Category: Financial Independence

Budget? No, thank you.

I don’t use a budget. I’ve been in charge of my own money since I got my first part-time job, in a grocery store, at the age of 15. Not once since that time have I ever written out a budget in order to allocate a certain amount towards food, towards clothing, towards entertainment, towards X.

If you’ve been reading my blog for the past couple of years, you’ll know that I’m a huge fan of automatic transfers and sinking funds.

Very simply, my paycheque hits my bank account. My automatic transfers kick into high gear. Various amounts of money are dispersed among my many, many bank accounts. (Each account has a very specific purpose!) Then I spend whatever is left in my account.

For the cheap seats in the bank, I say again that I don’t use a budget.

If budgets work for you, then stop reading.

For my part, I’m not against budgets if they work for you. Everyone needs a good money-management system and budgets are one of the options available for controlling spending.

A budget simply doesn’t work for me.

See, if I’m at the grocery store and I see something that I want but which isn’t on my list, then I’m still going to buy it. I don’t want to walk past it solely because it’s not in the budget. (I might walk by it because I don’t need more calories/sodium in my diet, but that’s a different blog topic.) The same principle applies to clothing, shoes, gasoline, whatever isn’t already covered by my sinking funds.

And lest you think that money runs through my fingers like water, I promise you that there is a method to my budget-free madness.

The backbone of my money-management system lies in taking care of the Big, Important Priorities first. Once my priorities have been funded, then it doesn’t matter if I buy a couple of extra things at the grocery store or drive more than I’d intended in a given week. The most important elements of my financial life get funded first so that daily decisions don’t matter too, too much so long as I don’t go into debt. Rule number one of my system is always avoid debt!

Although I’m still fine-tuning it after all these years, the system I’ve developed for myself ensures that my medium-term and long-term priorities each get the lion’s share of my paycheque before I start doing my day-to-day spending. The impulse purchase of a pair of jeans while window-shopping at lunchtime is not going to derail my retirement dreams.

Automatic Transfers & Sinking Funds

The most important quivers in my money-management arsenal are automatic transfers and sinking funds. One of the most burdensome realities of adulting as a Single One is that all the expenses of my household are my responsibility. That means, I pay all the utilities and taxes and insurances. It also means that if I want to travel to Vancouver to enjoy the cherry blossoms in the spring, then I’m the one who has to scrounge up the money to do so.

In the pre-COVID19 days, I had a far more active social life that included concerts, travel, and meals with friends. Those activities have been curtailed for now, but I’m sure that I’ll get to enjoy most of them again.

My point is that I rely on automatic transfers and sinking funds to pay for the expenses of my life. For example, I pay my insurance premiums on a yearly basis. I have a sinking fund for that particular bill. I take the amount I paid last year, increase it by 10%, then divide that number by my annual number of paycheques. The final amount is then automatically sent to my sinking fund every time I get paid. When the premium due date rolls around, I’m not left wondering where to come up with several thousand dollars.

While I realize that some people pay their insurance monthly, I abhor the idea of anyone other than me withdrawing money form my account. I’d prefer not to grant access to my bank accounts to anyone else.

I have sinking funds for all of the following:

  • insurance premiums;
  • property taxes;
  • annual vacations;
  • birthday and celebration gifts;
  • Registered Retirement Savings Plan contributions;
  • Tax Free Savings Plan contributions;
  • renovations;
  • MISC.

Yes, I set aside a segment of my paycheque for miscellaneous stuff. I might decide to do something fun and unexpected, so I need to have a bit of money tucked aside for this unanticipated spending. Sometimes the MISC-money has to be spent on not-fun stuff, like a new pair of glasses – they’re quite necessary but they won’t be cheap.

Leftover money gets spent…

Yes, that’s right. Think of my automatic system as a blackjack dealer in a casino. My sinking funds are the players. The deck is my paycheque. Once the system has dealt money to each of my sinking funds, I’m free to spend whatever’s leftover however I want.

Again, I don’t use a budget. The leftover money is spent on groceries, clothes, gasoline, liquor, dining out, whatever I want. What I love best about my money-management system is that I can spend however I want in the very short-term because my medium-term and long-term goals are also being met. It’s the best of both worlds for me.

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Weekly Tip: Consider following the 50-30-20 rule for your money, which I first learned about in the book All Your Worth written by Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi. In a nutshell, the rule says that 50% of your net income is spent on your necessities, otherwise known as MUST-HAVE’s. Then next 30% is spent on non-necessities, the Want-to-Have’s. The final 20% goes straight into Savings and Investing.

The Honest Truth

Roughly 20 years ago, I landed my first professional office job. It entailed monthly meetings with my manager, wherein I updated him on my current workload. He was an amiable man and most meetings were sprinkled with little nuggets of life advice.

One of the acorns of advice that has always stayed with me is the following. “Never believe that this place needs you. Always remember that you can be replaced.”

It sounds harsh, doesn’t it? As I look back on those words, I appreciate them because they are the honest truth.

My manager wasn’t being mean or obnoxious. He was being truthful. If I hadn’t been hired to do my job, then my organization would have hired someone else. And if I had chosen to walk out at that very minute, the organization would have tackled the task of finding my replacement.

That particular acorn took root.

For nearly two decades, those words have rolled around in my head. The honest truth they embodied has been one of the underlying reasons of why I save and invest. It is imperative that my money works as hard for me as I do for it. My money must insulate me to the greatest extent possible from the financial consequences should my organization decide that it’s time for me to be replaced, that it can survive without my contributions to its operations.

If you’re somewhat sentient when this post is published, then you can’t help but be aware that a great many people have lost their jobs through no fault of their own because of the COVID-19 pandemic. The news reports are rife with articles of the millions of people who have had no choice but to turn to the government for financial assistance to survive.

However, I suspect that there is a cohort of the Recently-Let-Go who haven’t had to ask for financial assistance. I’m willing to guess that this cohort is compromised of people who’ve worked for a couple of decades and who made the choice to live below their means throughout their working lives so that they could invest their money. I wouldn’t be surprised if this fortunate cohort has made the choice to stay out of debt no matter how often credit was offered to them. And I’ve assumed that this cohort is going to keep a tight, heavy lid on their status so that they can continue to live as they always have – social distancing & hand-washing as required – without drawing the ire of their family, friends, neighbours & former co-workers. Check out the comments on this article.

Continued employment isn’t guaranteed.

As a result of my manager’s words, I’ve always known that my employment was at the whim of someone else. Sure – I’d likely find another position somewhere else, but what if it took me a long time to do so? How would I pay for my life between one employer and the next? Even if I tried to become self-employed (something that has never held any appeal to me), how would I pay for my life before the money started rolling in?

Hearing the honest truth from my manager during a routine monthly meeting incentivized me to do all of the following things:

  • pay off my student loans as quickly as possible;
  • build my emergency fund through automatic transfers every payday;
  • re-pay the loan on my SUV in 6 months by making gargantuan payments every two weeks & by sacrificing a little bit of fun & frivolity;
  • invest a portion every paycheque in the stock market once the mortgage on my principle residence had been paid off;
  • move out of mutual funds and into exchange traded funds once I learned how deeply management expense ratios impacted my overall rate of return;
  • stay out of debt by paying off my credit cards every single month; and
  • pay cash for everything.

I know those last two bullet points sound contradictory, but they aren’t. If I don’t have cash, then I don’t use my credit cards. Once the cash is in my bank account, then out comes my credit card to make the purchase. This method means that I earn cash back or points towards groceries. The charge is applied to my account then I send a payment from my bank account to my credit card. Best of both worlds – I always pay cash while taking advantage of the perks of having my credit cards. If you can’t pay off your credit cards every month, then don’t do what I do. Only spend cash or use a debit card!

Motivation comes from unlikely sources.

It’s taken me a long time to see the link between words spoken nearly 20 years ago and the financial choices that I’ve made in my life. The honest truth from my manager’s lips motivated me to build as big a financial cushion as I could as fast as humanly possible. It didn’t happen overnight, and there were many mistakes made along the way. To this day, payday still means that a chunk of money is set aside for the future.

Another source of motivation for me comes from our current global pandemic. COVID-19 has me re-assessing whether my emergency fund is big enough. For record, I have made plans to increase it. It’s my firm belief that no one has ever regretted having “too much money” during an emergency.

In a similar vein, the money saved from staying home while most everything is closed has been re-directed into sinking funds. There are still big expenses on the horizon. Property taxes will still have to be paid at some point. My home and vehicle insurance premiums are still due in a few months. Birthdays and other celebrations might still require me to open my wallet, even if I can only visit with people via video and telephone. The annually recurring expenses of living will continue to come around, whether we’re still in a pandemic or not.

Do yourself a favour! Go back to my manager’s works and let them sink in. At the end of the day, your employer can always choose to replace you. Sooner or later, there is going to be a parting of the ways for reasons that may be beyond your control. Be proactive – take the steps today to ensure that you’ll be financially okay when that time comes.

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Weekly Tip: Live below your means so that you have money to invest. This is another way of saying pay yourself first. After you’ve paid yourself, then you can get down to the business of paying everyone else.

It’s Okay to Keep Your Money

If you’re not already aware, then let me be the first to say the following: it’s okay to keep your money! You don’t have to spend all of it.

Now, you probably shouldn’t keep all of it either. After all, doing so means you won’t eat, nor have a roof over your heard or clothes on your back. Keeping every single penny of what you earn causes just as many problems as spending it all! A balance should be found as soon as possible.

Today’s post is based on my observation that there’s a goodly number of people out there who appear to operate on the belief that they simply must ensure that their expenses are equal to their income. I’m here to tell that such a belief is simply not true. It’s a formula guaranteed to keep you running in a hamster wheel for your whole life. Without keeping a little bit of your own money, you’ll never have the option of quitting whatever it is you’re paid to do now so that you can do whatever it is that you really want to do with your time.

You’re More than a Conduit

From what I’ve seen on a daily basis, there are many people who are little more than conduits between their paycheques and various retailers. These are people who work hard for their money, possibly at jobs they love and possibly not. They leave the comfort of their homes when they’d rather not. Nearly all are giving up time otherwise spent doing what they truly enjoy so that they can go to work and earn a paycheque. They’re foregoing sleep and health and time with friends & family all so that they can meet work obligations!

And then they turn around and spend every cent they’ve earned with barely a thought about the effort expended to earn it. I find this behaviour utterly baffling!

My comments are directed at those of you whose income don’t keep you on the absolute edge of solvency. I’m targeting those of you who can live well away from the edge yet you choose to put yourselves there. You work so hard for your money and you choose to spend it all.

Has no one told you that you don’t need to spend your money this way?

Again, it’s perfectly okay to keep your money.

Contrary to what the AdMan and the Creditor tell you every waking moment of your day, you’re not obligated to spend everything you earn. I will admit that the advertisements are enticing. Beautiful people are selling me everything from toothpaste to Tesla’s. Their sparkling white teeth and full heads of shiny hair inspire confidence that the products they’re hawking will complete my life. All I have to do is hand over my money and my life will be perfect.

It’s a seductive message.

Sadly, it’s also completely false! If we learned one thing from the Grinch by way of Dr. Seuss, it is this: happiness doesn’t come from the store!

Your Dreams Won’t Fund Themselves

So I say it again – it’s okay to keep your money! Put a portion of it away in an investment account so you can fund those years when your paycheque goes away. Create a few dream accounts! These are the accounts where you save up for those things that make your heart dance with joy. Maybe that’s a fancy cooking class. Perhaps it’s a trip to Greece. It might even be a fancy cooking class in Greece! You alone know what your truest desires are.

Yet, you won’t be able to fund those dreams and desires if you consistently spend every penny as fast as you can. The Hair & Teeth of Marketing aren’t going to help you achieve your goals. Their only objective is to persuade you to open your wallet. You have to believe me when I tell you that it’s okay to save your money for the things that you really want.

To be very clear, I’m not talking about people who have to devote their entire paycheques to rent and food. If you’re keeping it all together on a shoestring, then more power to you! The ones I’m talking about are those who have disposable income. They have some slack. If they had to take a pay-cut at work, they’d be able to stay in their current home and eat what they currently eat. Maybe they’d have to give up a few subscriptions, annual travel, and their plans to replace a 3-year old vehicle. Bottom line is that they would still have enough money to meet the survival expenses of food, shelter, and basic clothing.

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Weekly Tip: The 2019 RRSP contribution deadline is March 2, 2020. Make sure that you contribute something to your RRSP so that you have some cushion for your retirement years. Do not get trapped in analysis-paralysis. Make an RRSP contribution, preferably in an exchange-traded fund. Then leave the money alone for a long-time. While your RRSP-money is growing & compounding, your duty to Future You is to continue learning about investment options by reading books, blogs, magazines, websites, forums, stickies, and post-it’s. Learn as much as you can about this because it’s very, very important. Save-invest-learn-repeat.

What If…

When I talk about financial independence and wanting to retire early, many people look at me as if I’d sprouted a second head right in front of them.

“I love my job!” they say. “I don’t want to retire!”

Great! Wonderful! You’re being paid to do what you love – that makes you one of the Lucky Ones!

Take a moment and consider what it’s like for those of us who aren’t so blessed as to love our livelihoods, those of us who dream of a day when we can do what we want with all of our precious, precious time. Most of us work because we have to, not because we love what we do. And a good number of workers don’t actively hate their jobs. They simply don’t love them and would rather be paid to do something that they enjoyed.

And if you’re wondering why we don’t just find jobs that we love and do those instead, please gently hit yourself in the head with a hammer. Take it on good authority that we have tried to find jobs that we love as much as you love yours. There just aren’t as many of those ideal positions going around so not all of us are going to get one.

Instead, I’m going to ask you Lucky Ones to put yourselves in the shoes of the rest of us. That way, you might gain some insight into why some of us are working so hard to achieve financial independence and, possibly, early retirement.

Lucky Ones, ask yourselves the following: What if you didn’t love your job? And what if the job you love today turns into one that you don’t love tomorrow?

What if any of the following things happen?

  • The boss you love retires…and the new boss isn’t to your liking.
  • Your best work buddies move away.
  • You have to take on duties that make you stressed and irritable.
  • You’re passed over for a promotion that you know you earned.
  • Others are laid off, which means your workload goes up.
  • Harassment, sexual or otherwise, creeps into your daily workday.

There are many, many things that can happen in one hot minute to turn a job-you-love into a job-you-hate. Spend an hour or two at Ask-A-Manager to see what I mean. If half of the people writing to Alison had built up enough money to leave their jobs when they wished, then she’d have so much less to write about!

Or maybe your job never causes you to shed a tear, yet you lose it anyway. For example, your company is bought by another one, or there’s some kind of re-organization. For whatever reason, your job is eliminated. It happens to a lot of people. Those who don’t have a financial cushion are the ones who will be stressed and desperate to find something else. People who’ve been working towards financial independence have the luxury of taking some time to figure out what the next steps are going to be.

What if you had enough money to walk away from your job when it stops making you happy? Or what if you had a great, big cushion of money to land on if you were kicked to the curb due to downsizing or ageism?

That’s the beauty and power of financial independence. When your job stops being one that brings you joy, being financially independent gives you the choice to walk away.

I want to be explicitly clear – you don’t have to retire early just because you’re financially independent. Money = choices. Having money doesn’t remove your choice to keep working. It simply gives you the choice to do something else when your current position stops bringing you happiness.

So make hay while the sun shines! Get in touch with your inner squirrel and start gathering that sweet, sweet cash for the day when you’ve simply had enough. You won’t regret having the options that only money can buy when the time comes.

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Weekly Tip: Pick one day a week to be the day that you don’t spend any money. Most of us spend a little something every single day. Did you know that it only takes $27.40 per day to spend $10,000 in one year? Challenge yourself to keep your money in your pocket atleast one day out of every 7.

Progress need not be Perfect!

When you know better, you do better…

from one wise soul to another, Maya Angelou to Oprah Winfrey

No one is born knowing how to invest. This is awesome news! It means that anyone can learn how to invest if they take the time to practice the skill. It also means that progress need not be perfect.

Much like walking, playing the piano, and mastering Candy Crush, the skills of investing must be practiced and honed before one becomes proficient at them.

I’m a huge fan of YouTube. As I was perusing the millions of videos on that platform, I came across one that was called “Vanguard or Fidelity – Which one is Better?”

And do you want to know something?

Yes, Blue Lobster. Please, tell us what you’re thinking.

My initial reaction to that post’s title was to scroll right past it. I’ve learned a little bit of wisdom on my relatively few revolutions around the sun. And one of those bits is that it’s best to just start investing, regardless of where you do so. Progress need not be perfect in order for you to achieve your dreams. Think of it this way – every journey starts with a single step but not every journey to the same destination requires the same number of steps. If a person needs to take a few extra steps to where she’s going, then she still gets there.

Focus on progress, not on perfection.

For example, we will look at the situation of an investor named One. Let’s say One decides to invest with Fidelity. (To be frank and open, I invest with Vanguard Canada. And no – I’m not being compensated for mentioning them in this blog post.) One sets up an account at Fidelity and creates an automatic transfer to have a fixed amount invested into an exchange traded fund every time One gets paid.

Superb! One has taken the very first steps towards investing for One’s own future.

Did One make the absolutely best choice for an investment account? It’s hard to say without knowing if One spent hours doing the research to determine the management expense ratios, various fees, product offerings, and account features from all of the investing companies that One could have chosen.

What we do know with certainty is that One did not delay her progress by staying in the quagmire created by analysis-paralysis. One made the smart choice by focusing on progress, rather than trying to achieve perfection. One is taking action by accepting the maxim that progress need not be perfect.

There’s no doubt in my mind that a perfect, best account does exist somewhere out there. I’m just not certain that it makes sense to waste more than 3-4 hours looking for it. The ultimate objective is to start investing your money; it’s not “to open the perfect, best investment account.” Keep your eyes on the prize! No one is going to pat you on the back for opening the absolute best and perfect investment account if it takes you 2 years to find it after sifting through all the options. The best and perfect account doesn’t actually help you if you never actually open it and make an investment.

Again, progress need not be perfect. I know a baby who has just started to walk. He’s only been doing it for a few weeks, but he’s focused on progress, not on perfection. At first, he could only stand and would fall down every time he moved his head. A week later, he could walk ten steps unaided. The next time I saw him, he would walk slowly…and drop down to crawl if he had to get somewhere quickly. (The kid’s got a great big brain and understands that sometimes speed is of the essence!) The last time I saw him, this kid was very nearly walking like a champ – moving his head, going further distances, turning around without falling down too much. In another six weeks, crawling will have long been forgotten as a preferred method of travel.

The first time you walked, you fell down after a few steps. You didn’t let that stop you, did you? No, you didn’t! Instead, you tried again and again and again and again until you could do it. Without knowing you personally, I’m willing to bet that you’re now quite a proficient walker. The same principle applies to investing.

Always be learning while making progress.

Be like a baby – save and invest your money with the perspective that progress need not be perfect!

You see, there’s nothing stopping you from continuing to research investment accounts once you’ve started investing. Save-invest-learn-repeat. You are free to keep learning after you’ve made an investment.

Again, full-disclosure, I invest with BMO Investorline. And, again, I’m not getting compensated for mentioning them. Yet just because I invest with BMO Investorline doesn’t mean that I haven’t also research Scotia I-Trade, Questrade, RBC Direct Investing, or any other investing platform/company. (I’m not being paid for mentioning these platforms.)

Further, I have no idea if BMO Investorline is the ultimate, best and perfect option for me. It doesn’t matter. What does matter is that I am automatically investing in very inexpensive exchange traded funds and earning big dividends every month. And even though I’ve been with BMO Investorline for years, I would switch my investment portfolio in a heartbeat if I found a platform that better suited my needs for a lower price.

If One discovers that Vanguard Canada offers a more suitable range of investments products than Fidelity, then One is not in any way prevented from moving One’s investment account from Fidelity to Vanguard Canada.

Procrastination is the enemy of progress.

When it comes to investing your money, procrastination is extremely detrimental to achieving your financial goals. The reason why it is so bad is because you have a finite amount of time in which to grow your money. Money needs to be invested so it can compound. And compounding is most effective over long periods of time. Ergo, start investing your money right now so that it has as long as possible to compound.

Don’t let analysis-paralysis stop you from taking action today!

Your progress need not be perfect in order for you to reach your goals. Lord knows that my investment path hasn’t been smooth, nor will it ever be exalted as the absolutely correct path to take. If anything, my investment story should be viewed as a cautionary tale for fellow investors. However imperfect my journey has been, the fact that I started when I was 21 and have consistently invested my money for the past 2.5 decades has been a key factor in me pursuing and achieving my goals.

Neither you nor I can get to where we want to go without making some kind of progress. So we have an obligation to ourselves to keep moving forwards. Whether that’s listening to a podcast, reading a book, following a blog, or using trial-and-error, doing any or all of these things will lead us closer to taking action. And taking action is how we will progress towards making our dreams come true.

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Weekly Tip: Don’t pay for memberships or subscriptions if they’re no longer making your happy. As much as we might like to believe it, peer pressure didn’t end when we graduated from high school. Review your monthly expenses. How many things are you paying for simply because your friends are paying for them? If those things are no longer bringing you joy, then stop paying for them.

Know Where Your Money Goes

It is a simple truism that what gets measured is also what gets managed. I can think of few other places where people fail to put this truism to good work beyond their money behaviour. People will track their calories, the amount of gas they put in their cars, the number of times they work out. Yet so few people will track their own money.

This is very perplexing to me. Tracking your money is one of the first steps towards controlling it. You have to know where you money goes.

Lately, I’ve been hearing a lot of talk about “self-care”. Since this is a personal finance blog, I’m going to put my own little twist on this idea. You can feel free to share this bit of wisdom with anyone and everyone.

One of the best ways for you to practice self-care is to know where your money goes. Every single time you spend money, you should know exactly where it is going and why. Anything less is a self-inflicted financial wound.

When I had cable, I loved watching “Til Debt Do Us Part”. (Sadly, the show has since been cancelled.) It was a TV show about couples who turned to a guru to help them figure out their money before money destroyed their relationship. The very first thing the couples had to do was track their money for a month or so before Madam Guru showed up.

Most of the couples had never tracked their money. I always enjoyed the look on their faces when they discovered that they were spending hundreds of dollars each month on bank fees and coffee! It was as though they’d convinced themselves that small amounts didn’t really count when it came to spending their money.

Does this sound familiar to you? Is it possible that you’re one who believes “it’s only a couple of bucks” each time you buy a coffee? Never mind that you buy coffee two or three times a day, Monday to Friday… which works out to over $1000 per year on coffee alone. That amount could fund a nice weekend getaway somewhere.

Relax, relax! I’m not going to tell you not to buy coffee. It’s your money – that means you get to decide how it’s spent. If you would rather spend money on coffee than on something else, that’s your business. Your money, your choice.

And yet… Who among us hasn’t looked in their wallet or bank account and asked: “Where did all my money go?”

I’m here to tell you that getting a solid answer to that question depends on you. Measure you money so that you can manage it. Given how hard you work for your paycheque, it’s in your own best interest to understand why each of your dollars leaves your hands. In other words, you must start keeping track all of your money.

Some people use Personal Capital. Others use Mint. There are probably many other apps for money-tracking that are unknown to me. Myself? I’m relatively old-school. I don’t keep track of my money with lead pencils by candlelight anymore. Instead, I created two personalized spreadsheets. When I spend money, I keep the receipts then I add the amount spent to the appropriate spreadsheet. If I don’t get a receipt, I make a note on my phone of how much money left my wallet. Every nickel is accounted for. This how I know how much it costs me to run my life.

Thanks to the wisdom of TDDUP, I started tracking my spending in 2016. I have a spreadsheet for the cost of running my home where I track my monthly expenses. Those include lawn care, snow removal, Netflix, phone, power, water, car registration, property taxes, insurance premiums and internet. These are the standard bills that have to be paid on a recurrent basis, whether monthly or annually. Some expenses can be eliminated if I choose since they’re luxuries – lawn care & snow removal – while others are fixed. My car and home certainly won’t insure themselves! And I suspect my municipality will get testy if I were to neglect to pay my property taxes.

I have a second spreadsheet for the day-to-day variable expenses of my life. This document tracks my groceries, clothing, medication, gasoline, parking, entertainment, travel, gifts, donations at work, outside food & drinks, taxis, books, etc… Anything that doesn’t go towards the recurring expenses on spreadsheet #1 is recorded on spreadsheet #2. My goal is to spend less than $1,000 each month on these variable expenses. Since 2016, I think I’ve hit my goal twice!

You see, the beauty of my spreadsheets is that they provide me with information and insights into how I spend my money. Up until a few months ago, when I started cooking at home more often, I was spending atleast 1.5X more on food outside my home than I was expending on groceries. I don’t begrudge the money spent on outside-food (as I like to call it). I was hungry. The food was there. I had money – I ate – I wasn’t hungry anymore. The system was satisfactory… until I started pondering on my priorities for my money.

Was spending so much on outside-food getting me closer or further away from my goals? Was I spending the same amount each month on eating out? Would my money go farther if I cooked my own meals more often than not?

Tracking my money helped me to answer these questions. I was able to look at my historical spending patterns to see where I was spending too much. I analyzed which categories needed to be trimmed in order for my spending to align with my personal goals. The information garnered from knowing where my money motivated me to make better spending choices.

I challenge to you to track all of your purchases for a few weeks. Then determine for yourself if your spending choices are helping you to fund the priorities that matter most to you. Know where your money goes.

A Faucet of Income

Even if you’re a Singleton like me, the implications of intergenerational wealth may have touched your life at some point. I like to think of intergenerational wealth as a faucet of income that helps younger generations to start their adult lives without debt. It’s a financial tool that allows young adults to master the skills of successful adulthood without being burdened by the yoke of debt.

In my case, my parents were able to pay for most of my education. They did the same for my brother. And had I not moved out during my second degree, they likely would have paid for all of it. I graduated with $15,000 in student loans and was fortunately able to pay them off within 2 years of graduating.

I’ve mentioned before that my parents weren’t rich, but they were long-term thinkers. My “Baby Bonus” cheques were deposited into the bank to buy Canada Savings Bonds from the time I was born. Interest rates were good – the money grew – my (and my brother’s) university was paid for – hooray! This is but one small example of the power of intergenerational wealth.

The parents in my social circle are using Registered Education Savings Plans (RESPs) to fund the costs of their kids’ educations. I’ve no idea how they invest their money, but I admire their determination to ensure that their kids have access to this form of intergenerational wealth when the time comes.

This week, I was listening to Beardy Brandon of Bigger Pockets on his YouTube channel. (Rest assured that I’m not getting paid for mentioning this website.) If you don’t know who he is, Brandon is a very successful real estate investor who runs a very, very successful blog teaching other people how to be successful real estate investors too. In one particular episode, Brandon mentioned buying properties for his children and having them paid off by the time that his kids started post-secondary school.

Wait! What?

Yes – you read that right. Part of Brandon’s plan to create a faucet of income for his family is to buy his children a property when they’re young, have it paid off by the time they graduate high school, and use the rental income and/or equity to pay for their post-secondary schooling. Along the way, Brandon’s kids will learn the real estate investment business while having some skin in the game.

Plans are the Result of Dreams Mixing with Money

Intergenerational wealth starts with a plan. This is not surprising. Yet, a plan without the money to implement it remains a dream. If Brandon didn’t have money, then he couldn’t have bought homes for his children. If my parents hadn’t had money, then they couldn’t have bought Canada Savings Bonds for their kids’ education. Sam Walton had to have the cash set aside to buy the first store way back in the day, long before the Wal-Mart empire took over the world and ensured that his kids never had to run a cash register for a living.

What I find so incredible about the stories of intergenerational wealth is that the parents (or grandparents) set a living-and-breathing example of delayed gratification for their children. They are long-term thinkers who find ways to use today’s money to fund the dreams of a tomorrow that may be well over a decade away. I always imagine young parents holding their new baby for the first time and thinking “How are we going to pay for med school?”

The decision by an ancestor to keep a little bit back in order to invest it in something profitable changes a family tree. The parent is taking a leap of faith, although hopefully a well-researched one. No one knows what tomorrow will bring and there are no guarantees that the investment will pay off. However, choosing to never invest in anything is guaranteed to bring a return of absolutely nothing.

Start Adult Life Without Debt

If not for my stubborn decision to move out of the house, I could have graduated completely debt free. My parents had created a faucet of income that would’ve allowed me that privilege. Instead, I made a short-term decision and there was a debt to pay.

Now that I’m well into adulthood, I have a better appreciation of how significant a gift it is to start adulthood without debt. I’ve paid off a mortgage, car loans, and student loans during my time. I took out the debt knowing full well that I had an obligation to pay it back – no argument there.

However, that doesn’t stop me from envying Brandon’s children who won’t have to take out a mortgage for a home. If they want to live in the homes that their father has bought them, they can. Should they decide to live in another home and have the first one pay the mortgage on the second home, they can do that too. And if they want to travel the world, their rental income can fund their travels. In short, they don’t have to take on debt because their father has created a faucet of income for them. It’s a plan that’s 15+ years in the making – another example of that long-term thinking that I was mentioning before.

Intergenerational wealth is a way to avoid assuming crippling debt burdens in your 20s. Beneficiaries of such largesse are able to start their adult lives on a firm financial foundation.

For example, take student loans. For some people, they’re a path to a financially secure future. After all, one can’t become a cardiologist without somehow footing the bill for medical school. However, there’s no denying that student loans can also trap people on a hellish repayment treadmill because they borrowed $100,000 for employment that pays $35,000.

It’s astonishing to me that people as young as 18 are allowed to take on huge financial debts, yet they’re not allowed to legally imbibe alcohol in many jurisdictions in North America.

“I’d like to borrow $30,000 per year for a degree, please. I have no idea how much I’ll have to pay back for these student loans once the interest is calculated. I’m not certain whether the salary of my desired career will allow me to pay off these loans while still saving for a home, a family, and a retirement. I also have no idea how to calculate how much my anticipated monthly repayment will be.”

“Sure – not a problem. Just sign here.”

“And I’d like a beer.”

“What the hell is wrong with you?!?!! You’re too young to drink!”

Play the Hand You’re Dealt

When you have access to intergenerational wealth, then debt isn’t such a significant factor in your life. You don’t have to borrow money for your education. You might not have to borrow money for a home! Just imagine how different your life would be if you didn’t have any debts to re-pay.

The reality is that not all of us are born to parents who have the money to buy properties for us. Some of us have parents who have the money but also believe that we should take out loans or find another way to fund our educations without their help. What can I say? You play the hand you’re dealt and you do the best you can.

Singleton or not, you have the power to create a faucet of income for someone else.

Living hand-to-mouth means that there’s no room for savings. This is a tough way to survive since you’re always living on the edge. Your income is barely enough to satisfy your necessities of life. This is a poor foundation from which you can build intergenerational wealth, but I’m not saying it’s impossible to do so.

You might want to think about how you’d like your money to be spent when you don’t need it anymore. Do you have nieces or nephews? Maybe there’s a neighbourhood kid who doesn’t drive you crazy? Perhaps you’ve always wanted to start a scholarship for kids interested in the things that tickle your fancy?

Even if you’re not a parent, you have the ability to create intergenerational wealth for someone in your world.

Consistency is One of the Keys

This week, I listened to a story that blew my mind! It was a testament to the power of consistency in investing, through good times and bad. Diane was her name – a lady in her 60s who’d survived divorce from an alcoholic, while raising 4 kids, taking 8 years to get her electrical engineering degree, and starting her professional life at age 42. By the time she’d retired, Diane was worth $5,500,000…. and did I mention that she never earned more than $82,000 per year?

Check out episode 99 on Millionaires Unveiled to hear the rest of her story, a podcast that has recently caught my attention. They focus on interviewing millionaires and the stories are fascinating.

The Financial Independence Retire Early (FIRE) community loves to tell stories about people who figured out who to make a lot of money quickly in order to retire in their 30s and 40s. And to those who can do it, I say “More power to you!”

I would have loved to have retired in my 30s too, but that wasn’t the way that my cookie crumbled. I learned about the FIRE community in my 30s, though the regular channels – Mr. Money Mustache – and went from there. However, no one has been able to teach me how to turn back time so I’ll be retiring in my 50s.

What I loved about Diane’s story is that she had challenges in her life, including cash-flowing college for her children. I mentioned that she had 4 children, but did I tell you that there was a 16-year spread from the oldest to the youngest? Diane was paying for college for 16 years straight and she still wound up debt-free with over $5Million in her kitty.

How in the hell did she do it?

Consistency is the key. Throughout her podcast, Diane emphasized that she and her husband saved atleast 10% of their income throughout their working lives.

Single People, please don’t roll your eyes at this point. Kindly avoid the trap of believing that it’s-easier-if-you’re-married-because-there-are-two-incomes! Diane was very clear that she kept her money separate from her husband’s.

In other words, the money that she has not is solely Diane’s money. Being single is not an impediment to becoming wealthy. It’s possible to become a millionaire even if you don’t become a spouse.

Diane committed to saving 10% of her income from the time she started working in her 20s. At the time of the interview, she was in her 60s. That’s 40 years of investing in the stock market! Diane mentioned that she’s been told to allocate her funds into a 60%-equity & 40%-bond portfolio, but she prefers to keep 70% in equity and 30% in bonds.

That’s two lessons we can take from her story. She chose to save something every payday by living below her means and she invested her savings in the stock market. Time in the stock market helped her investments to grow.

The third lesson from Diane’s story is that you don’t need to make a six-figure income to do what she did. Diane never earned more than $82,000 while she was working. I’ll agree that she earned more than the median income for the average bear, but keep in mind that she was raising children on this income. It’s reasonable to assume that the costs of childrearing ate into whatever was left of her income after she’d set aside her savings.

Creating Wealth for her Family

Diane has also set an example for her children, one that they will hopefully pass down to her grandchildren. Through her actions, Dians has shown her children that consistency is one of the keys to building wealth and that saving money has to happen no matter what. If I understood her correctly, Diane already had children by the time she returned to school at age 34 to study electrical engineering. She worked full-time while studying, and she graduated at age 42. Throughout those 8 years, Diane continued to save and invest from every paycheque like clockwork. At the age of 50, Diane was divorced…and she was worth a cool million dollars. The rest of her money came from the compounding over the next 15 years!

Creating a multi-million dollar nest egg was the first step towards ensuring an intergenerational transfer of wealth within her family. If she chooses, Diane can pay for the post-secondary educations of her grandchildren. By alleviating this financial burden, Diane would effectively be helping two generations of her family. Her children could invest their money towards their financial security and her grandchildren could study and graduate without the burden of student loans. If they are wise, Diane’s children will then use their money to pay for the educations of Diane’s great-grandchildren when the time comes so that the grandchildren can build their wealth.

Do you see how beneficial this cycle of intergenerational wealth can be? Diane’s example of consistently saving and investing for decades is a gift to her children, if they choose to follow it.

Save. Invest. Learn. Repeat.

Just like the rest of us, Diane won’t live forever. It’s time for her to enjoy some of her money while the bulk of it continues to compound and grow. According to the podcast, she is using her money to fulfill her dreams of travelling with her family and creating lasting memories. Good for her!

If you haven’t already started to save and invest, then start today. Open a savings account – set up an automatic transfer so that you save something from each paycheque – invest in the stock market through a broad-based index fund or exchange-traded fund. Live below your means so that you have the money to invest. Save – invest – learn – repeat.

There’s nothing to suggest that Diane had the ability to spend all of her money on her own personal priorities for her whole working life… I’m looking at your Single People Without Children. If you’re a Singleton, then you’re the only person making decisions about where your money should go, which of your dreams to fund, how much you’re willing to invest so that you can create a retirement nest egg for yourself.

Ignore the talking heads in the media. They deliver nothing but a steady stream of hype-and-fear in order to drive ratings. “It’s time to buy! It’s time to sell! It’s time to buy! It’s time to sell!” They have no personal stake in whether you achieve your goals or not, so ignore them.

Saving a little bit of money at a time and investing that money in the stock market will lead to more than a million dollars after a few decades. While your money is working hard for you in the background, you go about the business of living.