Single Money - Millionaire on the Prairie

Why I love Tangerine

As you know, I hate paying bank fees. Thankfully, there are many great options available so I never have to. (And if you’re still paying bank fees, please tell me why? You don’t have to pay them either if you’re willing to spend roughly 20 minutes setting up a free online bank account.)

However, I digress. The three best online banks in my opinion are Simplii, EQ Bank, and Tangerine. And to be explicitly clear, I am not being paid by any of these banks for this post. I’m simply sharing my opinion. Feel free to do your own research make your own choices.

At the time of this post, EQ Bank had the highest interest rate on its savings accounts.

Tangerine is my favourite online bank for the reason that it is best suited to help me achieve my goals. First of all, one customer number allows me to create and access up to 5 sub-accounts. Secondly, I can ascribe a name to each of these sub-accounts. Thirdly, I’m able to use automatic transfers from my real-world bank account to the sub-accounts.

All of my favourite personal finance tools are available to me in one online bank. What’s not to love?

Make use of Sinking Funds!

The older I get, the worse my memory becomes. Raise your hand if you can relate! Anyway, having sub-accounts means that I can create pools of money for my short-term goals. Before COVID-19, I traveled every single year so one of my sub-accounts was appropriately named “Travel”.

The beauty of naming my sub-accounts is the inherent prioritizing function that I had to go through in picking those names. Again, I only have 5 sub-accounts so I had to figure out which of my many short-term goals were the highest priority. Travel is still more important to me than furniture, which is why I still don’t have a sub-account called “Furniture”.

Having various sinking funds for my short-term goals means that the money is there when I need it. Un-sexy things like insurance and property taxes need to be paid every year. One of my sub-accounts is a sinking fund for those expenses. When those bills come due, the money will already be there. Do you know how nice it is to not have to scrabble together the money at the last minute?

I also have a sub-account for medium-term goals, namely anything that needs to get purchased in the next 2-5 years. When it was time to replace the windows & siding on my house, I got the quote then got to saving. It took nearly 2 years to save up the money but I wasn’t worried about how to pay my contractor when the work was done.

And once that particular job was done, it was no longer a priority. So that particular sub-account acquired a new name… “Landscaping.” Trees need to be cut down… grading needs to be levelled… new sod needs to be laid. (For those of you who don’t yet own a home, know that it is a money-pit. On top of the mortgage, you will be on the hook for repairs, maintenance, upgrades, and all the other financial joys that come with home ownership.)

Automate!

You know what else I love? Automatic transfers! Yes, you heard me say it – I love automatic transfers. I have my main bi-weekly transfer from my checking account to my very first Tangerine sub-account, which I call my Freedom Account. (Shout out to Mary Hunt of Debt-Proof Living!) I have more transfers in place from sub-account #1 to the various other sub-accounts.

Here’s another reason why I love Tangerine. This particular online bank has a rather unique feature that I haven’t found anywhere else. Tangerine allows me to implement “Money Rules” and these rules allow me to control what happens to the overflow.

Overflow? Blue Lobster, what the hell is overflow?

Dear Reader, if you’ve been doing automatic transfers for any length of time, you know that money piles up. One day, you account has $25 then the next time you check it, there’s way more! That’s the power of implementing automatic transfers. You do it once then move on to other tasks in life. Your money will accumulate automatically without you having to remember to make every single transfer manually.

At Tangerine, you have the option of re-directing money once a pre-determined amount is sitting in your sub-accounts. That re-directed money is the overflow. Pay attention – here’s where the steak starts to sizzle.

Money Rules in Action!

For example, you need to accumulate $3000 for your pet emergency fund. So you set up an automatic transfer. Once your $3000 is in place, you’re not going to cancel your automatic transfer! Instead, Tangerine gives you the power to have that money re-directed to one of your other sub-accounts. Maybe you’re saving up to go on a road trip or new furniture. Tangerine’s system means that money that otherwise would’ve stayed in your pet emergency fund is sent to your next highest spending priority.

And you don’t have to worry about fiddling with the automatic transfer should you need to use some of your emergency funds. Let’s say you need $1500 for your furry friend’s surgery. Your pet emergency fund will drop down to $1500. The automatic transfer will go back to funding that sub-account until it gets back up to $3000. At that point, future funds – the overflow – are whisked away to the sub-account named for your next highest priority.

It’s a pretty sweet little feature. Again, it ensures that your money is going towards your highest spending priorities.

Do yourself a favour.

At the very least, consider opening a Tangerine account. The purpose of this account was, and mostly still is, to make it somewhat difficult to access this money until I really need it. I wanted a simple method to siphon money from my day-to-day spending to my financial goals.

You don’t have to obtain a bank card for this account. I’ve had my Tangerine account for more than 10 years. I’ve never asked for a bank card. Without one, I can’t withdraw money at a bank machine. My money stays in place until I need it. What more could a Single One want?

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Weekly Tip: Figure out your priorities and spend accordingly. There will come a point in life where you realize that it makes absolutely no sense to spend your money on things that don’t make you happy. The sooner you reach that point, the better.

Guilty Pleasure – Big Haul Grocery Videos

Yes… it’s true. I’m a Single Person who loves to watch YouTube videos about people – almost always women – who do huge grocery shops and create videos about it.

Since the Pandemic, and before I found these videos, I thought I was buying lots of food when I went to Costco. I’d buy two packages of chicken thighs and one package of chicken breast. Then I would head to the Real Canadian Superstore and buy a bulk size package of extra lean ground beef. Being a Single Person, I’d round out my shopping with a trip to Sobeys for bread, vegetables and fruits. I’d pat myself on the back for buying an extra loaf of bread, or maybe 2 packages of soft Kaiser buns, to put in the freezer. And let’s not forget about those 6 cans of sliced peaches!

Yes, indeed – job well done – way to go, Blue Lobster!

I was pretty proud of myself… until I found The Queens Cabinet on YouTube. This woman knows how to shop! From what I’ve gathered so far, Shelby and her husband Ken live on a farm and are raising 4 sons. When theywere younger, they had to budget their money and lived quite frugally. As a result, they chose to stock up on the things that they always use so that they always have food in their pantry.

Big deal, Blue Lobster – most everyone who can already does this!

Gentle Reader, I would suggest that few people stock up their pantry with a year’s worth of food the way that Shelby and Ken do. How many people do you know with 7 freezers? And how many people have their own baking centre, yet alone one that is so well-organized?

I’m not ashamed to admit it – a tour of her pantry made me wish that I had a slight touch of OCD just so I too would be motivated to take the time and organize my food storage space. In my world, a $3700 (or more!) grocery shop is still a very rare thing…even for those I know who go to Costco!

While a 4-figure grocery haul is not part of my life, I can see its benefits. You can stock up when things are on sale. This saves you from shelling out more when the price is higher. Secondly, meal planning is easier when what you need is already in your home. You can put the money-saving magic of your kitchen to work more easily when you have ingredients at your fingertips.

I’ve no doubt that Shelby still runs to the grocery store throughout the year for certain items. Fresh fruit and vegetables immediately come to mind. However, I would guess that she doesn’t have to waste money on condiments, meats, prepared drinks, and baking supplies throughout the year. She stocks up when it’s on sale, then it’s on hand when she needs it.

And if you subscribe to her channel, you’ll see that she’s a big fan of meal planning. I can’t say that I blame her! If I had her kitchen, I’d want to spend a lot of time in it too – cooking and baking things. Try to find the videos where she talks about her fridges – yes, more than one fridge in a kitchen!

Their Pantry is an Emergency Fund

What Shelby and Ken have done is to create an emergency fund of food. If their income stops for a period time, their monetary savings need not be used to feed their family. They have a cache of food already set aside so everyone will be able to eat while another source of income is found. Their cash-money doesn’t have to be spent on food, which means that it will last longer.

Take a look at your own budget. What percentage of your monthly income goes towards food? And if you lost your income tomorrow, how much longer would your emergency fund last if you didn’t have to use it to feed yourself?

But I don’t have the room for that much food, Blue Lobster!

I hear you. And trust me, I don’t have that much room either. However, I do have freezer in my basement and I have a freezer area in my fridge. That means I can freeze a much smaller, but no less important, amount of food. I have 6-8 packages of extra lean ground beef. Is that too much for a Single Person? No, not if I lose my job. A single package becomes 4-5 hamburgers, or a cookie sheet of meatballs, or a big pot of meat sauce. Whatever the final product, that’s a few meals that I don’t have to buy with money from my emergency fund.

The same principle to the chicken thighs that I’ve bought. A bulk package of chicken might have cost me $30. Yet, I can get 25-28 chicken thighs that I then divvy up into Ziplock bags of 4-5 pieces. It takes very little time to prepare a marinade, pour some into each bag with the chicken, and then freeze the bags for later use. I haven’t bought chicken in several months. I do the same thing with my pork.

I’ve started going back to my office, which means taking a lunch and taking snacks. My freezer allows me to baking a big batch of cookies, or muffins, then tuck them away for when I need them. If you’d rather have something else for snacks, then be my guest. My point is that it’s not a bad idea to have some extra food stored away. Save money now by buying things when they’re on sale. Save money later by not having to buy outside food unless the purchase has been planned in advance.

Use Your Pantry and Freezer Space

Do what you can with what you’ve got. Your pantry and your freezer space are tools that can help you save money. I’m not an expert. No one’s expecting you to be an expert either. That said, I learn a little bit more each time I watch videos about how other people do it. I can take a tidbit or two and incorporate it into my life. There are ways for me stretch my dollars.

Build up your own emergency fund by learning to buy a bit more when things are on sale so that you can stock your pantry and your freezer. Watch a few more cooking videos on YouTube so you can cook for yourself a little bit more. Figure out how to cook or bake what you like to eat, then do so. If you don’t already, learn to love leftovers.

You have to eat. Keep your pantry and your freezer well-stocked with foods that bring you joy. Then learn to cook & bake what you love in your own kitchen. Doing so is another way to insure that you’re using your money to create a life that maximizes your happiness and joy. And isn’t that one of the very best reasons to have money in the first place?

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Weekly Tip: Contribute to your Tax Free Savings Account every year. Invest your contributions in a broad-based equity exchange-traded fund or index fund for 2-3 decades. (You can select a mutual fund, if you wish. However, mutual funds have higher Management Expense Ratios than ETFs or index funds so it makes little sense to spend more money for the same product.) Let your money grow over the years and re-invest all the dividends. When you finally do withdraw your money from the TFSA, never pay any taxes on the principle or the growth.

Never Stop Reading!

Learning doesn’t stop with graduation. You should never stop reading. Read everything that you can get your hands on. Reading opens your mind to new ideas & perspectives. No one says you have to agree with everything that you read, but you owe it to yourself to learn as much as you can in the time you have left.

Since this is personal finance blog, I’m going to talk about the personal finance books that have shaped my financial life.

The Automatic Millionaire by David Bach

I loved this read for its simplicity and ease of implementation. After reading it, I didn’t have to spend too much time setting up my automatic transfers. 20 minutes? Maybe 30 minutes? In less than an hour, I’d created a system whereby a portion of my money went to my long-term goals, another portion went to my short-term goals, and the rest stayed in my chequing account to get me from one day to the next. Easy-peasy-lemon-squeasy!

I’ve been using automatic transfers for more than 2 decades. They eliminate the need for me to remember to transfer money from my chequing account to my investment account. The money is magically in place when it’s time to make an RRSP or TFSA contribution. There’s money waiting to be deployed to pay my monthly utility bills. Learning how to automate my money at a young age set me on a good path when it came to personal finance.

The Wealthy Barber by David Chilton

There’s something special about your first. I was 21 years old when I read this book. I was naive and very un-sophisticated when it came to money matters. However, this book impressed upon me the important of starting my Registered Retirement Savings Plan as soon as possible so I did. I was a student who paid nothing in taxes, hence I got a full tax refund back every year. Still, those little contributions to my RRSP have since grown into a nice six-figure income. What I took from this book is that investing is best started as soon as humanly possible.

The Two-Income Trap by Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi

Senator Warren’s book was my first foray into the political implications of personal finance, and the risks that are associated with dual income families spending both of those incomes. I promised myself that if I ever married, I would make sure that my partner believed in living below our means just as much as I did. That way, we could live for today while still saving and investing.

While I’ve never married, I still set aside a good chunk of my salary for investing purposes. Mental gymnastics allows me to split my household income into two! Sometimes I pretend that the monthly dividends generated by my portfolio are the take-home pay of my imaginary spouse. It’s the best of both worlds – a second income without any money fights about how it will be spent!

Debt-Proof Living by Mary Hunt

This book was fantastic. I loved it because it gave me an infrastructure for how to set up my short-term money. One of the best ideas I’ve ever come across is the Freedom Account. Its purpose is to cover the irregular expenses that come up every year, but aren’t emergency expenditures. Think of things like oil changes, clothes purchases, pet expense, vacations. These are the expenses that do not occur regularly but still have to be covered. You don’t know exactly when you’ll have to pay for them but you know it’s going to cost some money.

I’ve had my Freedom Account for decades, and it’s been my safety net more than once. If you don’t have one, I suggest that you get one.

The Richest Man in Babylon by George S. Clason

It’s a parable that’s also a quick read. I loved this book! The financial principles about savings and investing have been around for centuries. And so have the mistakes that people make with their money. This parable touches upon the difficulties of not spending every nickel earned, finding good mentors, investing properly, and repaying debts. It’s also about the fact that get rich quick ideas are scams, more often that not. Building wealth takes time and consistency, but almost anyone can do it by following the right principles.

Quit Like A Millionaire by Kristy Shen & Bryce Leung

This inspirational story of retiring in one’s early 30s will stick with me for a long time. I learned about the challenges and strategies for early retirement. This book opened my eyes to idea of living outside of North America in order to save money. I learned about how to segment my money so that I wouldn’t have to sell from my portfolio during a market downturn.

Kristy and Bryce are the brains behind the Investment Workshop, one of the best free sources I have ever found for learning about how to create, maintain and re-balance your portfolio. Take advantage of their lessons to set yourself on a path for a comfortable retirement, early or otherwise.

Again, never stop reading!

As I’ve said before, you need not make every mistake yourself – you can learn from the mistakes of others. Books are a source of knowledge. They’re free from the library. Even in our COVID-19 circumstances, you can still access library books – you simply need to go online instead of into a building. Never stop reading!

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Weekly Tip: Create you own pension by investing your money towards your retirement. Fewer and fewer employers are offering pensions to their employees. This means that you have to save for your own retirement. If you don’t save the money for Future You, then no one will. Start today by squirrelling away a little bit of money, invest it for the long-term, learn a little bit more about investing, then start over. Save, invest, learn, repeat!

Taking it Day By Day

It’s been 4.5 months since the World Health Organization declared that the globe was in the grips of a pandemic. Since then, there has been much upheaval in people’s lives due in no small part to the financial impacts of lost jobs, the inability to travel, and social isolation. What are we supposed to do when going outside means taking the risk that we’ll contract a disease about which so much is still unknown?

We have to take things day by day.

By nature, I’m a planner. For example, I enjoy planning my travel. It’s fun to peruse all the websites, read up on the various sites, figure out where I want to go. In 2018, I went to Ireland for the first time. I crossed an item off my Bucket List – booking my time off then looking for a good travel deal. My biggest regret about that trip was that it was somewhat last-minute, in that I booked it only 6 weeks before getting on a plane. In the deep recesses of my travel-planner heart, I hadn’t given myself enough anticipation-time. Six weeks wasn’t enough time to dream about my upcoming trip and to imagine all the cool things I’d be seeing & doing.

Of course, in hindsight, I should have taken more time off and visited Northern Ireland and Scotland while I was over there. Who knew that a global pandemic would crush the airline & travel industries?

COVID-19 has changed things…

Today, I’m not doing as much travel planning. As you can well imagine, it’s difficult to get excited about flying anywhere when my personal view is that airplanes are the petri dishes of the sky. Similarly, long road trips are in the not-just-yet category since I’m not keen on staying in a hotel or going to restaurants.

Right now, I’m taking things day by day. My natural urge to plan has been channeled into cooking and baking. I’m already at home. My kitchen is right there. I have the ingredients and the tools to cook and bake delicious things for myself. Meal-planning is finally receiving the attention that it’s due. Trips to the grocery store are less frequent, but I do buy a lot more when I go. Once home, I start figuring out what to eat right away and how to meal-prep for the upcoming week.

As for investing, I have no choice but to take things day by day. The last time there was a big drop in the stock market was in 2008-2009. I made a huge mistake by stopping my contributions to my investment account!!! Thankfully, I was smart enough not to sell anything but I wasn’t smart enough to keep investing on the way down.

To date, the highest point of the Toronto Stock Exchange was reached on February 21, 2020. Then the market plunged, and kept plunging until March 23, 2020. The TSX has been slowly re-gaining ground since then. (Man oh man was I glad that I didn’t have access to cable TV during this time. I would’ve been a basket case listening to all the “experts” talking about investing.)

Sticking to the Plan

This time around, I stuck to my saving and investing plan. I ignored the headlines. I trusted the example set by history that the stock market will recover. No one knows precisely how, nor can anyone guarantee when the recovery will happen. This time, I decided to take things day by day and to continue to save & invest for my future.

I had a few things going for me. Firstly, I’m still fortunate enough to have my job. There are millions of people who aren’t in the same boat so they’ve had to decide whether to eat today or eat tomorrow. Secondly, I was already debt-free before the pandemic hit. I don’t have to worry about creditors or missing my mortgage payments. My financial foundation is firm. Thirdly, I don’t have cable so I missed a great many of the interviews with the people who predicted that “this time would be different.” I didn’t hear the stories from people who believe that the market could not possibly recover from COVID19.

Finally, I’m older and wiser today than I was in 2008-2009. I’ve learned from my mistakes. Had I continued to invest back then, I’d be so much closer to my retirement goals. My inexperience and fear caused me to sit on the sidelines while the market recovered. In other words, I wasn’t investing when the stock market was on sale. When I finally did re-start my investment program, I’d promised myself that I would continue to invest during the next downturn.

So when COVID19 came long and took a great big bite out of the stock market, I kept my promise. Money earned – money saved – money invested – repeat!

My portfolio still hasn’t recovered completely but I’m much farther along than I would have been had I stopped investing. I’ve been able to my more units in my dividend exchange traded funds. As a results, my monthly dividend payment has gone up considerably. This is a very good thing. I was fortunate enough to be able to make a contribution to my Registered Retirement Savings Plan. As per the advice of an independent financial planner, I invested those funds into a global equity ETF. Boom! I firmly believe that my choice to follow his advise will add a nice little kick to my RRSP in the coming years.

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Weekly Tip: Allocate your money in a way that allows you to invest in the stock market for atleast 15 years. Use broad-based ETFs to invest your money in equities. ETFs move in the same direction as the stock market. They simultaneously eliminate the risks of trying to cherry pick the next Apple/Tesla/Facebook stock. If you absolutely cannot stop yourself from stock picking, then please limit this hobby to only 5% of the equity portion of your portfolio. The other 95% of your equity investments should be allowed to chug along in a broad-based ETF for a long period of time.

Old-Fashioned Advice

It struck me recently that one of the reasons I’ve achieved some of my personal finance goals is that I’ve followed old-fashioned advice. These are the top three nuggets that come to mined.

Stay Out of Debt.

This particular pearl has served me well. I’ve had credit cards in my wallet for more than 25 years. I’ve paid interest once, and that was because I’d miscalculated when I made my payment. I don’t carry a balance on my credit cards.

The credit card companies would call me a deadbeat. I wear their moniker with pride.

One of the keys to becoming a deadbeat is to have an emergency fund and other accounts to fund short-term inconvenience. If you have a vehicle, then you know that you’re only one weird sound away from a mechanic’s bill. When my vehicle needed $600 of work, I had the money set aside in an account set up to field these kinds of expenses. Mary Hunt calls this a Freedom Account, and she describes it in her book Debt-Proof Living.

If my house burned down, or I lost my job for an extended period of time, then I’d go to my emergency fund in order to pay cash for my living expenses. I have insurance on my house but why should I pay the credit card companies interest while I’m waiting for my insurance money? And if I’m out of a job, that’s hardly the time to be incurring debt in the form of 19.9% interest payments to the banks. I have money set aside so that I don’t have to turn to credit cards during the bad times. You should too.

It takes as long as it takes to create a nice, fat cash cushion of emergency money. Start today.

Pay Cash.

The following method has worked for me. I suspect that it will work for you.

First, I identify what I want. Second, I look at my bank account to see if I have the money.

The third step goes one of two ways. If the money is already in my bank account, then I buy what I want. If the money is not in my bank account, then I don’t make the purchase.

Fourth, I get what I want… when I have the cash in hand to pay for it. The fancy term for this is delayed gratification. Call it what you want. The bottom line is that paying cash throughout my life has benefitted me far more than any inconvenience caused by waiting.

Pay Off Your Mortgage

I was lucky enough to get into the housing market with a modest, mid-sized mortgage under $70,000. When I moved from my first home into my next one, I bought a property that suited my life circumstances. I did not accept the bank’s gracious offer to lend me several times my annual income. My refusal of that gracious offer has meant that I live in an older home that’s roomy enough for a Single One. It also meant that I could pay off my mortgage in my mid-30’s. I’m happy to report that those former mortgage payment are now the foundation of my automatic investment plan.

I know that there is a lot of debate among very smart people about whether to invest or to pay off your mortgage. Today, we live in a world without pensions and $300,000+ mortgages. Essentially, these two facts combine to create circumstances where people can spend their entire working lives paying off a mortgage. They may not have any “extra” funds to put towards retirement. Every dollar is allocated to paying for the mortgage and for the costs of living. Most people enjoy the little luxuries – you know, food & transportation. Crazily enough, they’ll even prioritize those luxuries over saving for a retirement that’s decades away. Even I go back and forth on whether I should have taken 25 years to pay off my mortgage so I could have invested in the stock market for a longer period of time.

Since paying off my home 10+ years ago, I’ve never worried about having shelter. Rental increases haven’t impacted me, because I own my home free and clear. Mortgage rates no longer make me apprehensive, because I don’t have to worry that my budget will be impacted if those rates shoot up. (Of course, that’s a hollow argument in the mortgage market of 2020 – when 5-year rates can be had for less than 2.5%.) I no longer have to hope that absolutely nothing goes terribly awry with my paycheque for over two decades so that I can service a gigantic debt. This last benefit just might be my very favourite – sleep is easier without money worries.

I still think paying off your mortgage is a great course of action. At the same time, I’m realistic enough to recognize that it’s not always the best option.

Everyone’s situation is different so use these nuggets as you wish. Stay safe – wash your hands – be well.

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Weekly Tip: Ladies, you’re statistically more likely to outlive men so you should invest a greater percentage of your portfolio in equities to generate higher returns over your longer lifespan. Withdraw your age from 120 and allocate the number as the percentage of your investments to the equity portion. As you become a more sophisticated investor, you can change this percentage if you want.

Learn from Others!

If I can impart one nugget of wisdom to you today, it is this. You need not make every mistake yourself in order to learn a lesson. You’re always free to learn from others. I’m not promising that you’ll avoid making your own mistakes – that’s utterly impossible. What I am promising is that some of the biggest mistakes can be avoided if you’re willing to pay attention and think about the choices made by the people in your life.

These people won’t all be your family & friends – although it’s important to pay attention to the consequences of their choices too. Sometimes, the people who can teach you important lessons are only in your life for a few minutes.

When I was in high school, I had a part-time job as a cashier in a grocery store. Living at home, I had the luxury of having all of my paycheque go towards having fun with my friends since my parents paid for my shelter, my food, and the other important stuff. I was a very fortunate kid!

Anyway, two of my customers made indelible memories on me. One customer was an elderly lady who came through my till. I don’t recall how the topic of money came up but she very specifically told me to start saving for my retirement. I was a 16 or 17 years old at the time, but her words stuck with me. The second customer was also an elderly lady. I remember watching her compare two cans of cat food, and she was teary-eyed. When she came through my till, she confessed to me that she stocked up on cat food when it went on sale because she ate it herself. At the time, each can cost $0.59. She was tearful because the price had gone up from the last time she’d shopped.

Like my parents & teachers before them, these women provided me with a very important opportunity to learn from others. In their respective cases, the lesson was about money and retirement.

Those two anonymous customers forever changed my perspective on saving money for my future. Here were two seniors, who had very different options at the grocery store. I don’t know their back-stories. I can’t give you any details about their lives. Again, I was a teenager in a cashier’s uniform who rang through and bagged their orders before wishing them a nice day.

Yet, each of them taught me a valuable lesson her own way. From that day forward, I knew down to the marrow of my bones that I had to save a lot of money for my retirement.

When I was in my 20s, I worked part-time in a bank while going to school. One Saturday, a customer came in to pay $20,000 (maybe $25,000?) towards his mortgage. Those kinds of transactions were beyond my skillset as a customer service rep so the loans officer had to process it. After the customer left, I asked the loans officer why the customer had done that. The loans officer took the time to explain to me how the customer’s lump sum payment would knock years of payments and thousand of dollars of interest off his mortgage debt. That was the first time anyone had ever explained anything about mortgages to me.

Once again, I tucked that knowledge away for the future. I promised myself that, once I got a mortgage, I would pay it off as fast as possible by using these magical “prepayment options” that the loans officer had taught me.

Now, I still made mistakes. I didn’t learn about RRSPs until I was 21. So even though, I’d been working part-time since the age of 16 and saving $50 every two weeks in my savings account, I delayed starting my retirement savings program by 5 years. My parents ensured that I filed a tax return each year, so my RRSP room was accumulating every year. I could’ve made a contribution sooner but, alas, I did not.

So what happened at age 21? That’s easy. I read the book The Wealthy Barber by David Chilton. That book changed my life! In addition to starting my RRSP, I began to read more books about personal finance. When I graduated from school and started my career, I had a firmer foundation than I otherwise would have had. Though not perfect, I had a plan for my money.

Due to my choice to learn from others, I started contributing to my retirement accounts at age 21. I forced myself to start an automatic savings program at age 16. I’ve continued to live below my means. This choice has allowed me to always have money for investing. I chose to learn from others and I’ve avoided some of the very worst mistakes that I could have made with my finances.

Again, you need not make every mistake yourself. You have the option to learn from others. Use it!

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Weekly Tip: Set up an automatic savings plan. Part of your paycheque needs to be invested every time you are paid.

Tough Choices

Try as I might, I still haven’t figured out a way to get everything that I want. There are always tough choices to be made about money. I honestly believe that tough choices are the foundation of the non-financial side of personal finance.

While the Single Ones among us do not have to fight with anyone about money, it’s still incredibly important for us to identify our spending priorities. Being single does not eliminate the requirement to take responsibility for our money. Setting priorities helps us figure out what to do when tough choices have to be made about how to spend our dollars, and which goals to pursue.

Last weekend, I found a wonderful house. It’s a 1500sqft bungalow with main floor laundry, a double-car garage, and – wonder of wonders! – a large foyer that opens into a beautiful, bright living-space. Did I mention the large composite deck, the spacious & fully-furnished basement, and the fabulous ensuite off the master bedroom? It’s even in the neighbourhood that I’ve been watching for the past ten years!

So why didn’t I jump on the change to buy it?

Here’s why… Doing so jeopardizes my retirement plans.

The house is almost perfect for me. It’s main drawback is that it would require me to commit to working for at least another 5 years. Time is precious. I’m not one of the Very, Very Fortunate who loves their job and would do it for free. While my job has a great many benefits, I’ve long dreamed of the days when I can spend my time doing what I want and not what my employer pays me to do. I don’t want to sacrifice 5 years of my retirement for a house.

And it wouldn’t just be losing 5 years of retirement. Having a mortgage again would mean that I would lose the financial flexibility that I have right now. In pre-COVID times, it was so nice to be able to say yes to spontaneous invitations without worrying if my budget could handle the expense:

Dinner with friends to celebrate the warmer weather? Sure.
Can I afford the Rimrock to attend a good friend’s wedding? I’ll be there with bells on!
How about a last-minute theatre performance? Not a problem!
Why not pop over to the Emerald Isle in six weeks? I’m on my way!

Taking on a six-figure mortgage at this stage of my life would mean giving up the little extras that bring me joy. Those little extras are my reward for having been diligent and focused in my younger years, when I was paying off student loans, car loans, and the mortgage on my current house. Back then, I said “No” a lot more than I do today. Friends and family often chided me for the financial choices that I made, but I don’t regret following my plan. After all, I was the one who had to live with the consequences of my spending choices.

So as much as I wanted to buy the very awesome new house, I had to make a tough choice between two competing priorities. I could stay on track to retire, and continue to live in my current home which is perfectly suitable for me. Staying in place means that I don’t have to forego time in retirement. Alternatively, I could go back to having a mortgage and living on a tighter budget. In addition to all its lovely features, this new house’s property taxes are twice what I pay now. I’d have a higher heating bill each month, and I expect that the other costs of running a house would be higher too. Also, little renovations that I would want – a railing for the deck, new paint in the dining-room – would have to be put off. My budget wouldn’t handle renovations and mortgage payments at the same time.

At the end of the day, I chose to say “No” to the new house. The truth is that I’m not prepared to give up my goal of retiring when I want. I don’t hate my current house but I’m also not enamoured of the idea of never living anywhere else before my long dirt nap starts. Part of me is craving to be the Joneses, to buy another house, to set up a new little spot to call my own. It seems that everyone I know has bought a new house in the past 5 years – family, friends, colleagues, acquaintances. Why should I be the only one who doesn’t get to buy a new house?

The last question is a stupid one. I am not being deprived of a new house! I’m simply making a different choice. Those who have bought won’t have the option of retiring a wee bit sooner. They’re committed to repaying the bank or losing their home to foreclosure. The choice for them was to buy the house and to work longer than I’ll have to.

When it comes to money, tough choices have to be made sometimes. I’d already defined my priorities so it wasn’t too, too hard to walk away from the new house. I know what’s most important to me.

Ideally, you’ve also defined your priorities and you’ve figured out how to spend your money so that you can meet them. You’re the one who works hard for your money so make sure that you’re pursuing your priorities whenever you spend it. Whether you want a new vehicle, a new home, a new book, or new clothes, just make sure that your money is going towards the priorities you’ve set for your life.

The tough choices won’t go away completely. Knowing your priorities will better equip you to choose the alternative that gets you closer to the life you want to live.

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Weekly Tip: Update your net worth every month, or on a regular schedule that best suits you. Net worth is determined by adding up your assets and subtracting your debts. If you have a negative net worth, that means you’re in debt. If you have a positive net worth, then your assets exceed your debts. Your net worth is a snapshot of your finances at a given point in time. Knowing this number will help you to determine what your next steps need to be on your financial journey.

Mistakes with Money

Not a single one among us is born knowing how to use money perfectly. Our skill with money comes from making mistakes and learning from them.

For my part, I’ve made several notable mistakes with money over the years. I’ve written before about how I failed to take action with my investment plan for 5 full years. That one still hurts when I think about it. It took me 5 years before I finally rectified that situation by committing a good chunk of my paycheque towards my automatic savings plan. Now, I benefit from using dollar cost averaging to invest my money on a regular basis.

I hate to admit it but choosing to invest in dividend products instead of equity products is one of my biggest money mistakes! Had I started investing in equity ETFs instead of dividend ETFs way back when, then I’d be in a position to retire today…even with the recent volatility in the stock market.

Sadly, this money mistake cannot be un-done. I have been investing in a dividend portfolio since 2011, instead of a broad-based equity exchange-traded fund. The financial media has spent the last 3 months talking non-stop about the pandemic’s effect on the stock market, and how it has brought the 10-year bull run to an end. It’s true – the market took a deep fall in March. However, it has bounced back. It’s still quite volatile, and – in my completely amateur opinion – the stock market will continue to be volatile for the next 2-3 years.

I’ve been forced to realize that one of my biggest mistakes with money was to delay investing in equity ETFs. I’ve only just started investing in equity investments in 2019! It’s true that I managed to catch almost the very tail-end of the bull market, but the smarter play would’ve been to start investing in equity ETFs back in 2011… ideally, back in 2006.

Water Under the Bridge

‘Tis true. I can no more turn back the hands of time than I can lick the spot between my own shoulder blades. We make our choices then we take our consequences.

I shouldn’t be too, too hard on myself. Nine years of consistent investing has yielded a nice little cash flow for me. While my monthly dividends are in the 4-figure range, they’re not quite enough for me to retire just yet. I equate my little army of money soldiers to income from a part-time job that I don’t have to actually perform. Truth be told, it’s nearly a perfect side hustle since it’s money I earn without the sweat off my brow. How cool is that?

So why am I divulging one of my biggest money mistakes to you?

Two reasons. First, people in the personal finance world don’t talk about their mistakes with money nearly enough. The only regular mention I see of this reality is on the ESI Money website, where the millionaires who are interviewed are asked about some of their errors with money. I think it’s important that people realize that everyone who is good with money has made their own mistakes with it. Like I said at the beginning, no one is born as an expert with money.

Secondly, I don’t think that there’s any reason for you to make this mistake yourself. You can just as easily learn from someone else’s mistakes as you can your own. The more information you have, the more likely you’ll be to make a decision that best fits your particular circumstances. I firmly believe that people make the best decisions they can with the information that they have at the time. When you know better, then you do better.

Hard-Won Truths

Money mistakes are unavoidable. Mine isn’t the worst one in the history of the world, and it certainly won’t derail my financial future. And, let’s be honest – I ought not complain too much. I earn a small boatload of dividends month in and month out. How bad of a decision could I have really made 9 years ago?

My investing journey isn’t over. And I’m sure that I will make different mistakes in the future, but I just don’t know what they are yet. I still have choices and options for my money. I can choose to continue building up my army of money soldiers. The other option is to start investing in equity ETFs and take part in the stock market’s recovery. I’m quite confident that the stock market will continue to trend higher. It’s recovered before, and it will recover again. A third option is to simply coast on what I’ve already invested a la Military Dollar, so that I can spend today’s money on today’s things – home renovations, landscaping, a new vehicle, spa treatments, whatever…

I want you to accept that mistakes with money are an inevitable part of investing. That’s why it’s so very vital that you continually learn about it throughout your life, and that you put what you learn into practice. Invest as much as you can as early as you can. Invest for the long-term. Keep your mitts off your investments by simultaneously building an emergency fund for those emergencies that will crop up in life. Live below your means and stay out of debt. Save, invest, learn, repeat – this is a recipe that works.

By following these foundational principles with your money, the impact of your money mistakes will be minimal rather than nuclear.

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Weekly Tip: Set timelines for your goal so you know which ones are short-term, which ones are medium-term, and which ones are long-term. Generally, short-term goals are the one to be accomplished within the next 12 months. Things like vacations and concerts would fall into this category. Medium term goals are one that take between 1 and 5 years to accomplish. Think new vehicle and down payments on a home or a business. Long-term goals are those that will take longer than 5 years. Common examples are retirement and paying off a mortgage. Once you have a timeline, then you’ll be in a better position to prioritize where your money goes and to segregate your money so that each goal is funded.

Scratching my Head!

I’m fascinated by people who oppose the idea of becoming financially independent.

Personally, I think that this opposition is borne of the acronym FIRE. Most of us in the personal finance echo chamber know that this is an acronym for Financial Independence, Retire Early. It’s rather unfortunate that so many have twinned the two concepts together. They are not the same thing. A person can pursue one aspect of FIRE while completely eschewing the other.

A large cohort of people think that both elements must be pursued with equal vigour. I’d like to take a few minutes to tackle this misunderstanding into the ground.

Financial Independence =/= Retiring Early

Becoming financially independent can be a goal that is completely separate and apart from retiring early. Everyone should strive to become financially independent because it maximizes the options that one has for living the life that they truly want. Volunteering to build houses for six months after a hurricane? Travelling for 18 months just because you can? Taking a job that requires you to only work 3 days a week instead of five so that you have more time for doing what you love? When you’re financially independent, you can do all of these things without worrying about how to maintain your employment.

If you love your job, great! No one is saying that you have to quit the job you love simply because you have enough money to live without receiving a paycheque from paid employment. One of the side benefits of being financially independent is that you can continue to go to work if that is what makes your stomach do little flip-flops!

I’m always left scratching my head when people ask me why I would ever want to retire early. Sadly, I’m not one of those people – think professional athletes or celebrity entertainers – who is paid to do what they love. If anyone is looking to pay me cold hard cash to read books while enjoying a nice glass of wine, please speak up.

No one will stop you from working!

Allow me to be exceptionally clear on the following point. Being financially independent is not an obstacle to working. If anything, it gives you the power to work on what really matters most to you. When your stash of cash can pay for your bare necessities, then you’re free to take a paycut – if necessary – in order to do work that you find fulfilling. Rent – food – utilities can all be paid for by your Stash’O’Cash while your newly-reduced paycheque can be stretched to cover everything else. In the meantime, you have the pleasure of knowing that your life’s energy and your precious time are being applied to your true calling.

When you’re not financially independent, there’s a good chance that you are somehow being prevented from pursuing your dreams and living the life you want. It could be that you have debt that eats up a good chunk of your take-home pay. Maybe you’re caring for a parent or grandparent. Perhaps it’s just that you weren’t fortunate enough to have a job that pays more than ‘just enough’ to make it from one paycheque to the next. Whatever the reason, the lack of financial independence means that you cannot spend your time doing what you truly want with your time.

No one should be ashamed to pursue financial independence. It is not synonymous with greed or selfishness. Instead, it is a recognition that each of us has been granted one life. We only have so many tomorrows. Achieving financial independence allows us to spend our days doing what is most important to us. We are not shackled to someone else’s goals in exchange for a paycheque.

Save, invest, learn, repeat. Do this until you’ve become financially independent. At that point, take stock of how you spend your time. If you want to keep working, trust me when I say that no one will stop you. You can continue to collect a paycheque, content in the knowledge that you’re doing so because you truly want to and not because you have to.

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Weekly Tip: Keep your emergency funds separate from your other savings accounts. When the money is all co-mingled, it’s too easy to forget that the emergency money should NEVER be spent unless there is a true emergency that threatens your financial security. At the time of this post, millions of Canadians have lost their jobs due to the COVID19 pandemic. They’re facing a true financial crisis. Another scenario where an emergency fund is imminently reasonable is if your home burns down. An emergency fund comes in very handy if your town catches on fire and you have to relocate quickly. I’m looking at you Fort McMurray.

When Should I Start Saving?

In a perfect world, you would have started saving with the first dollar that you ever received, i.e. birthday money, paper route money, graduation money.

You would have gone to the bank – or your parent would have taken you – to the bank and you would have opened an account. Then you would have deposited that dollar before you’d had a chance to spend it. Everyone seems to know that the sooner you start saving, the better. However, there appears to be a disconnect between knowing and doing.

You’re the only person who can bridge the chasm between knowing what to do and then actually doing it. The truth is that it is quite simple to open a savings account in today’s world of online banking. It’s another very easy and straightforward matter to put an automatic transfer in place, thereby eliminating the need for you to manually transfer money into your savings account. The automatic transfer kicks in every time you’re paid – easy peasy lemon squeezy!

The very next best time to start saving money is immediately. I cannot stress this enough! Savings work best if you take steps to save money. Step one – save. Step two – don’t spend your savings. If you’re not yet accomplishing these two things, then you’re only dreaming about saving… which is all fine and good but it won’t help you very much since you can’t use dreams to acquire what you want. Dreaming about saving is not the same as actually starting to save.

I love dreams as much as the next lady, but dreams don’t put the cream in cupcake. You need to actually start saving – the sooner, the better. I speak from experience. One of the reasons that I’m able to seriously consider an early retirement is because I started saving a portion of my first paycheque when I was 15 years old. I’ve made many stupid decisions with my money over the years, but starting my savings plan in my teens is not one of them.

Now, let’s say there’s a good reason why you can’t start saving today. If this is your situation, then I want you to start saving money on any day that ends in the letter “y”. That leaves you with Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. Each of these is a very fine day to start saving your money.

Whatever else you do, please don’t start saving tomorrow. First of all, tomorrow is promised to no one. Further, it is not a day ending in “y” so it’s not a suitable day on which to start saving. And while I hesitate to state the obvious, I feel that it’s best to articulate the fact that everyone eventually runs out of tomorrow’s. No one ever runs out of today’s – go back to my first point. Today is the very best time to start saving money.

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Weekly Tip: Practice delayed gratification. Wait a day or a week or a month before buying what you want. It gives you a chance to assess if you really want to make the purchase. It also gives the retailer a chance to put the item on sale. This is good because the whatever-it-is-that-you-want will be cheaper if you decide to make the purchase after a prescribed waiting period.