Millionaire on the Prairie

Tag: Rich Life

  • No One Said It Would Be Easy.

    No One Said It Would Be Easy.

    Getting what you really, really want is hardly every easy. It can be a grind. There are going to be days when you don’t want to work for it. Chances are you shed a tear or two along the way. It might take you much longer than you’d anticipated, and there are no guarantees the path will be a smooth one.

    So what!

    Accept the fact that the life you really want and that the dreams that you want to see come true are not going to fall into your hands like snow on a winter’s day. The reality is that you are going to have to put in some serious effort then reap the rewards later. If it’s worth having, then it’s worth fighting for. Never forget that!

    Since this is a personal finance blog, I can help you with the money part of building the life you honestly and truly desire. There are some very basic guidelines that will get you 97% of the way there. If you follow these, then you’re set. The other 3% won’t make or break you either way. The more of these rules you fail to follow, the harder you’ll make it on yourself.

    Choose wisely.

    First things first… commit to living below your means.

    There’s no way around this fact. If you spend every nickel you earn, then you will not have money leftover to put towards your dreams and the life you really want.

    You need to save some of the money you earn. I used to think that 10% was enough. Now, I’ve matured and I see that 20% should be the bare minimum.

    Maybe you can’t start at 20% right now. Fine – 20% is out of the question for right now. I refuse to be persuaded that you can’t work your way up to 20% over time. Start where you are right now, then increase your savings rate by 1% every single year. If you can increase your savings rate at a faster pace, then so much the better.

    People get raises, start side hustles, create content, teach skills, etc… There are many ways to earn additional money. Find one that works for your life and do it. Whatever money you earn can be applied to building the life you want and to turning your dreams into your reality.

    Next, work on getting out of debt.

    This might take a minute. Getting into debt is usually fun, but getting out is a tedious task. Unless you come into a windfall, it’s going to take you some time to pay off your creditors. If you can, make extra payments to pay off your debt faster.

    And for the love of all that you hold holy, stay out of debt. If you want something, set up a sinking fund then use cash to buy it. As a matter of fact, set up a sinking fund even if there’s nothing in particular that you want. Set up an automatic transfer in the amount all of your former debt payments and send that money to your sinking fund. You’re already accustomed to making those payments, but this time they’ll be going into your pocket instead of someone else’s.

    When you finally decide what you want, the money will be there waiting for you. No debt needed!

    Invest for your long-term future.

    While paying down your debt, cinch your belt a little tighter and set some money aside for Future You.

    Debt payments are about paying for past decisions. Investing for your future is about self-care. You’re going to need food, shelter, transportation, heat, and a few other basic necessities every single day until the day you die. This is why you absolutely must set aside some of today’s money for tomorrow’s expenses. You won’t always be physically and mentally capable of going to work. There’s also a decent chance that you simply won’t want to leave the comfort of your home to do tasks for someone else. Or maybe you’ll no longer love running your own business.

    Whatever the case, you don’t want to be forced to keep working when you’d rather stop.

    When that time comes, you’ll be very happy to have cashflow from investments to replace the cashflow from your salary. Start today. Invest for the long-term. Re-invest all your dividends and capital gains. Set up an automatic transfer to invest a portion of every dollar that crosses your palm. When you stop sending your body out to work, there will be a pot of gold waiting for you. Future You will be very glad that Today You made good choices.

    Build your emergency fund.

    Much like paying off debt, it’s going to take a minute or two to build up atleast six months’ worth of expenses. I’m not adverse to seeing people with one year’s worth of expenses set aside, but I appreciate that six months’ worth will do in a pinch. Emergencies always have a financial component, so kindly make hay while the sun shines. Believe me when I say that an emergency is never made better by the addition of debt.

    The last thing you want is the burden of paying for an emergency for months, if not years, after it’s happened. To avoid this depressing situation, make sure that you’re adding to your emergency fund on a regular basis. Every time you’re paid, send some money to your emergency fund and leave it alone.

    No one has ever complained about having too much money during an emergency.

    And if you have to use your emergency fund at some point, make sure that you re-build it as fast as possible. There is no way of knowing when your next emergency is going to land so it’s best to be prepared as soon as possible.

    Finally, stop getting in your own way.

    By this, I mean do not take on financial burdens unless absolutely necessary. More monthly subscriptions won’t get your closer to your dream life unless you’re the one selling to subscribers. Any dollar that is spent on something other than what you want most is a dollar that is not bringing you closer to your dreams.

    Remember that there is always someone out there who is goading you to spend your money in ways that aren’t getting you closer to the life you want. You’re the best person to know what your heart really desires. And you need not sacrifice your priorities just because the AdMan and the Creditor request that of you. They’re your dreams so it’s your responsibility to protect them, to nurture them, and to pay for them.

    Again… No one said it would be easy. I’m here to tell you that it will be worth it.

  • Money Habits Ought Not to Be Underestimated

    Money Habits Ought Not to Be Underestimated

    When I first delved into the world of personal finance, I came across the idea that savers have trouble spending their money. Basically, the belief is that those who have saved all their lives are incapable of reversing their behaviour and spending their savings once they retire. I pooh-poohed that point-of-view. After all, how could being fiscally prudent be a bad thing? Or result in a bad outcome?

    I promptly dismissed a perspective that I considered nonsense and happily continued along my own path of saving and investing. Save some, spend some seemed to be a far more intelligent way to use money IMHO. I worked my way up to saving a third of my paycheque for retirement. The rest of my take-home pay was spent on travel, concerts, home renovations, the daily Care-&-Feeding-of-Blue-Lobster, gifts for & celebrations with family & friends, and various other things. Surely I had it all figured out in my 30s didn’t I? Why should I even considered another way of seeing things when it came to how to spend money?

    As they say, with age comes wisdom. It’s been many years since I discarded the notion that I would have trouble spending money when the time comes. Lately, I’ve been reviewing my own beliefs and taking another look at my own money habits. For more than 20 years, my method has been to rely on automatic transfers to fund my investment account. Rightly or wrongly, I picked out several mutuals funds then moved on to exchange-traded funds and invested my money into those investment products every single month.*** Every dividend earned has been re-invested through a dividend re-investment plan (DRIP). When I received raises, my contribution amount was increased too. A portion of each raise was invested for the future and the rest went into increasing my day-to-day comfort.

    I’d thought I was doing most things right. Earn – invest – spend the rest. Looking back, I know that I didn’t pick the perfect investment products for my goals. (I’d been investing in dividend ETFs instead of equity ETFs. That “little mistake” was corrected in October of 2020.) With the benefit of hindsight, I see that I could have made better choices earlier in my investment journey but c’est la vie!

    Today, I’m quickly approaching my anticipated retirement date. I’m quite happy about getting 100% of my time back. My work is mentally challenging and my colleagues are fantastic. I’ve been very fortunate in many aspects of my career. In spite of all of that, working at my current job until I take my last breath has never been a goal that’s made it onto my Bucket List. I’m very much looking forward to retirement. However…

    I must confess that I’m feeling much more than slight trepidation about the idea of spending my money. The paycheques will stop and I will have to turn to other cash flows in order to continue paying for my life. And after a lifetime of money habits to save-save-save, it’s going to be a challenge to spend instead. My youthful self’s pooh-poohing is coming back to bite me in the butt.

    Two years ago, I finally attended a meeting with a fee-only financial advisor. He told me that I was doing very well, and that I would have plenty for my retirement. He even told me that I could retire 2 years earlier than I’d planned! My financial advisor set up a withdrawal system for me… and that’s when it hit me. I would have to spend my money. Not all of it, and not all at once, of course – but I would have to spend some of it every year until my death.

    Truthfully, the realization left me more than a little shaken.

    Since then, I’ve also started listening to Ramit Sethi and his view on how to create a rich life. According to Mr. Sethi, who I do admire, I am not living a rich life because I haven’t yet defined what that would look like for me. In his estimation, I’m not using my money in the best way possible. While I’ve never been dissatisfied with my money choices, it would appear that I might not have been asking myself the right questions.

    In addition to Ramit Sethi, I’ve started following Bridget Casey. She is another proponent of living a rich life. Now, she’s a few years younger than me so her life circumstances are very different than mine. However, she’s asking herself the questions now that I should have been asking myself when I was her age. Ms. Casey is also a fan of Ramit Sethi, so she’s building her rich life today. There’s a small part of me that wishes I had learned about this concept earlier.

    So the question is the following: do I regret my money habits?

    I wish I had a simple answer to that question. My money habits are going to allow me to retire 2 years earlier than planned. I will never regret that! At the same time, my money habits – particularly the one about never borrowing money to travel – prevented me from attending a wedding in Paris. I had just gotten home from Italy (or Spain?) when I received the invite to head back to Europe in a few months for a cousin’s wedding. My sinking fund for travel was empty and I didn’t have the funds to pay for the wedding trip in cash. So I declined the invitation. Do I regret that decision? Yes, but only a little bit.

    Abiding by my money habits for so long has crippled my ability to make most decisions without considering the financial implications. Now, one of the biggest financial goals of my life is going to force me to amend my money habits. Firstly, I don’t need to save and invest anymore. I’m still not certain that I will stop completely or that I’ll ever feel comfortable turning off my DRIP. (My financial advisor said I should stop the DRIP when I retire.) Life without an automatic transfer into my savings/investing account is unimaginable to me, although I’m well aware that the vast majority of people do not save and invest regularly. That’s their choice and their choices aren’t my business, but if I’m not doing it – saving and investing – for myself then I start to feel rather anxious.

    I’m very glad that I’m learning this about myself today, instead of after I retire. There’s time for me to start making some changes. One of those changes has been to decrease the amount of money that goes into my various sinking funds. I’ve redirected a few hundred dollars towards another goal, but I still need to get some advice from my accountant. Once I’ve spoken to her, then those few hundred dollars will probably go towards little day-to-day luxuries like a 4-6 hot-stone massages every year and a monthly housekeeper. My “rich life” might not be as grand as those of Mr. Sethi and Ms. Casey but that’s okay. Their priorities aren’t mine.

    So I take it from me. Money habits should not be underestimated. Once you’re in a particular groove with your money, it’s going to be challenging to change them. While I’m still a fierce proponent of saving and investing, I’m going focus the next few years on figuring out how to spend my money too. I want my spending to bring me just as much comfort, joy and happiness in the next phase of my life as my saving-and-investing has brought me up to now. There’s a way to ensure I’m living my own rich life in retirement and I’m determined to find it.

    *** There was an unfortunate 4-month hiatus during the most severe period in the 2008 recession. I could’ve been buying equities when the stock market was at its lowest, but I got scared and stopped my contributions. Trust me – I have since learned my lesson. We’re in another stock market downturn right now (2022) and I’m turning over the seat cushions to find money to invest in the stock market before this recession is declared over.