I’ve enough life experience to know that life gets in the way of the best laid plans. And since this is a personal finance blog, I’m going to try and expound on this idea as it impacts your money decisions.

It’s easy to tell people to invest consistently. Showing others how to set up automatic transfers to a brokerage account is a matter of a few graphs and maybe some one-on-one coaching. Reminding people of the importance of always living below their means is a simple task. Wanting to do those things is as easy as falling off a log!

The reality is that doing those things is NOT EASY. Ideally, everyone would be able to invest money from every single paycheque, without fail. Being able to do so for years and years requires that a lot of things go very right for a very long time.

First of all, you need to earn an income that has room for saving. If every penny you earn is spent on shelter, food, transportation and utilities, then where is the “investing-money” going to come from? Are you willing to cut back to only eating twice a day? Maybe you won’t bother paying for electricity during the summer months? Maybe you wouldn’t mind only showering once a week to save on water?

My point is that there is an income level at which it is unrealistic to expect someone to save. They would be living a life of deprivation, such that their basic needs are not being met. It would be cruel and perverse to expect that they would deprive themselves even more.

So let’s say someone is making enough to cover all of their needs and most of their wants. They might even have enough for a luxury or two. These are the people with “investing-money”. They can live below their means and still live a comfortable life.

However, life can get in the way of their investing plans too. What if a family member needs financial help? Or what if a vehicle needed to commute to work is totaled and the insurance payout isn’t enough to buy a replacement in cash? Maybe the parents’ retirement income isn’t enough to keep the lights on so they need a few hundred dollars every month to keep from being hungry? What if an employer goes bankrupt and another position isn’t to be found for another 8 months? What if illness prevents one from ever working again?

My point is that you can only invest month-in-month-out if everything goes well all the time.

This isn’t the reality for most. For the majority of us, there are always expenses that crop up and demand that we make a choice. You can personally make all the right personal finance moves then have your life upended by a motor vehicle or workplace accident that requires months, maybe years of rehabilitation. No one chooses to be hurt in this fashion. Being a great employee won’t save you if your employer goes bankrupt during a recession and no one else is hiring. Similarly, that status won’t help you if the only jobs you can find are minimum wage or just above that level. Let’s be honest. You cannot invest what you don’t have.

Even if you have an emergency fund, there’s no universal law stating that your emergency will cost as much as or less than what you’ve socked away. Similarly, there’s no prohibition against you experiencing more than one serious emergency at a time. And if you are “lucky enough” to have an emergency that falls within the capacity of your fund to handle, then you’re in the position of having to replenish your emergency fund.

So unless you’re income has increased, you’re faced with the choice of using your money to invest or to replenish your emergency fund. After all, you only have a finite amount of money. You owe it to yourself to make the best use of it. Having an emergency fund is a cornerstone to taking care of your financial needs. Yet, investing for the Care and Comfort of Future You is also extremely important.

It’s called personal finance because it’s personal. There is no one right answer for everyone. With each passing day, I am convinced that it’s a rare few who can invest without fail over a lifetime. While many have the intention, the vagaries of life can sometimes impede the implementation of such a plan.

Do me a quick, free favor. If you’re doing your best to save for your future, then pat yourself on the back. You still have to survive today. And if that means lowering your investment contribution to $10 per month, then so be it. I am not going to suggest that you starve today so that you can eat tomorrow. If you’ve used your emergency fund, replenish it. If you don’t have an emergency fund, start one. If you’ve lost your income, then preserve your money until you’ve secured another source of income. If your family needs help to avoid ending up on the street, then make the decision that lets you sleep well at night.

Life gets in the ways of the best laid plans. That doesn’t mean you stop planning. It means that you adjust and tweak your investment plan as necessary, without abandoning it completely.