Regretting Financial Mistakes Is a Waste of Your Time

Regret has no place in your financial plan. You’re not perfect and you will make mistakes with your money. Once you’ve identified a money mistake, don’t spend your time regretting it. Simply make a course correction to stop making that mistake and move forward. The past cannot be changed so learn from your mistakes and resolve not to make the same ones in the future.

When I started investing, I picked a dividend investment strategy. I started by buying into dividend mutual funds. Eventually, I learned about management expense ratios (MERs) and discovered that I was making the mistake of paying 10x as much for mutual funds when I could acquire the same assets through exchange-traded funds (ETFs). There was no way to recoup my time or those MERs, so I simply moved my money to ETFs. I made a course correction and moved on.

What is the point of spending time regretting choices that were made when I didn’t have the best information available to me?

Once I learned better, I chose better.

Dividends vs. Growth

A doozy of an investing mistake still hurts. I can only blame myself for this one. My belief in the wisdom of my own choices meant that I didn’t properly consider what was going on around me. I wasn’t learning the lesson, no matter how many times it was hitting me in the face…sigh…

Remember that phenomenal bull-run that was experienced in the stock market between 2009 and the onset of the pandemic in 2020? The one where the S&P/TSX Compound Index grew by 125%? The one where the S&P500 increased by 378%?

Guess who was still investing in a dividend strategy instead of investing in US-growth equities?

That’s right. Me.

It was a huge mistake in my financial planning. I had so much faith in my own choices that I missed out on a fantastic opportunity to invest over the long-term. I made sub-optimal investing choices for 11 years!!! At any point, I could’ve realized how I was missing out on growing my portfolio much, much faster… but I didn’t.

Instead, it wasn’t until October of 2020 that I finally saw that I was again missing out. I was determined to benefit from recovery that followed the pandemic-induced stock market plunge. So I course-corrected. I started investing in an equity-based, well-diversified ETF and I haven’t looked back.

Regret has no place in my financial plan. Of course I wish I had made optimal choices at every single point throughout my investment life, but horses aren’t wishes so this beggar can’t ride. I’ve done what I’ve done and I get to live with the consequences.

And all told, my choices weren’t the absolute worst ones out there. To date, I’ve been investing for 3 decades. My dividend portfolio will ensure that my retirement is nice and comfy. I chose to start young, which is always preferable to starting when old. As far as mistakes go, I could’ve done far worse.

Now, all of my investment contributions are going into the equity-based growth ETF. Its performance is giving my portfolio higher returns, which is always appreciated. I have no plans to stop investing in my ETF, even after I retire. It will continue to mimic both the volatility and growth of the stock market, which is a good thing over the long-term.

Taking a Break vs. Riding the Rollercoaster

I made another huge mistake during the crash of 2009. Instead of continuously investing, I stopped my contributions. Thankfully, I didn’t make the mistake of selling anything while the price was down! Yet, it would’ve been smarter to ride the rollercoaster of volatility during that crash. I would’ve been buying into my dividend-paying companies when they were all on sale!

Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda.

No regrets, remember? Instead, I resolved to never stop investing. As we all remember, the stock market took a huge plunge when COVID-19 was declared a pandemic. Between you, me, and the fencepost, I lost a third of my portfolio’s value on paper. I know because I checked my brokerage account daily during those first few months.

Truth be told, I really don’t know how many paper losses I suffered because I stopped looking at the number after I’d lost that first third. It was too painful.

But you know what I didn’t do? I didn’t stop investing! Even though the market plunged steeply between February 21, 2020 to March 23, 2020, I continued to buy into my dividend-ETFs. And throughout the recovery between March and October of that year, I stuck to my investing schedule and bought many, many, many units in my ETFs-of-choice.

The mistake of 2009 was not to be repeated! Instead of taking a break from investing, I rode the rollercoaster of the stock market. It paid off. Buying those ETF-units when the market was down allowed me to accumulate way more units that I would have otherwise. Each of those units pays more dividends today than they did in 2020. The end result is that my monthly dividend payment is much higher than it was before the pandemic.

Secret Sauce

Like I’ve said before, the secret sauce isn’t being bright. Rather, it’s being persistent. The genius of the secret sauce is following 3 basic steps, over and over and over again.

Make the choice to invest. Then invest. And don’t stop investing.

Everything after that is simply a detail. You follow the steps, and you course-correct when you make your inevitable mistakes. Don’t waste your time on regret. There’s nothing to be gained from that activity. Instead, always remember that you’ll do better when you know better.

The Secret Sauce Isn’t Being Bright

Being bright isn’t a requirement to being successful with personal finance and investing. I speak from personal experience as I don’t consider myself to be overly bright. There are many people in my circle who are much smarter than me and who learn things much faster than I do. Their net worths are not necessarily larger than mine. It’s taken me a long time to accept the fact that being bright has very little to do with whether someone will succeed in the realm of money.

Those who’ve read this blog for a little while know that I’ve erred during my investment journey. I’m the first to admit that I’m not the smartest investor in the room. I’ve made so many mistakes!

  • When I first started investing years ago, I put my money into mutual funds instead of index funds and exchange-traded funds.
  • Investing in mutual funds instead of index funds & ETFs means I paid higher management expense ratios than I needed to pay.
  • I invested in dividend-based ETFs instead of buying equity-based ETFs.
  • I didn’t earn as much as I could have during the 10-year stock market bull run that ended in February of 2020. (D’oh! How I would love to be able to unwind that mistake.)
  • And I don’t increase the rent on my rental property every year. I’m sure there are some in the real estate investment community who see this as a very grave mistake.

Despite these mistakes (and I’ve made way more than 5), I’ve learned that you don’t have to be all that bright to do well in personal finance. You do need to have disposable income, since you can’t invest what you don’t have. I’ve crafted a list of traits that I believe are essential to successfully building wealth.

Being smart is not one of the traits!

You have to start from where you are. No investor has ever made money without starting to invest. Thinking about investing is great but people don’t earn 7% returns on investments they only dream about. They only earn returns on money that’s actually invested in real life, whether that’s in the stock market, in real estate, or in a business. Investing your first dollar isn’t a function of being bright. It’s a function of taking action.

Consistency isn’t dependent on how bright you are either. I’m a huge fan of automated transfers. Every time I get paid, some of my net income is siphoned away from my chequing account. That money is invested to pay for my future goals: retirement, travel, house renovations, whatever. If the money is for a planned purchase that’s not part of my day-to-day basic life, such as groceries, gasoline, and utilities, then the money is automatically whisked into various accounts and it stays in place until it’s time to make those future purchases. Automated transfers have ensured that I’ve always had money going towards my investments.

No one needs to be all that bright to be disciplined. You’ll need to be disciplined if you’re going to stick to your priorities. You’re the only expert when it comes to how best to spend your money because only you know what’s most important to you when it comes time to spend it. It also means that you’re the only one who’s responsible to say “No” to the things that don’t move you towards your dreams. Believe me when I say that there is alway someone who wants your money. Being bright is not a pre-condition of only spending your money in ways that align with your priorities.

Finally, never stop learning. Like I said earlier, I’m not particularly bright. And it takes a long time for me to learn new things and for concepts to sink it. THAT’S OKAY!!!! Learning at my own pace isn’t an obstacle to achieving my goals. If anything, it’s a benefit. Once I’ve been exposed to a new concept, I can learn it as thoroughly as I want to. And once I’ve done that, I can determine whether it will help me meet my financial priorities.

No one is grading your progress.

I’m not in school anymore. There’s no teacher under a time pressure to get through a pre-set curriculum. I’m my own teacher now. Taking as much time as I need to teach myself a particular concept is a good thing in real life. Unlike a school setting, there isn’t a fixed number of hours to be spent teaching one concept before the teacher moves on to the next one. I’ve been investing for over 25 years, and I still don’t understand how Price-to-Earnings ratios work. Is it better if they’re high or low? What exactly do they mean? Do they fluctuate every day? What are the factors that impact them?

Hear me now: I’ve been investing in the stock market for 25+ years, and I did not let my ignorance about P/E ratios stop me from building a solid portfolio that kicks off a nice amount of dividends each year. Admittedly, I’m not a stock-picker. In other words, I don’t buy individual stocks after analyzing their annual reports and doing research into both the company and the industry. If I were an investor who had gone the stock picking route, then I would have learned a lot more about P/E ratios and other nuanced stuff. The information is out there and I would have spent my time learning about it.

When it comes to being good with your money, habits will always beat brains in the long run. Being smart isn’t what helped me the most. Having the investing habit and putting automatic transfers in place has been my secret sauce. Together, these tools have been tremendously more beneficial for my portfolio and for meeting my short-term goals. Once I had prioritized how to spend my money, relying on habits and tools propelled me towards attaining my goals.

Being bright is not an indicator of whether you will be successful in handling your money. Again, speaking from personal experience, you can make stupid money mistakes and still set yourself up for future financial success.