One of the reasons why I write this blog is because I have this deep-seated belief that someone out there might learn from my experiences and avoid making the same mistakes that I’ve made on my journey to wealth. I’m narcissistic enough to think that my words will have an impact if I share them on the Internet. So here we go…
Looking back on the choices I’ve made with my money, I can honestly say that one of my biggest mistakes is that I’ve never used my kitchen enough. I eat out – A LOT!!! I have a standing bi-weekly date with one co-worker. I go out with another friend every single week. There are impromptu lunch invitations which appear in my inbox, and I say yes to those far more often than I say no. I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve declined a lunch invitation! On top of those social outings, there are the many, many, many times that I’ve simply not brought a lunch and have gone to one or another of the fast-food outlets or restaurants located near my work.
On the plus side, I always pay cash for my meals. None of my meals has resulted in me staying in debt any longer than I have to. I can still accomplish my goals.
So why do I consider it a money mistake to not use my kitchen more often?
I view it as a money mistake because, most of the time, eating out isn’t the best use of my money. Now, my meals with friends and colleagues do allow me to socialize with people I love and respect. That’s wonderful and I don’t regret those meals.
However, when I have to go get a lunch to eat at my desk, I’m disappointed with myself. Money spent on those meals isn’t bringing me happiness or joy. I could have – should have – spent that money at one of the two wonderful grocery stores that lie between my parked car and my house. Twice a day, every day, I drive past two grocery stores. They’re bright, well-stocked, and very clean. The staff are friendly and helpful. Both stores carry everything I need to make myself healthy dinners, and thereby healthy leftovers for lunch the next day.
Even when I buy something healthy for lunch, I’m irritated with myself. For instance, I enjoy fruit so I occasionally buy fruit cups but this is still not a joyful purchase. I’m essentially paying double or more the cost of the same fruit at the grocery store. I’ve paid for someone’s labour to cut up the fruit, knowing full well that I have cutting boards and knives at home to do the same job. I’m contributing to the demand for plastic and other single-serve packaging, which is bad for the planet. Food from home is transported in reusable containers that are washed and re-washed many, many times before they break or otherwise need to be replaced.
And since this is a personal finance blog, I have to state as explicitly as I can that shopping at the grocery store is cheaper for me than it is to eat out for lunch! If I hit up a fast-food place, my wallet is atleast $9 lighter when I walk out. A sandwich from the grocery store is going to cost a lot less than a sandwich from the coffee shop. And if I want a drink to go with that sandwich, I’m looking at atleast $11. Try doing that 5 times a week – suddenly I’m spending $55 per week! Let’s say I go to a restaurant instead of a fast-food outlet. In my city, you can’t get a lunchtime meal for less than $20 after tip.
For $55-$100 per week spent on food, I’m better off going to the grocery store. A lasagna might cost around $27 to make once all the ingredients are purchased. (Your grocery store prices may be higher or lower. I live in an expensive province.) However, that lasagna will feed me atleast 5 times, bringing the cost per meal down to just over $5. Chain-store coffee in my city costs more than $5 if you go for one of the fancy ones!
And that’s just for lunches. I’m also very bad for mid-morning snacks. I leave my house by 6:30 am, which means I’ve eaten breakfast at 6:10 or so. My tummy starts distracting me around 9:45 or 10:15, so I invariably go down to the coffee shop for a muffin. I’m spending atleast $3.50 for that muffin! Thankfully, I don’t buy a coffee to go with that muffin or else I’d be spending atleast $5 for my mid-morning snack every day.
So what does all of this mean?
Essentially, it means that I’m a dum-dum for not doing some very basic meal-planning in order to cook tasty dinners that will generate enough food for the next day’s lunch. And, yes, I’m also a dum-dum for not baking some snacks for myself every weekend. However, Rome wasn’t built in a day and I know that I won’t kick all of my bad habits in a single blow.
The question I’ve had to ask myself recently is why should the fast-food places get my money instead of the grocery stores when it’s the grocery stores that best meet my need for tasty, healthy lunches & snacks?
Now that I’ve identified my money mistake, my next step is to stop making it in the future.
I’ve committed to reducing how much I spend on eating out. Time with friends over a meal is still very important to me so there will be no changes to that part of my budget.
The big change will happen on the days when I don’t have lunch plans. For those days, I will cook something delicious for dinner so that I have leftovers. Lasagna is a marvellous leftover food! I’ve also got a kick-ass recipe for Shepherd’s Pie. A few weeks ago, I discovered a recipe from www.allrecipes.com for something called Chicken, Sausage, Peppers & Potatoes – a wonderful one pot meal that easily accommodates additional vegetables if desired.
I will stop at the grocery stores two to three times a week so that I have the ingredients on hand to cook for myself. I may never learn to love grocery shopping, but it’s simply something I have to do to live my best life and to maximize the enjoyment that I get from my money. Am I still spending money? Yes, of course. Am I getting more enjoyment out of my money? Hell, yes!!!
It took a long time for me to come to this realization but I’m finally convinced of its truth. Cooking and baking my own food is a highly effective and utterly delicious way to satisfy my hunger and to save money at the same time.