Category: General Thoughts

SOS! Funding Your Retirement is an Emergency

This week, I heard a very sad story about how seniors in Canada are becoming increasingly impoverished as they age. They don’t have enough funds to support themselves in their dotage. Here’s the link to the article. I’d encourage you to read it for yourself.

Here’s one of the main take-away’s from the article. If you don’t save for your own future, no one is going to do it for you.

Your employer is not looking out for your financial well-being. Pensions are vanishing. If truth be told, your salary is a business expense that is only grudgingly tolerated. If your employer ever figures out a way to eliminate that expense before you’ve figured out a way to live without your salary, then you will be up shit creek without a paddle. When was the last time a gas station employee pumped your gas?

Your parents probably want to help you, but chances are good that they will need their money to pay for their expenses. Maybe they need nursing care. Perhaps they helped fund your education or had a big debts so they didn’t have a chance to save for their own retirement. Maybe your parents didn’t earn a lot during their working years so they still live hand-to-mouth. If your parents are flush and have promised you everything, you should still save for your own retirement. Inheritances are meant to be received, but they should never be the bedrock of your future financial security.

What about your friends? They may love you to death. You may have the kind of friends who would bring the shovels to help you bury a body without asking any questions. Even friends as treasured as these are not going to fund your retirement. They have their own retirements to fund. At best, you and your friends could figure out a way to buy nice, big house and live together as senior citizens – it could all be very Golden Girls!

As a Singleton, you probably don’t have the benefit of a second income coming into your household. In other words, you generate all the income and the paycheques stop when you do. There’s no second earner to help you bring home the bacon. You won’t benefit from survivor’s benefits or a life insurance policy if your partner pre-deceases you. There’s no back-up salary unless you create one by investing your money today so that you have a cashflow for tomorrow.

****** Stop, Blue Lobster – just stop! What is a “back-up salary”? And how do I get one? Simply put, a back-up salary is a cashflow that comes to you without you having to go to work. Think of dividends. Once you’ve bought the stock, you don’t have to do anything else – the dividends will roll in like clockwork unless something very, very bad happens. Another example is royalties from a book or music. You write the book or the song once – it sells – the royalties roll into your wallet every time the book is sold or the song is played. Think of your back-up salary as money you don’t have to sweat for. Pretty sweet, isn’t it? *******

It’s on you to do the heavy lifting. Should you be fortunate enough to have fat in your budget, then you owe it to yourself to trim it away and to put that money to be better use. Set up an automatic savings plan so that a portion of each paycheque gets squirreled away. Invest in an equity-based index fund or exchange-trade fund. Get out and stay out of debt. Save for purchases before you make them.

If you can max out your TFSA and your RRSP each year, great! If you can’t, then contribute as much as you can. These are registered savings vehicles, which means that your money will grow tax-free while inside them. Money that comes out of a TFSA is never taxed. Money inside an RRSP is taxed upon withdrawal. Remember, you can accumulate money faster if you aren’t paying taxes on it every single year.

When it comes to your retirement, saving money is the factor that matters most. Without savings, there can be no investing. You have to save & invest the money now or else you won’t have enough money later. It’s really that simple.

Absolutely clarity is required for this next point: Simple doesn’t mean easy. Not once in my life have I ever said “It’s too damn easy to save money!”

It’s always hard to save money. There are so many things I want. Temptation – aka: advertising – is everywhere. Truth be told, I like love spending money. You know what else I love? Knowing that I’ll be able to buy groceries after I retire.

If you’d rather not be working in your 70s and 80s, then start saving & investing for retirement today. And if you’ve already started, then good on you – don’t stop. You don’t get a pass on taking care of your financial future just because it’s hard.

It’s up to you. Funding your retirement is an emergency.

The days are long but the years are short. This is an old-fashioned way of saying that time passes by very, very quickly. Even if you think retirement is decades away for you, I want you to believe me when I say it will be here before you know it.

“Your relationship with money?” Clarification is required.

Lately, I’ve been seeing the phrase “your relationship with money” all over the place. What is that?

Clarification is required.

How can you have a relationship with money? It will never remember your birthday, tuck you in at night, check on you to see how you’re doing, worry about your health, or care about your feelings. Money is an inanimate object without feelings towards you. The fact that you have feelings for money is not the same as you have having a relationship with it.

If you have feelings for a movie star or sports figure whom you’ve never met, it doesn’t mean you’re in a relationship with that person. You’re in even less than a relationship with money than with a famous person because there’s a teeny, tiny chance that the Fates may smile on you, let you meet your heart’s desire, and that s/he becomes your friend/partner/spouse/boss/mentor.

Believe me when I say that money will never be any of those people to you or for you.

Money is merely a tool – that is all.

Much like a hammer or fire or a fork, money can be used to help you achieve your life’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. Money does not have feelings towards you, and it never ever will.

Take your birthday, for instance. Money allows you to buy candles for the cake. Money is useful if you want to buy yourself a present. Money is spectacularly proficient at assisting you to throw yourself a birthday party. However, money will never take the initiative to plan a birthday party for you or take the care of all the little details that will make your birthday special. The details, the organization, the planning – those all have to be done by a human being in your life.

Your parents, your friends, your boss, your elderly next neighbour down the street, your barista – these are people with whom you can have a relationship. Good or bad, your interactions with these people will create memories for both of you. Your shared experiences will be the foundation of your relationship with other people. You can influence whether those interactions are friendly or forgettable, frosty or fabulous.

No matter how you use money, the fundamental nature of your use of money is that of a human being using a tool to achieve a purpose. It is akin to you using a knife to butter toast. It is not a relationship, no matter how many times you use that particular tool.

Though we imbue it with many attributes and power, never forget that money isn’t a person. It has no loyalty towards you. It will never love you, never care about you, never think about you for one second. When you die, money will neither remember nor mourn your passing. Money is an inanimate object without feelings, reason, or morals.

Make no mistake. I am perfectly aware that money is extremely useful when it comes to buying things. However, money will never – not even in a million years – satisfy your emotional need for connection with another human being.

The high that comes with spending money on stuff never lasts because it doesn’t satisfy what people really want. They want the joy of connecting to someone else, so they buy the golf clubs or the sweater or the car or the house. What they really want is to feel heard, loved, and appreciated by special people in their lives.

You cannot have a relationship with money. This is why I’m so very perplexed by this phrase “your relationship with money.” You don’t have a relationship with money – it’s impossible. You have more of a connection with someone whom you’ve never met on the other side of the world that you do with money. You know what you have in common with the other-side-of-the-world-stranger? You’re both living on planet Earth and you share a common interest in ensuring that climate change doesn’t destroy the planet.

See? Money is not a person. That means it cannot relate to you. It also means that there’s no relationship.

Money can be used to build relationships.

You can use money to build relationships with people. If you want to do something nice for your co-workers, you can use money to buy the ingredients to bake for your colleagues or to bring in a box of pastries for all to enjoy. If you want to spend more time with your friends, you can use money to host potlucks at your house, to attend concerts with them, or to partake in a once-a-month-no-matter-what dinner date. If you want to improve your relationship with your family, you can use money to do those things that you know will bring the most joy and create the best memories for your kin.

Do you understand what I’m trying to say?

Money is useful for assisting you to achieve some of the relationship goals that you may have for relationships with the people in real life. Allow me to be clear. Money won’t solve all relationship problems, but it can certainly facilitate the creation of experiences & memories that you wish to share with those who are close to your heart. Do you want to take a vacation with friends? Attend a concert with a sibling? Try a new restaurant with a fellow foodie? Money can help you do all of those things.

Money is a tool that permits you to create experiences with other human beings. Those shared experiences are the foundation of your relationships, whether positive or negative. Money has no feelings about those interactions one way or another, which means money is not relating to you. It is simply a tool that you can use to achieve what you want.

You can have as many relationships as your energy and time will allow. But I’m here to tell you that you simply cannot have a relationship with money.

Per Diems Move the Needle

One of the best things about being a Singleton is that you alone are responsible for your financial choices. You need not debate each purchase nor do you need to compromise with anyone about how your household’s money will be spent. You have the freedom to choose which of your life’s goals to pursue and how to fund them.

Based on my own experience & observations of others, personal goals often have a financial component. Money has to be sourced somehow. Children have the benefit of someone else generally paying for their lives. They get to write lists to Santa Claus to get what they want. They can even leave teeth under their pillows in order to wake up to money. Adults – not so much. (Some of my friends pay their kids $5/tooth… the power of inflation is real, ladies & gentlemen.)

Enter the per diem…

Pray tell, Blue Lobster – what is a per diem?

I first learned of them when I started travelling for work. On top of reimbursements for my meals & accommodations, I earned a per diem for the incidentals that I might have to buy while away from the office and home. Most of the time, I didn’t have to use my per diem so I would simply sock it away in a savings account.

In terms of personal finance, a per diem is simply is a daily amount of money that you pay to yourself.

You can create your own per diem by deciding how much money you want to pay yourself each day. You know how you choose to pay a certain amount each day for rent/mortgage? Student loan payments? Credit card bills? Utility payments?

Add up each of these payments then divide that amount by the number of days in the year. This is how much you’re paying on a daily basis for each area of your financial life. If you haven’t already done this exercise, trust me when I tell you it’ll be an eye-opener!

Next, I want you to pick a number and pay that to yourself. It could be $1 per day, $10 per day, or $100. The amount is up to you since you know your numbers better than I do. Keep in mind that a higher per diem means that you’ll reach your goals and accumulate money faster.

Why do I like this money hack?

I want people to be aware of how they spend their money. I hear so many people complain about never having any, yet I never hear them articulate where it goes. To my way of thinking, setting a per diem forces a person to be very specific about what they want their money to do. They are assigning a purpose to their per diem money. They are giving those particular dollars a task that goes beyond the basic elements of survival. The per diem dollars are going to be allocated towards a person’s most important financial goals, not just towards the nice-to-have-but-not-important-stuff.

Spend your per diem however you want!

Yes – that’s right. At the end of the day, this is your money and you’re the one who gets to decide what to do with it. I’m not familiar with your heart’s deepest desires. I’m a fan of the theatre. Your joy may lie in beach volleyball championships, taking self-development courses, Grand Prix auto-racing, or raising salamanders to sell online.

After selecting your per diem amount, your task – should you choose to accept it – is to focus your efforts on the goals that have the highest meaning for you. The order of your goals isn’t set in stone. Again, it’s your life and your money. You’re the lucky duck who gets to determine the order in which your goals are satisfied. Once you’ve accomplished the highest priority goal, you can move on to the next one and keep moving down your list until you’ve achieved what’s most important to you. In this way, your money is working hard to create the life that you want to live.

For some people, the goal is to take a really awesome vacation once a year. That might mean renting a houseboat for a week every summer. It could mean a weekend with friends or family at a favourite campsite. Maybe it means a six-week trip overseas. However an awesome vacation is defined, the per diem money can help pay for it if you so choose.

For other people, the goal is to pay off a debt, to build an emergency fund, to save for a down payment, to go back to school, or to renovate a home… The goals are as endless as your imagination. The sad reality is that your paycheque isn’t infinite. (And if it is infinite, please leave a comment explaining how you’ve managed to create such a wondrous thing!) No matter its size, your income has limits. That’s why per diems are such a great money hack. They help you to satisfy those desires that are most important to you. Nothing wrong with that!

Two things to keep in mind about per diems.

One – don’t be deterred by how long it takes to reach a goal. It’s obvious but I’ll say it anyway. Some goals take longer to reach than others depending on the size of your per diem. Buying tickets to a concert might take a few days or a few weeks. Gathering the down payment for a second home in Cinque Terre might take a bit longer.

Two – if you use your per diem to pay off debt, then you an added benefit once the debt is gone. Your former debt-payment can be used to increase the size of your per diem. A larger per diem means that you can achieve your next goal even faster. There’s always the option of simply frittering your former debt payment away on stuff and keep the same per diem amount. As always, you’re the one in control of allocating where your money goes.

In my humble opinion, paying yourself a per diem gives you the psychological boost of knowing that each day is taking your closer to your goals. When your head hits your pillow, you can be satisfied knowing that your money is working towards building the life of your dreams. And who doesn’t want that?

Personal Finance – the Greatest Hits

This post is going to be short and sweet. If you’re new to the world of personal finance, the following gems are the building blocks of wealth. If you’re an old hat at the mastery of money, then I would ask that you forward these greatest hits on to anyone who might need them.

If I knew more, this post would be much longer. I don’t know as much as I wish I did, but I’m still learning. These old chestnuts will get you well on your way to a place of financial stability. I’ve written them down for you but it’s up to you to put them into practice in your own life.

Pay yourself first – always.

I don’t have too much more to say on this point. If you don’t pay yourself first, then you’ll never have money for investing. There might be money leftover after you pay everyone else, but it’s highly unlikely. Most of us don’t have anything leftover to save before the next paycheque rolls in. If you pay yourself first, then you can spend the rest and you’ll have the comfort of knowing that you kept a little something back for yourself.

Emergencies don’t make appointments.

(Credit for the insightful phrasing of this bit of wisdom goes to Patrice Washington.) You need an emergency fund so start building yours today. In my humble opinion, this kind of fund needs to hold atleast 6 months worth of living expenses. No one has ever regretted having too much money on hand during an emergency.

Automate your money.

This means setting up an automatic transfer to fund your priorities. Needs come before wants, but wants are prioritized too. You’ll need an automatic transfer to your emergency fund so that life’s little surprises don’t require you to live in your overdraft or to carry credit card balances from one month to the next.

The next automatic transfer you’ll need is to your retirement fund so that you’re saving for Old You. A portion of each paycheque must be saved for the day when you stop working. You cannot assume that you’ll be wholly in control of when you retire. Time flies and Old You will be here in two shakes of a lamb’s tail. Do what needs to done today so that Old You has sufficient money tomorrow.

Track your expenses.

Yes, you know where this is heading. I want you to keep track of your money. What gets measured, gets managed. This is an old adage that I heard around the office and it has always stuck with me. If you want to know where your money is going, then you have to keep track of it. You’re a Singleton so you’re the only person who’s spending your cash. If you don’t keep track of it, no one else will.

Invest in an equity-based exchange-traded funds.

There are low-cost investment products that allow you to put your money to work in the stock market. While you’re busy figuring out the”best way” to invest, your money might as well be working hard on your behalf in the interim. This is money that you’re setting aside for retirement and long-term goals. In other words, this is where you put the money that you won’t need for atleast 5+ years.

Never stop learning about investing. Don’t get cocky! You’re not an expert, and you don’t have a magic touch. Investing in ETFs is a way for you to get profitable exposure to the stock market, without relying on market timing or picking the next Netflix. There will be volatility and I want you to ignore it. Just keep investing and compounding your money over a long period of time while you continue to learn.

Only spend your money on what brings you the most joy.

Unless I’ve been seriously misled, each of us is entitled to have some fun & pleasure in our lives. This greatest hits list would be incomplete if I failed to acknowledge that money is also meant to be spent in order to create joy for ourselves and for others. I’m not talking about mindless consumerism or rote daily purchases.

I’m talking about the special treats, the little extra something that makes you feel special. It’s something different for all of us. Whatever yours is, make sure that you’re spending some of your money to acquire it.

So there you have – the short and sweet list of the greatest hits of personal finance according to the Blue Lobster. Do with it what you will!

Are the Lessons Still Working?

The older I get, the more I think about the ideas that have guided my life’s decisions up to this point. I ruminate on whether some of the ideas that I’ve held dear for a long time are still good enough to follow, or whether they’ve led me to a place that I’d rather not be. In short, I ask myself if those ideas are helping me or hindering me when it comes to achieving my dreams. One of those lessons that I ponder has to do with investing.

When I was younger, I read Dave Ramsey’s book – The Total Money Makeover. I immediately implemented its principles into my life. This book for put me on a very stable financial path. I was young and inexperienced, so this book helped me immeasurably when I was first getting started. And since I’m older than the Internet, I didn’t have access to the myriad of great blogs and websites that now exist to teach people about money.

Fans of Dave Ramsey will know all about the Baby Steps, which are designed to get you living a life that fulfills your dreams once you’re debt-free. If you’re not familiar with Dave Ramsey, get yourself to a library and borrow his book. You may not agree with him, or you may become a disciple. If you’re uncertain about where to start with your finances, his book is a good place to figure out what your next steps should be.

There is a lot to appreciate about the Baby Steps. I’m firmly in favour of getting out of debt. It’s a fantastic goal for just about everyone. I’ve yet to come across a situation involving revolving credit card debt and then think to myself “Wow! What a brilliant idea to pay 29% interest month after month, year after year! I wish I was doing that with my money!”

Nope! I have never once had that thought. When it comes to getting out of debt, I think Dave’s advice is pretty sound… for the most part.

Never refuse free retirement money

However… I’m not as dedicated to everything that Dave preaches as I used to be. Our beliefs about best practices for your money diverge when it comes to saving for retirement and building wealth. If you read his book, then you’ll know that Dave wants you to stop investing for your retirement until all of your debt except for the mortgage on your home is completely gone.

In my opinion, ceasing retirement contributions is a bad choice for a number of reasons. Firstly, people already have a serious problem with saving for retirement and building wealth. That problem generally takes the form of them not doing it! Secondly, the longer money is invested then the more time the money has to compound and grow in the market. It’s so vitally important to simply start investing so that your money starts to grow as soon as possible!

Thirdly, the debt burden to be paid off could be quite large and it might take several years to eliminate it. That’s several years of missed investing! If you’re an older person who’s suddenly decided that it’s time to clean up your personal finances, then you don’t have the luxury of waiting to invest for your retirement. Finally, if you’re getting any kind of retirement match from your employer, then you’re giving up free money when you stop making contributions to your retirement accounts at work. You should not say “NO!” to free money from your employer!

Why pay more for the same thing?

The second area where I disagree with Dave is in respect of where to invest your money. He is a firm believer in buying mutual funds, preferably ones that invest broadly in the stock market. He urges his followers to invest in mutual funds with long-term track records and which provide 12% return on investment. Since he’s from the USA, he encourages people to invest in the S&P 500. I have no quarrel with investing in the stock market. I just can’t figure out why he wants people to invest in mutual funds instead of exchange-traded funds.

For the most part, there’s an ETF out there that is equivalent if not identical to whatever mutual fund has caught your eye. Buying an ETF instead of mutual fund is less expensive than buying a mutual fund. This is because ETFs have lower management expense ratios than mutual funds do. If you want to contribute to a mutual fund that invests in the stock market, then find an ETF that invests in the stock market. Compare the two and then buy the one that’s cheaper. You’ll be investing in the same thing, for a much lower price. The difference between the MERs for the two investment products is money that will stay in your pocket.

Imagine your investment as a 2L carton of milk. You can pay $2.49 for the milk, if it has the mutual fund sticker on it. Your other option is to pay $0.75 for the milk, if it has the ETF sticker on it. One carton is vastly cheaper but you’re still buying the same milk. Why would you pay more for the same thing?

Until I hear a persuasive argument from Dave on why he prefers mutual funds over ETFs, I can’t ever see myself agreeing with him on where people should invest their money once they’re out of debt.

Investing 15% isn’t enough when time is short

The third area where I disagree with Dave is with the amount of money that he wants people to invest. Once you’ve reached Baby Step 7, Dave wants you to invest 15% of your income for wealth-building. Presumably, you can spend the rest of it in any way that you choose.

Woah… 15% of your paycheque isn’t a lot of money if you have no other debts. Personally, I think this number should be way higher. I’d like to see debt-free people investing atleast one-third of their take-home pay, and ideally half of it! My reasoning goes back to the fact that money needs lots of time to grow to significant sums.

If you don’t become completely debt-free until you hit your mid-50s, then you won’t have enough time to build a super-sized cash cushion. Maybe you’ve got a pension so you don’t have as much interest in building your own pot of gold. If you don’t have a pension, then you’re going to need to fatten both your RRSP and your TFSA as fast as you possibly can so that they can get you through your second childhood.

I think saving 15% is a good enough amount if you start in your 20s. This is because young people who aim to retire at 65 have 40 or more years to invest 15% of their income and watch it grow. However, if you’re starting in your 40s or 50s, then you need to save a lot more because you don’t have 40 years of growth ahead of you. There’s no guarantee that you won’t be a victim of downsizing or ageism once you hit your 50s. Dave likes to throw around a rate of return of 12% on mutual fund investments. The longer your time horizon, the better your odds of getting such a lofty return on your portfolio. If you’ve got a short time horizon, then the growth of your portfolio is going to have to come from your return AND your savings so make sure that you save more than 15%!!!

There’s no harm in saving more. Please do not misunderstand – I don’t want you to lead a life of deprivation while you build wealth. I’m not advocating that you deny yourself some of life’s luxuries in order to build mounds of wealth. Sacrificing all the things that bring you happiness and joy alone your journey simply to save for retirement isn’t a good way to live the only life you’ve got.

I just want you to consider saving more than 15% of your income.

If you have no debt and no mortgage, do you really need to spend 85% of your paycheque? Could you not stumble along on two-thirds of it and still do/acquire/experience most of the things on your want-list?

Beer vs. Champagne

Beer tastes on a champagne budget… This is the secret to riches! It’s a fancy way of saying that you should do what you can to live below your means.

This post is going to be short and sweet, Dear Readers. In a nutshell, if you can maintain your beer tastes once you’ve attained your champagne budget, then you will never go into debt, you’ll be living below your means, and you will always have money for investing.

You simply have to stick fairly close to your baseline. Oh, sure – you can increase your baseline by 10% each time you get a raise, or even more if you choose. So long as atleast 60% of all your increases go towards building your cash cushion, you’ll be just fine.

So what’s my Baseline?

Your baseline is where you are right now. Or your baseline could even be whatever income you had when you became interested in the topic of personal finance – this is your beer budget. You lived on this budget and you – metaphorically speaking – drank your beer. For whatever reason, you decided to learn more about personal finance. Perhaps you discovered the Financial Independence, Retire Early movement. Maybe someone close to you died and you realized that there’s more to life than working at an unfulfilling job. Or your reason could be as simple as you realized that you needed a way to fund your life when you stop working because you don’t have a pension waiting for you. There’s also the possibility that you realized that living paycheque-to-paycheque really, really sucks.

So you spend your time devouring any and all money-related topics and you get your act together. You’ve cut out the spending that doesn’t propel you closer to your life’s goals. You’re maxing out your registered plans – your Registered Retirement Savings Plan & your Tax Free Saving Account. You’ve funded a 6-month emergency fund. You’re cooking more meals so that you have money to invest in your non-registered investment account. You may have cut the cord in order as per the Physician on Fire to get to your goals sooner. You might even be acquiring your own army of money soldiers.

Getting to a champagne budget may take some time, but you’re committed to freeing yourself from the financial shackles that are preventing you from doing what you want with your life. A few years down the line, you realize that you’ve made significant strides. Your investment portfolio is kicking off a healthy 5-figure amount of dividends and capital gains every year. You’re a Smart Cat – you have those gains automatically re-invested and you continue to live on your beer budget.

You Will Be Tempted

At this point, the AdMan and his trusty fried, the Creditor, might start knocking on your door. It’s not hard to imagine them reminding you, ever-so-persistently, that you no longer have a beer budget. You’ve got some money now – you’re moving on up like George & Wheezy! You’re a person who can afford deserves champagne. And gosh-darn-it, you’ve got the money for it so what are you waiting for? You only live once, right?

The eternal question now looms before you: beer vs. champagne.

Do you increase your spending to match your new spending power? After all, you no longer just have your paycheque to spend. Now, you’ve got capital gains & dividends that can be spent too.

Hmmmmm….decisions, decisions!

Dear Readers, you’re grown! And I know that no matter what I say, you’re the one who’s going to make the final choice about how you spend your money. This is as it should be.

Does it really make sense to waste money just because you have it?

Like I said at the beginning of this post – the reason you’re in the position to make this choice is because you were living on a beer budget. Your baseline kept you going. You were never deprived. You spent your money on the experiences that brought you the most joy and happiness. The beer budget worked like a dream and it allowed you to save money until you’d created a champagne budget for yourself.

My simple suggestion is that you think long and hard before you choose to upgrade your baseline to the limit of a champagne-budget. Ask yourself what need will be served by giving up the beer budget just because you can afford champagne? What is it that you really, really want your money to do for you?

The Power of Intergenerational Wealth

For the past year or so, I’ve been fascinated by all the examples I see of intergenerational wealth. I like to think that it’s because my assessment of the FIRE movement and personal finance has become more nuanced. I’m always curious about and very intrigued by how people get the money for their first investment. When I listen to podcasts devoted to personal finance and FIRE, I’m constantly thinking about the power of intergenerational wealth. I want to know how many people honestly and truly do it all by themselves.

Lately, I’ve been listening to podcasts from www.biggerpockets.com, which is a US-based website. I have learned a lot about real estate deals from listening to these podcasts! If you’re in any way interested in doing real estate investing, I would suggest that you spend some time listening to this podcast. It’s a great starting point, and you’ll learn what regular people with regular jobs have done to improve their finances through real estate investing. Some of their methods might work for you, or they might not. The salient factor is for you to learn about these methods so that you can figure out whether to pursue them. Once you do, then you decide how to customize your next steps to best suit your own particular circumstances. Knowledge is power, right?

**** To be explicitly clear, I am not endorsing any of the methods suggested on that website. I am not an expert in real estate investing. I am not qualified to tell anyone how to do it. ****

This post is about intergenerational wealth, not real estate investing. So why am I talking about Bigger Pockets?

Intergenerational Loans are a Huge Help

Earlier this week, I listened to an interview with a man who was earning $10,000 per month by age 35 from his real estate investing. Needless to say, I was very interested in what he had to say. I too would like to earn $10,000 per month, even though I am no longer 35!

Without divulging too much, I would like to focus on one particular element of the story. The interviewee had benefitted from intergenerational wealth on atleast two separate occasions as he built his real estate portfolio. He and his wife were able to gather a down payment on their first home, a duplex. However, they needed to borrow $4K from their parents to pay the closing costs. This was the first time that they benefitted from intergenerational wealth since their parents had the $4k to lend them. As a result, the interviewee and his wife were able to significantly lower their living costs and they decided to start buying more properties.

As the podcast episode continued, the interviewee disclosed that he borrowed money from both his father and his father-in-law. They each took out lines of credit on their residential homes and gave him the down payment to buy property. This was the second occasion on which the interviewee benefitted from intergenerational wealth.

Again, it was an “A-ha!” moment for me. This man had access to family members who had assets. His family had been able to lay hands on money, and they willingly helped him to invest in real estate. This is the heart of intergenerational wealth – those in the older generation are able to use their own accumulated money to assist the people in the younger generation to build wealth.

Please don’t misinterpret this post. I don’t begrudge this man for seeking his family’s help, nor do I think it’s unfair that his parents and his in-laws were willing to assist him and his wife. It’s completely natural for parents to want to see their offspring succeed.

Getting A Leg Up

What I find fascinating is the effect that intergenerational wealth has on so many aspects of our lives. Those who don’t have access to this form of wealth face more barriers in acquiring wealth. One of the barriers that I see for those without access to intergenerational wealth is the passage of time. It simply takes longer to build wealth if you don’t have wealthy parents or grandparents because you, as an investor, first have to save the seed money to buy that first investment. No one is around to gift you, or lend you, the money to start investing.

The sooner money is invested, the sooner a person can start building wealth. In other words, those who have access to intergenerational wealth have a leg up on those who don’t. Those with access can invest their money sooner. This means they have more time for their assets to grow and to compound.

If the interviewee’s family had not lent him $4K for the closing costs on his first home, then he wouldn’t have been able to buy it. I’m not saying that he never would have bought a home. I’m just saying that it would have taken him longer to buy one; he would have had to save up the money for closing costs to complete the purchase of another house. The same goes for his first real estate investment. Without money from his father and father-in-law, the man would’ve had to wait until he had sufficient seed money – whether equity in his first home or savings in the bank – to buy his investment property.

The Confidence of a Cushion

The second barrier to acquiring wealth is the natural hesitation that can arise when assessing risks without a cash cushion. When you know that your family has the ability to financially assist you if the need arises, you have the confidence to take more and/or bigger risks with your investing dollars. The confidence rests on knowing that you won’t lose everything, that you won’t have to start from scratch all over again. If your family can help you to recover, you’re more inclined to try in the first place.

For those without a financially-flush family, the consequences of making a poor investment decision include the very real and very significant risk of losing everything. There’s no one to bail you out so you might not make the same kinds of investments, or you may hesitate a bit longer before making a decision. The price of a failed investment is costlier when you don’t have the option of accessing intergenerational wealth should things not go as planned.

Do not misunderstand me. No investment is without risk, regardless of your access to intergenerational wealth. I’m simply stating that the downsides of the risks are more acute, and possibly more detrimental, when you do not have access to family money should your investments fail.

A Lack of Intergenerational Wealth is a Hindrance, not Brick Wall

I want to be very, very clear on this point. A person can still acquire assets and build wealth for herself without the benefit of intergenerational wealth. It will probably take a bit longer, or it might involve thinking outside the box.

To its credit, the Bigger Pockets podcast also features people who haven’t been able to turn to family for financial help. I particularly like the episode about the 23-year old single mother who has created a steady cash flow from her real estate portfolio. Though very young when she started, this woman learned how to buy, renovate, and refinance her properties. She has created a financially secure life that for herself and her children. In turn, she is pursuing a path that will allow her to provide intergenerational wealth to her children when they need it.

The longer I think on this topic, the more I appreciate the power of intergenerational wealth. Money creates the opportunity to build wealth. If it is not squandered, then wealth can be transferred from one generation to the next. The wealth, if not lost, can create a self-perpetuating cycle that ensures the financial security of successive generations. Each generation can reap the rewards which come from financial stability and good investment opportunities.

There are few among us Singletons who don’t have a connection to the next generation in some form or another. Even if you don’t have your own children, perhaps there’s a young person in your family who you would like to help at some point. If so, build your own wealth and you’ll be able to offer intergenerational wealth when the time comes. Perhaps you have a niece who wants to go to med school, or a nephew who wants to start a business. Maybe you just want to start some sort of scholarship for students you’ve not yet met.

Whatever your goals are, I encourage you to build your wealth now. One day, you’ll be the one who has the power to transfer it to the ones coming up behind you. You have the power to create intergenerational wealth for the next generation.

Dollar Cost Averaging is a Great Tool

As the warm days of spring roll in and push harsh memories of winter to the recesses of your memories, you may find yourself enjoying the sunshine and asking yourself: What is exactly is dollar-cost averaging?

I’m here to tell you that DCA can be a powerful tool for investors.

In a nutshell, dollar-cost averaging is a method for systematically investing your money. Investors who use DCS invest the same amount of money into an investment on a regular schedule. That schedule can be whatever the investor choose – weekly, monthly, quarterly, annually, or any other increment. The purchase of the underlying asset occurs regardless of the asset’s price.

There are a few of good reasons to use this investment methodology.

Dollar Cost Averaging or Lump-Sum Investing?

Firstly, the DCA strategy facilitates quicker investment in the stock market. Investors can align their investments with their paycheques. Since one my guiding financial mantras is spend-some-save-some, I make sure that a part of my paycheque is promptly & automatically re-directed to my investment portfolio.

There’s a school of thought which says that lump-sum investing is better than DCA because the entire value of the lump-sum amount is put to work in the stock market all at once. If your plan is to invest a large amount in the market, the proponents of lump-sum investing recommend that you invest the entire amount at once. Check out this article from the wise fellow at www.fourpillarfreedom.com for a good discussion of the benefits and drawbacks of the two investment methods.

Theoretically, I have no quarrel with the lump-sum investment style. However, the practical reality of my life is that I don’t have large lump-sums of money lying around. I invest when I get paid because that’s when I have the money available. The money is deposited into my chequing account, then it’s shunted to my investment account, where it sits until it’s invested. For most people without large chunks of money at their disposal, DCA is a better option – in my opinion – because they can invest when they’re paid.

No Need to Time the Market

Secondly, DCA eliminates that temptation to try and “time the market.” Investors who time the market are trying to buy an investment at its very lowest price. Perhaps you’ve heard recent chatter in the system from economists about the impending recession?

What you will never hear from any of those experts is the exact date on which the recession will start. And absolutely none of them will tell you date on which the stock market will be at its very lowest point. People lucky enough to buy at the lowest point will have the best investment returns when the market recovers. Market-timers are always trying to pick the very best time to invest.

Like all investors, market-timers are trying to maximize the profits from their stock market investments. Unlike market-timers, investors following the DCA-method simply invest their money on a consistent basis. They do not bother themselves with trying to buy at the very lowest price. They’re not concerned with the very best returns. They understand that time in the market is more important that timing the market.

Automation Pairs Beautifully with Dollar Cost Averaging Investing Method

Thirdly, the power of automation complements the DCA investment strategy very nicely. If you intend to invest in the stock market, then automatically transferring money from your chequing account to your brokerage account is an excellent strategy.

Let’s say you decided to invest on the 15th of each month. Your automatic transfer will ensure that a chunk of money is in your brokerage account for the purchase. On the 15th of the month, you’ll buy as much of the asset as your funds will allow regardless of the asset’s price. Then you won’t think about investing again until the 15th of the following month. Maybe you want to invest quarterly? That’s fine too. Put the power of automation to work! Gather money in your investment account until it’s time to buy some assets. Never forget the DCA can’t work for you unless you’ve set aside some savings.

This is how I invest. Every month, I invest money into my dividend-paying investments. I don’t follow the price of my exchange-traded funds from one day to the next. Instead, I buy as many units as I can when it’s time to buy. Then I don’t think about my investments again until the dividends roll in.

Easy-peasy, lemon-squeezy – rinse & repeat!

I’ve been using the DCA method to invest my money since 2011. I wasn’t interested in learning to be a wizard at picking stocks. The DCA method was easy to implement and even easier to understand. Much like every other investment method, it’s not perfect and it’s not suitable to for everyone. However, it works for me. I’m confident in this method and I’ll continue to use it until something better comes along.

The Time Will Pass Anyway

I really hate delivering bad news, but there’s no way around this. You’re not getting any younger. Time is marching on. You can fight it all you want, but the time will pass anyway. The important thing to do is focus your time, attention and energy on answering the following question – are you doing what’s necessary today to create the life that you really want?

Happily, you’re the person who decides which of your dreams to pursue. You’re the one who knows what truly delights your heart, what always replenishes your soul. You get to decide which path to follow in order to achieve the goals that you have set for your life. Every day is an opportunity for you to better understand yourself and the way you interact with the rest of the world.

Whatever it is that you want to achieve, there’s a financial cost to it. I don’t care if you want to travel, start your own business, buy rental properties, take a sabbatical, race in the Grand Prix, go sky-diving, or spend a week at home unplugged from the rest of the world. It’s going to cost you some money.

Start Saving Today

Start saving for your dreams now, even if they aren’t fully fleshed out. It hardly matters where you are in the stage of making your dreams come true. When the opportunity arrives, you should have some money set aside to chase those dreams. I accept that there are situations where money should not be the factor holding you back, but I would encourage you to minimize those situations as much as possible.

When I was 16 years old, I got my first part-time job in a grocery store. It wasn’t glamorous, nor was I well paid. If I remember, I was earning $4.85 per hour. I didn’t work a lot of hours either, since I was in school and living at home. I had to open a chequing account to deposit my paycheque, since this job existed before the days of online banking.

Even though I was 16 and I didn’t know beans from potatoes, I knew enough to open a savings account at the same time that I opened my chequing account. At the time, I’d never heard of automatic transfers. Every two weeks, I would receive my paycheque, then I would deposit it into my account with the bank teller. I would then walk over to the bank machine and transfer $50 from my chequing account to my savings account. I have no idea why I didn’t just ask the teller to do the transfer for me while I was at her wicket. Maybe I was trying to increase my step-count? In any event, I went through this process every two weeks until I got a job at a different bank and learned how to make the online banking system work for me.

“$50? Big deal!”

You’re right, Dear Reader. On its face, $50 is hardly enough for a grown-up to get excited about. It’s the kind of money that would delight a 3-year old at the toy store, but hardly enough to generate glee in an adult with adult-sized bills.

Habits are the Game-Changer

However, the importance of my story isn’t the $50. I’m telling you my story to impart the lesson that saving money has been the key to funding my dreams. I saved $50 every two weeks for years and years. What was most important was the habit of savings, not the amount. As I got older, I earned more money and I increased the amount that was set aside every two weeks. The habit stayed the same, even though the amount changed.

And once the habit was in place, it’s never disappeared. My “little savings habit” has allowed me to travel internationally, fund my RRSP and TFSA, buy a home, build an army of money soldiers, and generally partake in social events with family and friends.

I’ll be forever grateful to my parents who taught me about having dreams, creating habits, and saving money. My parents’ dream was for us to go to school, and they found a way to fund that dream. Part of the funding efforts went on behind the scenes as they invested all out Baby Bonus money instead of spending those cheques each month.

The other part of funding their dream was overt. When my brother and I were little, my father had created the habit of giving each of us $10 every two weeks from his paycheque. We would carefully fold that money and put it into our piggy-banks. Twice a year, we would empty our piggy-banks. My father would sit us down and make us fill out deposit slips for our bank. I still remember unfolding the money and clipping it together with the deposit slip before taking it to the bank. That money would ultimately go towards buying Canada Savings Bonds. Eventually, that money paid for our post-secondary education.

The Power is Yours

Whatever you dreams are, you have the power to create the savings habit now. Whether you start with $1 per day, $10 per paycheque or $50 per month, just start setting the money aside. The habit is more important than the amount. Once the habit is in place, you’ll increase the amount as you pay off other debts, as you eliminate expenses that don’t bring you joy, and as your income increases.

Create an automatic savings plan for yourself. Divert this money away from the funds that you rely on for your day-to-day needs. Use the savings habit to ensure that your precious and limited time is spent on the experiences that bring you the most joy. The time will pass anyway.