I made a short-term decision and there was a debt to pay.

Now that I’m well into adulthood, I have a better appreciation of how significant a gift it is to start adulthood without debt. I’ve paid off a mortgage, car loans, and student loans during my time. I took out the debt knowing full well that I had an obligation to pay it back – no argument there.

However, that doesn’t stop me from envying Brandon’s children who won’t have to take out a mortgage for a home. If they want to live in the homes that their father has bought them, they can. Should they decide to live in another home and have the first one pay the mortgage on the second home, they can do that too. And if they want to travel the world, their rental income can fund their travels. In short, they don’t have to take on debt because their father has created a faucet of income for them. It’s a plan that’s 15+ years in the making – another example of that long-term thinking that I was mentioning before.

Intergenerational wealth is a way to avoid assuming crippling debt burdens in your 20s. Beneficiaries of such largesse are able to start their adult lives on a firm financial foundation.

For example, take student loans. For some people, they’re a path to a financially secure future. After all, one can’t become a cardiologist without somehow footing the bill for medical school. However, there’s no denying that student loans can also trap people on a hellish repayment treadmill because they borrowed $100,000 for employment that pays $35,000.

It’s astonishing to me that people as young as 18 are allowed to take on huge financial debts, yet they’re not allowed to legally imbibe alcohol in many jurisdictions in North America.

“I’d like to borrow $30,000 per year for a degree, please. I have no idea how much I’ll have to pay back for these student loans once the interest is calculated. I’m not certain whether the salary of my desired career will allow me to pay off these loans while still saving for a home, a family, and a retirement. I also have no idea how to calculate how much my anticipated monthly repayment will be.”

“Sure – not a problem. Just sign here.”

“And I’d like a beer.”

“What the hell is wrong with you?!?!! You’re too young to drink!”

Play the Hand You’re Dealt

When you have access to intergenerational wealth, then debt isn’t such a significant factor in your life. You don’t have to borrow money for your education. You might not have to borrow money for a home! Just imagine how different your life would be if you didn’t have any debts to re-pay.

The reality is that not all of us are born to parents who have the money to buy properties for us. Some of us have parents who have the money but also believe that we should take out loans or find another way to fund our educations without their help. What can I say? You play the hand you’re dealt and you do the best you can.

Singleton or not, you have the power to create a faucet of income for someone else.

Living hand-to-mouth means that there’s no room for savings. This is a tough way to survive since you’re always living on the edge. Your income is barely enough to satisfy your necessities of life. This is a poor foundation from which you can build intergenerational wealth, but I’m not saying it’s impossible to do so.

You might want to think about how you’d like your money to be spent when you don’t need it anymore. Do you have nieces or nephews? Maybe there’s a neighbourhood kid who doesn’t drive you crazy? Perhaps you’ve always wanted to start a scholarship for kids interested in the things that tickle your fancy?

Even if you’re not a parent, you have the ability to create intergenerational wealth for someone in your world.

Consistency is One of the Keys

This week, I listened to a story that blew my mind! It was a testament to the power of consistency in investing, through good times and bad. Diane was her name – a lady in her 60s who’d survived divorce from an alcoholic, while raising 4 kids, taking 8 years to get her electrical engineering degree, and starting her professional life at age 42. By the time she’d retired, Diane was worth $5,500,000…. and did I mention that she never earned more than $82,000 per year?

Check out episode 99 on Millionaires Unveiled to hear the rest of her story, a podcast that has recently caught my attention. They focus on interviewing millionaires and the stories are fascinating.

The Financial Independence Retire Early (FIRE) community loves to tell stories about people who figured out who to make a lot of money quickly in order to retire in their 30s and 40s. And to those who can do it, I say “More power to you!”

I would have loved to have retired in my 30s too, but that wasn’t the way that my cookie crumbled. I learned about the FIRE community in my 30s, though the regular channels – Mr. Money Mustache – and went from there. However, no one has been able to teach me how to turn back time so I’ll be retiring in my 50s.

What I loved about Diane’s story is that she had challenges in her life, including cash-flowing college for her children. I mentioned that she had 4 children, but did I tell you that there was a 16-year spread from the oldest to the youngest? Diane was paying for college for 16 years straight and she still wound up debt-free with over $5Million in her kitty.

How in the hell did she do it?

Consistency is the key. Throughout her podcast, Diane emphasized that she and her husband saved atleast 10% of their income throughout their working lives.

Single People, please don’t roll your eyes at this point. Kindly avoid the trap of believing that it’s-easier-if-you’re-married-because-there-are-two-incomes! Diane was very clear that she kept her money separate from her husband’s.

In other words, the money that she has not is solely Diane’s money. Being single is not an impediment to becoming wealthy. It’s possible to become a millionaire even if you don’t become a spouse.

Diane committed to saving 10% of her income from the time she started working in her 20s. At the time of the interview, she was in her 60s. That’s 40 years of investing in the stock market! Diane mentioned that she’s been told to allocate her funds into a 60%-equity & 40%-bond portfolio, but she prefers to keep 70% in equity and 30% in bonds.

That’s two lessons we can take from her story. She chose to save something every payday by living below her means and she invested her savings in the stock market. Time in the stock market helped her investments to grow.

The third lesson from Diane’s story is that you don’t need to make a six-figure income to do what she did. Diane never earned more than $82,000 while she was working. I’ll agree that she earned more than the median income for the average bear, but keep in mind that she was raising children on this income. It’s reasonable to assume that the costs of childrearing ate into whatever was left of her income after she’d set aside her savings.

Creating Wealth for her Family

Diane has also set an example for her children, one that they will hopefully pass down to her grandchildren. Through her actions, Dians has shown her children that consistency is one of the keys to building wealth and that saving money has to happen no matter what. If I understood her correctly, Diane already had children by the time she returned to school at age 34 to study electrical engineering. She worked full-time while studying, and she graduated at age 42. Throughout those 8 years, Diane continued to save and invest from every paycheque like clockwork. At the age of 50, Diane was divorced…and she was worth a cool million dollars. The rest of her money came from the compounding over the next 15 years!

Creating a multi-million dollar nest egg was the first step towards ensuring an intergenerational transfer of wealth within her family. If she chooses, Diane can pay for the post-secondary educations of her grandchildren. By alleviating this financial burden, Diane would effectively be helping two generations of her family. Her children could invest their money towards their financial security and her grandchildren could study and graduate without the burden of student loans. If they are wise, Diane’s children will then use their money to pay for the educations of Diane’s great-grandchildren when the time comes so that the grandchildren can build their wealth.

Do you see how beneficial this cycle of intergenerational wealth can be? Diane’s example of consistently saving and investing for decades is a gift to her children, if they choose to follow it.

Save. Invest. Learn. Repeat.

Just like the rest of us, Diane won’t live forever. It’s time for her to enjoy some of her money while the bulk of it continues to compound and grow. According to the podcast, she is using her money to fulfill her dreams of travelling with her family and creating lasting memories. Good for her!

If you haven’t already started to save and invest, then start today. Open a savings account – set up an automatic transfer so that you save something from each paycheque – invest in the stock market through a broad-based index fund or exchange-traded fund. Live below your means so that you have the money to invest. Save – invest – learn – repeat.

There’s nothing to suggest that Diane had the ability to spend all of her money on her own personal priorities for her whole working life… I’m looking at your Single People Without Children. If you’re a Singleton, then you’re the only person making decisions about where your money should go, which of your dreams to fund, how much you’re willing to invest so that you can create a retirement nest egg for yourself.

Ignore the talking heads in the media. They deliver nothing but a steady stream of hype-and-fear in order to drive ratings. “It’s time to buy! It’s time to sell! It’s time to buy! It’s time to sell!” They have no personal stake in whether you achieve your goals or not, so ignore them.

Saving a little bit of money at a time and investing that money in the stock market will lead to more than a million dollars after a few decades. While your money is working hard for you in the background, you go about the business of living.

Per Diems Move the Needle

One of the best things about being a Singleton is that you alone are responsible for your financial choices. You need not debate each purchase nor do you need to compromise with anyone about how your household’s money will be spent. You have the freedom to choose which of your life’s goals to pursue and how to fund them.

Based on my own experience & observations of others, personal goals often have a financial component. Money has to be sourced somehow. Children have the benefit of someone else generally paying for their lives. They get to write lists to Santa Claus to get what they want. They can even leave teeth under their pillows in order to wake up to money. Adults – not so much. (Some of my friends pay their kids $5/tooth… the power of inflation is real, ladies & gentlemen.)

Enter the per diem

Pray tell, Blue Lobster – what is a per diem?

I first learned of them when I started travelling for work. On top of reimbursements for my meals & accommodations, I earned a per diem for the incidentals that I might have to buy while away from the office and home. Most of the time, I didn’t have to use my per diem so I would simply sock it away in a savings account.

In terms of personal finance, a per diem is simply is a daily amount of money that you pay to yourself.

You can create your own per diem by deciding how much money you want to pay yourself each day. You know how you choose to pay a certain amount each day for rent/mortgage? Student loan payments? Credit card bills? Utility payments?

Add up each of these payments then divide that amount by the number of days in the year. This is how much you’re paying on a daily basis for each area of your financial life. If you haven’t already done this exercise, trust me when I tell you it’ll be an eye-opener!

Next, I want you to pick a number and pay that to yourself. It could be $1 per day, $10 per day, or $100. The amount is up to you since you know your numbers better than I do. Keep in mind that a higher per diem means that you’ll reach your goals and accumulate money faster.

Why do I like this money hack?

I want people to be aware of how they spend their money. I hear so many people complain about never having any, yet I never hear them articulate where it goes. To my way of thinking, setting a per diem forces a person to be very specific about what they want their money to do. They are assigning a purpose to their per diem money. They are giving those particular dollars a task that goes beyond the basic elements of survival. The per diem dollars are going to be allocated towards a person’s most important financial goals, not just towards the nice-to-have-but-not-important-stuff.

Spend your per diem however you want!

Yes – that’s right. At the end of the day, this is your money and you’re the one who gets to decide what to do with it. I’m not familiar with your heart’s deepest desires. I’m a fan of the theatre. Your joy may lie in beach volleyball championships, taking self-development courses, Grand Prix auto-racing, or raising salamanders to sell online.

After selecting your per diem amount, your task – should you choose to accept it – is to focus your efforts on the goals that have the highest meaning for you. The order of your goals isn’t set in stone. Again, it’s your life and your money. You’re the lucky duck who gets to determine the order in which your goals are satisfied. Once you’ve accomplished the highest priority goal, you can move on to the next one and keep moving down your list until you’ve achieved what’s most important to you. In this way, your money is working hard to create the life that you want to live.

For some people, the goal is to take a really awesome vacation once a year. That might mean renting a houseboat for a week every summer. It could mean a weekend with friends or family at a favourite campsite. Maybe it means a six-week trip overseas. However an awesome vacation is defined, the per diem money can help pay for it if you so choose.

For other people, the goal is to pay off a debt, to build an emergency fund, to save for a down payment, to go back to school, or to renovate a home… The goals are as endless as your imagination. The sad reality is that your paycheque isn’t infinite. (And if it is infinite, please leave a comment explaining how you’ve managed to create such a wondrous thing!) No matter its size, your income has limits. That’s why per diems are such a great money hack. They help you to satisfy those desires that are most important to you. Nothing wrong with that!

Two things to keep in mind about per diems.

One – don’t be deterred by how long it takes to reach a goal. It’s obvious but I’ll say it anyway. Some goals take longer to reach than others depending on the size of your per diem. Buying tickets to a concert might take a few days or a few weeks. Gathering the down payment for a second home in Cinque Terre might take a bit longer.

Two – if you use your per diem to pay off debt, then you an added benefit once the debt is gone. Your former debt-payment can be used to increase the size of your per diem. A larger per diem means that you can achieve your next goal even faster. There’s always the option of simply frittering your former debt payment away on stuff and keep the same per diem amount. As always, you’re the one in control of allocating where your money goes.

In my humble opinion, paying yourself a per diem gives you the psychological boost of knowing that each day is taking your closer to your goals. When your head hits your pillow, you can be satisfied knowing that your money is working towards building the life of your dreams. And who doesn’t want that?

The Power of Intergenerational Wealth

For the past year or so, I’ve been fascinated by all the examples I see of intergenerational wealth. I like to think that it’s because my assessment of the FIRE movement and personal finance has become more nuanced. I’m always curious about and very intrigued by how people get the money for their first investment. When I listen to podcasts devoted to personal finance and FIRE, I’m constantly thinking about the power of intergenerational wealth. I want to know how many people honestly and truly do it all by themselves.

Lately, I’ve been listening to podcasts from www.biggerpockets.com, which is a US-based website. I have learned a lot about real estate deals from listening to these podcasts! If you’re in any way interested in doing real estate investing, I would suggest that you spend some time listening to this podcast. It’s a great starting point, and you’ll learn what regular people with regular jobs have done to improve their finances through real estate investing. Some of their methods might work for you, or they might not. The salient factor is for you to learn about these methods so that you can figure out whether to pursue them. Once you do, then you decide how to customize your next steps to best suit your own particular circumstances. Knowledge is power, right?

**** To be explicitly clear, I am not endorsing any of the methods suggested on that website. I am not an expert in real estate investing. I am not qualified to tell anyone how to do it. ****

This post is about intergenerational wealth, not real estate investing. So why am I talking about Bigger Pockets?

Intergenerational Loans are a Huge Help

Earlier this week, I listened to an interview with a man who was earning $10,000 per month by age 35 from his real estate investing. Needless to say, I was very interested in what he had to say. I too would like to earn $10,000 per month, even though I am no longer 35!

Without divulging too much, I would like to focus on one particular element of the story. The interviewee had benefitted from intergenerational wealth on atleast two separate occasions as he built his real estate portfolio. He and his wife were able to gather a down payment on their first home, a duplex. However, they needed to borrow $4K from their parents to pay the closing costs. This was the first time that they benefitted from intergenerational wealth since their parents had the $4k to lend them. As a result, the interviewee and his wife were able to significantly lower their living costs and they decided to start buying more properties.

As the podcast episode continued, the interviewee disclosed that he borrowed money from both his father and his father-in-law. They each took out lines of credit on their residential homes and gave him the down payment to buy property. This was the second occasion on which the interviewee benefitted from intergenerational wealth.

Again, it was an “A-ha!” moment for me. This man had access to family members who had assets. His family had been able to lay hands on money, and they willingly helped him to invest in real estate. This is the heart of intergenerational wealth – those in the older generation are able to use their own accumulated money to assist the people in the younger generation to build wealth.

Please don’t misinterpret this post. I don’t begrudge this man for seeking his family’s help, nor do I think it’s unfair that his parents and his in-laws were willing to assist him and his wife. It’s completely natural for parents to want to see their offspring succeed.

Getting A Leg Up

What I find fascinating is the effect that intergenerational wealth has on so many aspects of our lives. Those who don’t have access to this form of wealth face more barriers in acquiring wealth. One of the barriers that I see for those without access to intergenerational wealth is the passage of time. It simply takes longer to build wealth if you don’t have wealthy parents or grandparents because you, as an investor, first have to save the seed money to buy that first investment. No one is around to gift you, or lend you, the money to start investing.

The sooner money is invested, the sooner a person can start building wealth. In other words, those who have access to intergenerational wealth have a leg up on those who don’t. Those with access can invest their money sooner. This means they have more time for their assets to grow and to compound.

If the interviewee’s family had not lent him $4K for the closing costs on his first home, then he wouldn’t have been able to buy it. I’m not saying that he never would have bought a home. I’m just saying that it would have taken him longer to buy one; he would have had to save up the money for closing costs to complete the purchase of another house. The same goes for his first real estate investment. Without money from his father and father-in-law, the man would’ve had to wait until he had sufficient seed money – whether equity in his first home or savings in the bank – to buy his investment property.

The Confidence of a Cushion

The second barrier to acquiring wealth is the natural hesitation that can arise when assessing risks without a cash cushion. When you know that your family has the ability to financially assist you if the need arises, you have the confidence to take more and/or bigger risks with your investing dollars. The confidence rests on knowing that you won’t lose everything, that you won’t have to start from scratch all over again. If your family can help you to recover, you’re more inclined to try in the first place.

For those without a financially-flush family, the consequences of making a poor investment decision include the very real and very significant risk of losing everything. There’s no one to bail you out so you might not make the same kinds of investments, or you may hesitate a bit longer before making a decision. The price of a failed investment is costlier when you don’t have the option of accessing intergenerational wealth should things not go as planned.

Do not misunderstand me. No investment is without risk, regardless of your access to intergenerational wealth. I’m simply stating that the downsides of the risks are more acute, and possibly more detrimental, when you do not have access to family money should your investments fail.

A Lack of Intergenerational Wealth is a Hindrance, not Brick Wall

I want to be very, very clear on this point. A person can still acquire assets and build wealth for herself without the benefit of intergenerational wealth. It will probably take a bit longer, or it might involve thinking outside the box.

To its credit, the Bigger Pockets podcast also features people who haven’t been able to turn to family for financial help. I particularly like the episode about the 23-year old single mother who has created a steady cash flow from her real estate portfolio. Though very young when she started, this woman learned how to buy, renovate, and refinance her properties. She has created a financially secure life that for herself and her children. In turn, she is pursuing a path that will allow her to provide intergenerational wealth to her children when they need it.

The longer I think on this topic, the more I appreciate the power of intergenerational wealth. Money creates the opportunity to build wealth. If it is not squandered, then wealth can be transferred from one generation to the next. The wealth, if not lost, can create a self-perpetuating cycle that ensures the financial security of successive generations. Each generation can reap the rewards which come from financial stability and good investment opportunities.

There are few among us Singletons who don’t have a connection to the next generation in some form or another. Even if you don’t have your own children, perhaps there’s a young person in your family who you would like to help at some point. If so, build your own wealth and you’ll be able to offer intergenerational wealth when the time comes. Perhaps you have a niece who wants to go to med school, or a nephew who wants to start a business. Maybe you just want to start some sort of scholarship for students you’ve not yet met.

Whatever your goals are, I encourage you to build your wealth now. One day, you’ll be the one who has the power to transfer it to the ones coming up behind you. You have the power to create intergenerational wealth for the next generation.

Dollar Cost Averaging is a Great Tool

As the warm days of spring roll in and push harsh memories of winter to the recesses of your memories, you may find yourself enjoying the sunshine and asking yourself: What is exactly is dollar-cost averaging?

I’m here to tell you that DCA can be a powerful tool for investors.

In a nutshell, dollar-cost averaging is a method for systematically investing your money. Investors who use DCS invest the same amount of money into an investment on a regular schedule. That schedule can be whatever the investor choose – weekly, monthly, quarterly, annually, or any other increment. The purchase of the underlying asset occurs regardless of the asset’s price.

There are a few of good reasons to use this investment methodology.

Dollar Cost Averaging or Lump-Sum Investing?

Firstly, the DCA strategy facilitates quicker investment in the stock market. Investors can align their investments with their paycheques. Since one my guiding financial mantras is spend-some-save-some, I make sure that a part of my paycheque is promptly & automatically re-directed to my investment portfolio.

There’s a school of thought which says that lump-sum investing is better than DCA because the entire value of the lump-sum amount is put to work in the stock market all at once. If your plan is to invest a large amount in the market, the proponents of lump-sum investing recommend that you invest the entire amount at once. Check out this article from the wise fellow at www.fourpillarfreedom.com for a good discussion of the benefits and drawbacks of the two investment methods.

Theoretically, I have no quarrel with the lump-sum investment style. However, the practical reality of my life is that I don’t have large lump-sums of money lying around. I invest when I get paid because that’s when I have the money available. The money is deposited into my chequing account, then it’s shunted to my investment account, where it sits until it’s invested. For most people without large chunks of money at their disposal, DCA is a better option – in my opinion – because they can invest when they’re paid.

No Need to Time the Market

Secondly, DCA eliminates that temptation to try and “time the market.” Investors who time the market are trying to buy an investment at its very lowest price. Perhaps you’ve heard recent chatter in the system from economists about the impending recession?

What you will never hear from any of those experts is the exact date on which the recession will start. And absolutely none of them will tell you date on which the stock market will be at its very lowest point. People lucky enough to buy at the lowest point will have the best investment returns when the market recovers. Market-timers are always trying to pick the very best time to invest.

Like all investors, market-timers are trying to maximize the profits from their stock market investments. Unlike market-timers, investors following the DCA-method simply invest their money on a consistent basis. They do not bother themselves with trying to buy at the very lowest price. They’re not concerned with the very best returns. They understand that time in the market is more important that timing the market.

Automation Pairs Beautifully with Dollar Cost Averaging Investing Method

Thirdly, the power of automation complements the DCA investment strategy very nicely. If you intend to invest in the stock market, then automatically transferring money from your chequing account to your brokerage account is an excellent strategy.

Let’s say you decided to invest on the 15th of each month. Your automatic transfer will ensure that a chunk of money is in your brokerage account for the purchase. On the 15th of the month, you’ll buy as much of the asset as your funds will allow regardless of the asset’s price. Then you won’t think about investing again until the 15th of the following month. Maybe you want to invest quarterly? That’s fine too. Put the power of automation to work! Gather money in your investment account until it’s time to buy some assets. Never forget the DCA can’t work for you unless you’ve set aside some savings.

This is how I invest. Every month, I invest money into my dividend-paying investments. I don’t follow the price of my exchange-traded funds from one day to the next. Instead, I buy as many units as I can when it’s time to buy. Then I don’t think about my investments again until the dividends roll in.

Easy-peasy, lemon-squeezy – rinse & repeat!

I’ve been using the DCA method to invest my money since 2011. I wasn’t interested in learning to be a wizard at picking stocks. The DCA method was easy to implement and even easier to understand. Much like every other investment method, it’s not perfect and it’s not suitable to for everyone. However, it works for me. I’m confident in this method and I’ll continue to use it until something better comes along.

The Time Will Pass Anyway

I really hate delivering bad news, but there’s no way around this. You’re not getting any younger. Time is marching on. You can fight it all you want, but the time will pass anyway. The important thing to do is focus your time, attention and energy on answering the following question – are you doing what’s necessary today to create the life that you really want?

Happily, you’re the person who decides which of your dreams to pursue. You’re the one who knows what truly delights your heart, what always replenishes your soul. You get to decide which path to follow in order to achieve the goals that you have set for your life. Every day is an opportunity for you to better understand yourself and the way you interact with the rest of the world.

Whatever it is that you want to achieve, there’s a financial cost to it. I don’t care if you want to travel, start your own business, buy rental properties, take a sabbatical, race in the Grand Prix, go sky-diving, or spend a week at home unplugged from the rest of the world. It’s going to cost you some money.

Start Saving Today

Start saving for your dreams now, even if they aren’t fully fleshed out. It hardly matters where you are in the stage of making your dreams come true. When the opportunity arrives, you should have some money set aside to chase those dreams. I accept that there are situations where money should not be the factor holding you back, but I would encourage you to minimize those situations as much as possible.

When I was 16 years old, I got my first part-time job in a grocery store. It wasn’t glamorous, nor was I well paid. If I remember, I was earning $4.85 per hour. I didn’t work a lot of hours either, since I was in school and living at home. I had to open a chequing account to deposit my paycheque, since this job existed before the days of online banking.

Even though I was 16 and I didn’t know beans from potatoes, I knew enough to open a savings account at the same time that I opened my chequing account. At the time, I’d never heard of automatic transfers. Every two weeks, I would receive my paycheque, then I would deposit it into my account with the bank teller. I would then walk over to the bank machine and transfer $50 from my chequing account to my savings account. I have no idea why I didn’t just ask the teller to do the transfer for me while I was at her wicket. Maybe I was trying to increase my step-count? In any event, I went through this process every two weeks until I got a job at a different bank and learned how to make the online banking system work for me.

“$50? Big deal!”

You’re right, Dear Reader. On its face, $50 is hardly enough for a grown-up to get excited about. It’s the kind of money that would delight a 3-year old at the toy store, but hardly enough to generate glee in an adult with adult-sized bills.

Habits are the Game-Changer

However, the importance of my story isn’t the $50. I’m telling you my story to impart the lesson that saving money has been the key to funding my dreams. I saved $50 every two weeks for years and years. What was most important was the habit of savings, not the amount. As I got older, I earned more money and I increased the amount that was set aside every two weeks. The habit stayed the same, even though the amount changed.

And once the habit was in place, it’s never disappeared. My “little savings habit” has allowed me to travel internationally, fund my RRSP and TFSA, buy a home, build an army of money soldiers, and generally partake in social events with family and friends.

I’ll be forever grateful to my parents who taught me about having dreams, creating habits, and saving money. My parents’ dream was for us to go to school, and they found a way to fund that dream. Part of the funding efforts went on behind the scenes as they invested all out Baby Bonus money instead of spending those cheques each month.

The other part of funding their dream was overt. When my brother and I were little, my father had created the habit of giving each of us $10 every two weeks from his paycheque. We would carefully fold that money and put it into our piggy-banks. Twice a year, we would empty our piggy-banks. My father would sit us down and make us fill out deposit slips for our bank. I still remember unfolding the money and clipping it together with the deposit slip before taking it to the bank. That money would ultimately go towards buying Canada Savings Bonds. Eventually, that money paid for our post-secondary education.

The Power is Yours

Whatever you dreams are, you have the power to create the savings habit now. Whether you start with $1 per day, $10 per paycheque or $50 per month, just start setting the money aside. The habit is more important than the amount. Once the habit is in place, you’ll increase the amount as you pay off other debts, as you eliminate expenses that don’t bring you joy, and as your income increases.

Create an automatic savings plan for yourself. Divert this money away from the funds that you rely on for your day-to-day needs. Use the savings habit to ensure that your precious and limited time is spent on the experiences that bring you the most joy. The time will pass anyway.

Money Mistake #2 – My Mortgage

Looking back, I’m certain that I made a money mistake when I chose to pay off my mortgage instead of focusing on investing.

At the time, I was in my 30s and my mortgage was less than $100,000. I had bought my first home when I was 28 years old. I had a 25-year amortization and my bi-weekly payments were $750, if memory serves. That amount was probably $450 more than I was required to pay since I had routinely increased my mortgage payment by the maximum allowable percentage each year. I was able to handle the costs of running my home, and my budget fortuitously still contained a significant bit of disposable income.

Hindsight is 20/20

I wish I had known then what I know now. Had I become wiser sooner, I would have invested that extra $450 bi-weekly into the stock market. Hindsight is always 20/20, right?

So how do I explain my choice? A good deal of my reasoning at the time was founded on fear. I’m a Singleton. That means I don’t have a second income coming into my household. I knew that if something were to go catastrophically wrong, then I would lose my home. My family’s not wealthy. They would have done what they could, but I would have most likely lost my home eventually. Having a paid-off home seemed to be the smartest move for me.

I was also a huge fan of Dave Ramsey’s book – The Total Money Makeover. I read that book diligently and wholeheartedly subscribed to his teachings of becoming debt-free as soon as possible. After adopting his teaching, I put it into practice and attacked my mortgage with a vengeance.

With the benefit of time, I’m wondering if I didn’t make another money mistake. My goal had been to retire at age 50, not a particularly young age in the world of F.I.R.E. but certainly younger than the traditional age of 65. I’ve crunched the numbers and I won’t be able to hit my target without a large lottery win, or without developing a taste for cat food. I don’t want to retire simply to stay in my house due to financial constraints.

What could have been

If I’d known then what I know now, I would have stuck to my minimum required mortgage payments. Doing so would have allowed me to invest all that extra money into the stock market. Obviously, I would have taken part in the roller-coaster ride of the 2001 crash. And I would have gone through the other one that we had in 2008. Yet, I would have been be sitting quite pretty by now. My investment portfolio would be much fatter even though I would still have my mortgage.

I should not fault myself for not knowing everything about money in my thirties. Blogs were just beginning to take off. Unlike today, the Internet wasn’t a ready source of debates about the benefits of paying off a mortgage versus investing for the future. I picked a path, believing that I could do just as well if I started investing in my mid-30s. I wanted the security of a mortgage-free home before directing my funds towards my investment portfolio. It seems kind of weird to write that down. Today, I realize that if I had invested first, my portfolio would be throwing off enough income to pay my mortgage.

Take it for what it’s worth

What worked for me won’t necessarily work for you.

Today, 5-year mortgage rates are less than 3.5%. When I took out my first mortgage, I was overjoyed to have a 5-year rate of 6.5%. Today, my first condo would sell for approximately $240,000. I’m the first to admit that my condo wasn’t anything special even though I fell in love with it on sight. (That’s another money mistake that I made!) When I bought that condo, I paid $74,000.

My advice to other Singletons with a mortgage is to crunch your own numbers very carefully.

Like I’ve written elsewhere on this blog, you’re the one who is responsible for your income security in old age. You’ll need a place to live and your goal should be mortgage freedom before retirement. At the same time, you need to invest your money for growth so that you have a nice, fat investment portfolio to get you through the thirsty underwear years.

Even though I now believe that everyone should be investing for long-term growth while paying off their mortgage, you know the particulars of your circumstances better than I do. As such, you are the person best situated to make the choice that you think is best.

My money mistake was a doozy, but I’ll still be okay. I’ve got a mortgage-free home and a solid portfolio. I would have had more if I’d known better, but I still have plenty so I can’t complain too loudly. Life presented me with a choice between two sacks of gold. I chose one over the other, but I still wound up with a sack of gold.

Your Retirement is Your Responsibility

As we’re so often reminded in the media, fewer and fewer employers are offering defined benefit pension plans. These were the pensions that your parents and grandparents might have had – they worked a fixed number of years and their employers would pay them a fixed monthly pension from retirement until death. The defined benefit pension was a form of deferred compensation. If you were receiving this kind of pension, retirement planning did not have to be a priority for you because your employer would be responsible for ensuring that you received money every single month after you left work.

Those days are over. You’ll have to bake your own cake!

In other words, your retirement is your responsibility.

More likely than not, your employer isn’t going to take care of funding your retirement years. This means that the burden falls directly onto your shoulders to make sure that you have grocery money for the days that you keep your teeth in a cup. There’s no way around it. No one else is going to have as much incentive in ensuring that there is some gold lying around for your golden years than you will. So hop to it!

Start Now – Stop Procrastinating!

You can’t save for your retirement if you’re spending all of your money. You’ll need to take some of today’s money and set it aside to pay for the days when you’re no longer earning a paycheque.

First things first – every time you get paid, you must set aside a portion of the money for your future. The new standard is 15% of your paycheque. For my part, I’d prefer to see you save atleast 20% of your income.

Secondly, this money should go into your Tax Free Savings Account or your Registered Retirement Savings Plan. Under either of the products, your money will grow tax-free. With the RRSP, you’ll get a tax refund today but you’ll have to pay taxes later when you withdraw the money. And you’ll have to start withdrawing the money from your RRSP when you turn 71. With the TFSA, you won’t get a tax refund today but you also won’t pay taxes in the future when you make a withdrawal. Unlike the RRSP, you don’t ever have to take money out of your TFSA if you don’t want to. It need not be liquidated.

Thirdly, the money should be invested for growth. There are roughly 7 bajillion portfolios from which you can choose. I’m not a certified financial planner so I can’t tell you how to invest your money. You’ll have to do some reading on your own, or you’ll have to work with a financial planner. (I don’t work with a financial planner because I’ve yet to find a fee-only financial planner in my city.)

How do I invest my money?

I’m so glad that you asked that question!

If you’re like me, you love the idea of building a dividend-paying portfolio in order to create an income stream in retirement. The following is one of many way to create this kind of cash flow. First, you’ll start by opening an online brokerage account. All of the major banks in Canada have their own investing arm. In the interests of complete transparency, I will share with you that I do my investing through BMO Investorline. I am not being paid to share the link to their website.

I’ve set up an automatic transfer to fund this account. A chunk of my net income is automatically transferred to my brokerage account every time I get paid. I use this money to buy units in my dividend Exchange Traded Funds, which I lovingly call my army of little green soldiers.

By buying units in my ETFs every month, I’m taking advantage of an investing method called dollar-cost averaging. I buy at whatever the price happens to be that day. Whether the price per unit goes up or down is not important to me because I’m interested in getting paid my dividends. The more units I have, the more dividends I earn. I don’t ever worry about buying units in my ETFs at the “right price”.

Every month, my dividends are automatically re-invested through my Dividend Re-Invesment Plan. Once again, the power of automation facilitates compound growth within my portfolio. I’m never tempted to spend my dividends because they are re-invested before I can ever get them into my hot little hands.

Educate Yourself

Dividend-paying ETFs are not your only choice for building a solid portfolio for your retirement. You can buy individual stocks. You can purchase bonds, or mutual funds, or real estate investment trusts if you wish. These can all be held in a brokerage account. Use Google to find information about these various products, their benefits and drawbacks, and whether they will get you closer to your goal of a comfortable retirement.

A brokerage account puts you in control of choosing and buying the investment products that will fund your retirement. The flip side is that you will have to be disciplined about putting the money into this account. Again, I can’t stress this enough – set up an automatic payment from your regular chequing account to your brokerage account. This way, your brokerage account gets funded every time that you do!

Overwhelmed by the amount of choice? Check out Vanguard Canada. Again, I’m not getting paid to mention this company. And I do own units in one of their ETFs. I like Vanguard because they offer low-cost investment products. Their website is user-friendly, which means I can find the information that I want and need relatively easily.

There’s always the option of hiring a financial advisor to do your investing for you. I’m not a fan of this method but I feel obligated to bring it to your attention. Good financial advisors will find products that fit your needs, and will invest your money with your best interests in mind. Before you hire a financial advisor, do a Google search on how to find a good one. After all, this person will be working with your money so you don’t want to accidentally hire the next Bernie Madoff.

Other ways to fund retirement…

You could choose to buy real estate. Check out Afford Anything or Bigger Pockets. These are US-based blogs, so the tax information does not apply to Canada and the tax rules are different. Still, the core principle of buying a few homes and paying them off to fund retirement works just as well in Canada.

You could also choose to forego buying real estate, save up a big pile of cash, and retire outside of Canada. This was the choice of the couple behind Millennial Revolution. Since quitting the rat race in their thirties, they have travelled extensively and written two books in addition to running a very informative, educational, and inspirational blog.

In order for your golden years to have any gold in them, you’ll have to start saving and investing today. Don’t let fear of the unknown paralyze you. Just start saving and investing! There’s nothing stopping you from continuing to learn about investing while you’re saving for your future. Don’t fall victim to the belief that there’s one perfect investment, that you’ll irrevocably harm your chances of a comfortable retirement if you make the wrong choice. You’ll have the chance to tweak your plans down the line as your investment knowledge expands.

Your retirement is your responsibility. Do whatever you can today to make it as good as it can possibly be tomorrow!