Category: Tips and Tricks

It’s Okay to Keep Your Money

If you’re not already aware, then let me be the first to say the following: it’s okay to keep your money! You don’t have to spend all of it.

Now, you probably shouldn’t keep all of it either. After all, doing so means you won’t eat, nor have a roof over your heard or clothes on your back. Keeping every single penny of what you earn causes just as many problems as spending it all! A balance should be found as soon as possible.

Today’s post is based on my observation that there’s a goodly number of people out there who appear to operate on the belief that they simply must ensure that their expenses are equal to their income. I’m here to tell that such a belief is simply not true. It’s a formula guaranteed to keep you running in a hamster wheel for your whole life. Without keeping a little bit of your own money, you’ll never have the option of quitting whatever it is you’re paid to do now so that you can do whatever it is that you really want to do with your time.

You’re More than a Conduit

From what I’ve seen on a daily basis, there are many people who are little more than conduits between their paycheques and various retailers. These are people who work hard for their money, possibly at jobs they love and possibly not. They leave the comfort of their homes when they’d rather not. Nearly all are giving up time otherwise spent doing what they truly enjoy so that they can go to work and earn a paycheque. They’re foregoing sleep and health and time with friends & family all so that they can meet work obligations!

And then they turn around and spend every cent they’ve earned with barely a thought about the effort expended to earn it. I find this behaviour utterly baffling!

My comments are directed at those of you whose income don’t keep you on the absolute edge of solvency. I’m targeting those of you who can live well away from the edge yet you choose to put yourselves there. You work so hard for your money and you choose to spend it all.

Has no one told you that you don’t need to spend your money this way?

Again, it’s perfectly okay to keep your money.

Contrary to what the AdMan and the Creditor tell you every waking moment of your day, you’re not obligated to spend everything you earn. I will admit that the advertisements are enticing. Beautiful people are selling me everything from toothpaste to Tesla’s. Their sparkling white teeth and full heads of shiny hair inspire confidence that the products they’re hawking will complete my life. All I have to do is hand over my money and my life will be perfect.

It’s a seductive message.

Sadly, it’s also completely false! If we learned one thing from the Grinch by way of Dr. Seuss, it is this: happiness doesn’t come from the store!

Your Dreams Won’t Fund Themselves

So I say it again – it’s okay to keep your money! Put a portion of it away in an investment account so you can fund those years when your paycheque goes away. Create a few dream accounts! These are the accounts where you save up for those things that make your heart dance with joy. Maybe that’s a fancy cooking class. Perhaps it’s a trip to Greece. It might even be a fancy cooking class in Greece! You alone know what your truest desires are.

Yet, you won’t be able to fund those dreams and desires if you consistently spend every penny as fast as you can. The Hair & Teeth of Marketing aren’t going to help you achieve your goals. Their only objective is to persuade you to open your wallet. You have to believe me when I tell you that it’s okay to save your money for the things that you really want.

To be very clear, I’m not talking about people who have to devote their entire paycheques to rent and food. If you’re keeping it all together on a shoestring, then more power to you! The ones I’m talking about are those who have disposable income. They have some slack. If they had to take a pay-cut at work, they’d be able to stay in their current home and eat what they currently eat. Maybe they’d have to give up a few subscriptions, annual travel, and their plans to replace a 3-year old vehicle. Bottom line is that they would still have enough money to meet the survival expenses of food, shelter, and basic clothing.

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Weekly Tip: The 2019 RRSP contribution deadline is March 2, 2020. Make sure that you contribute something to your RRSP so that you have some cushion for your retirement years. Do not get trapped in analysis-paralysis. Make an RRSP contribution, preferably in an exchange-traded fund. Then leave the money alone for a long-time. While your RRSP-money is growing & compounding, your duty to Future You is to continue learning about investment options by reading books, blogs, magazines, websites, forums, stickies, and post-it’s. Learn as much as you can about this because it’s very, very important. Save-invest-learn-repeat.

It Never Hurts to Ask

When it comes to money, it never hurts to ask for what you want.

Case in point – the mortgage on my rental property comes up for renewal this spring. For the first time ever, my bank sent me my renewal instructions 6 months before the renewal date. Usually, I get my renewal letter 3 months before I have to sign on the dotted line. In any event, I was somewhat surprised by their eagerness.

Naively, I’d thought they would be more than happy to renew at my same rate. For the past five years, I’ve been paying 2.79% on my mortgage. It’s a sweet, sweet rate and I’ve loved it. The mortgage before had been at 2.99%, so I’d gotten very comfortable with a rate of less than 3% for a 5-year term.

I girded my loins. I straightened my crown. I softly repeated my mantra to myself – “It never hurts to ask.” And I made the first strike.

Round One

My first call to my bank resulted in the perfectly-pleasant customer service representative telling me that the best my bank could offer was 3% for 5 years. I gently reminded him that I’d been a good customer for over a decade and that I also had a significant portfolio with their investment arm. Mr. Perfectly-Pleasant appeared not to be moved. We courteously discussed my ability to take my mortgage elsewhere, a move I was secretly loathe to make. We also discussed the fact that the Bank of Canada would be making four more rate announcements before I had to renew my mortgage.

(Of course, this means very little since the 5-year mortgage rate is far more heavily influenced by the bond market than it is by the prime rate. The prime rate has far more impact on short-term and/or variable mortgage rates.)

At the end of the call, Mr. Perfectly-Pleasant had stuck to his guns. My bank wasn’t going to offer me a 5-year rate at less than 3%. I’d asked and the answer had been “No”… which I’d chosen to interpret as “Not just yet.”

I’d been knocked on my bum and was no closer to my goal of getting another 5-year mortgage interest rate of less than 3%. Luckily for me, this wasn’t my first time at the Mortgage Rodeo. I knew that this was simply part of the dance that always exists when one wants to borrow money without enriching the creditor too, too much.

It never hurts to ask… but there’s never any guarantee that you’ll get the answer you want.

Round one went to the Bank… but, much like the Terminator, I would be back.

Attempt No.2

The second call to the bank didn’t go too terribly differently except for one incredibly distasteful detail – my bank now wanted to charge me 3.05% for a 5-year rate. Wait one damn minute – 3.05% is even higher than 3%!

I nearly fainted from shock!

How on Earth could my bank even consider charging me a higher rate than the one they’d offered before? Did they not understand that I wanted a rate of less than 3% for another 5 years? Had I not been explicitly transparent by stating “I’d like to have another rate of less than 3% for the next 5 years”?

It had never occurred to me that my bank would try to raise my mortgage renewal rate a second time! Was this some strange ploy to scare me by planting the seed that the rate would keep going up before my actual renewal date?

If so, their plan had failed miserably. I knew I was a great customer with a spotless repayment history and excellent credit. Let’s not forget that both my bank and I were well-aware that many other banks would be happy to have me as a new customer… and that they’d be willing to offer me their Shiny-New-Customer rates.

Still, finding another bank to finance my mortgage wouldn’t be exactly free. I’d have to pay an appraisal fee. Someone would be running a credit check. There was also the fact that I’d had to meet the requirements of B20 Stress Test, which I could easily do. There might even be fees associated with moving my mortgage from one bank to another since my bank would do what it could to extract money from me in lieu of all that mortgage interest they would no longer be getting from me. All of these were little hassles that I really didn’t want to endure if I could avoid them.

My bank was simply doing what banks do: trying to fleece me like they try to fleece all their customers. It wasn’t personal – it was simply business.

Sticking to my Guns

I refused to be deterred from my goal of renewing my mortgage for less than 3%. Just because other people were renewing at higher than 3% rates was no reason for me to do the same. If they jumped off a bridge, was I going to jump too? I think not – my parents had raised me better than that!

Ignoring the also-pleasant customer service representative’s statement that I could get a 5-year fixed mortgage of 3.05%, I asked her if there was any way that the rate could be lowered. Like my wise aunty has often said, them’s that asks are them’s that gets.

Ms. Also-Pleasant did her employer proud. Once again, she repeated that my bank was willing to offer me a 5-year rate of 3.05%. She said that her computer told her that this was the bank’s best rate of the day. Much like her predecessor, Ms. Also-Pleasant told me that I was free to check back in the future. She even added a teaser by stating that the rates might go down in the spring since a lot of people would be buying houses.

The trouble was, I didn’t want to have the task of renewing my mortgage hanging over my head until the spring. I wanted to get this chore crossed off my list, but I wasn’t going to renew unless I got a rate of less than 3% for the next 5 years. Why couldn’t they just give me what I wanted?

I held my tongue and I kept my cool. If I’ve learned anything during my few, precious years on this little Blue Ball of ours, it is this: The person who talks to the public is never the person who has all of the power. There’s no sense yelling or cursing at those on the front lines because they can’t override the decisions made by those who are higher up on the chain. However, they do have the power to put in a good word on my behalf to the people who make the decisions. And this means that it never makes any sense to be rude, mean, or un-kind to the front-line soldiers. (Also, they’re human beings doing a job so you shouldn’t be rude, mean or un-kind to them in any event.)

Again, I ignored the offer of 3.05% and I again asked – politely! – if there was any way for that rate to be lowered. You see, Life has also taught me that it never hurts to ask for whatever it is that you want. If anything, asking for exactly what you want exponentially increases your odds of getting it.

Ms. Also-Pleasant’s response to my polite inquiry thrilled me to the core. She stated that she could forward my request to the Pricing Department and see what they could for me.

Success!!! I had no idea what the Pricing Department was, nor did I have any clue as to what it could do for me. All I knew at the end of the second call was that I didn’t have to start shopping the market for another mortgage nor had I yet reached the point of calling a mortgage broker.

Round Two is what I’d like to call a draw. I hadn’t gotten what I wanted, but I hadn’t landed on my bum either.

Victory!

Phone call number three can legitimately be categorized as a late Christmas present. When I got back to my office after the holidays, my bank had left me a voicemail. Returning their voicemail resulted in unbounded glee for the rest of my first day back in the office.

The mysterious folks of the previously-unknown Pricing Department had finally understood what I wanted… and they’d granted me my wish. Finally, my bank was offering me a rate that I could live with for 5 years = 2.84%. My new rate from the Pricing Department was even lower than the rate my bank was advertising to its own Shiny-New-Customers.

Woohoo! This was more than I’d been paying, but still less than my acceptable upper limit. As much I’m not a fan of banks, even my bank should be allowed to make a wee bit of money from me. I truly feel that I’ve been quite generous by allowing my bank to increase my mortgage rate by the equivalent of 0.01% for each of the next 5 years. I’d allowed my bank to save face by charging me a slightly higher rate. My bank can still hold its head up and participate when all the banks stars talking trash about customers on the playground.

At the end of the day, I’d gotten exactly what I’d wanted. And the cherry on this particular sundae was that my name would not be flagged as a Problem Customer because I’d been polite during all of my interactions with everyone.

So you see… it never hurts to ask for what you want.

Could I have gone back to the Pricing Department and asked for a lower rate? Sure.

Would I have gotten it? Maybe…or maybe not.

Do I feel foolish for not asking for more of a discount? Not in the slightest. My life isn’t about looking to save every single penny. I had a goal and I’ve met that goal. Now, it’s time for me to direct my attention and my energy towards satisfying other goals.

After all, I was one of them’s that asked and now I’m one of them’s that’s gots! ;-}

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Weekly Tip – If you’d like to have $1,378 by the end of the 2020, then I invite you to participate in the 52-Week Savings Challenge. You can complete the weeks in order or however you see fit. Just make sure to make every required contribution then enjoy/invest/donate/whatever-you-want-do-with your money on December 31, 2020.

Start Planning Today…

A new decade starts 11 days from today. What do you want to accomplish next year? Which dreams are most important to you?

The key to getting things done is to start planning today. Time waits for no one, and not a single one of us is promised tomorrow.

Sure, there are those rare instances where you fall ass-backwards into exactly what you want. Those instances are few and far between, so they don’t make for a good use of your time, energy, and focus. It’s better that you figure out what you want, then start planning today so that you can get it.

Maybe you’re like I was 5 years ago. At the time, I was sick and tired of being someone who had never been to Europe. It seemed like everyone I knew had been overseas and I’d somehow missed the memo. Know what I did? I created a sinking fund for my travels. I made it a goal to get over to Europe. In the past five years, I’ve been to Italy, Spain & Ireland.

It’s now a burr under my saddle that I haven’t seen the cherry blossoms in Japan. I’m going to start planning today on how to move this particular Bucket List item from the “Hope to Do One Day” column to the “Did It & Loved It” column.

  • Goal? See the cherry blossoms in full bloom in Japan.
  • When? Before 2025.
  • How? Save money from every paycheque in my Travel Sinking Fund.

Sinking Funds are an Excellent Tool

Travel might not be your jam. It’s not for everyone – I get that. However, I’d be willing to bet dollars to donuts that there is something you’d like to have bought, seen, done, experienced by this time next year.

More likely than not, there’s a good chance that it’s going to cost you a bit of money.

Introducing…sinking funds! They’re a magnificent tool to help you fund your dreams, whatever those might be.

Imagine for a moment that you want to take a $500 cooking class next September. If you don’t have $500 kicking around with nothing better to do, then set up a sinking fund. This is going to be a savings account where you stash money every month until you have the $500 you need to pay for your class. There’s 8 months between now and the start of September, so you’ll need to stash away $62.50 per month. Or you can decide to stash away $100 per month for 5 months, or $250 for two months… I think you understand my meaning.

Once the sinking fund contains enough money for you to cash flow your particular goal, you can re-direct that monthly/bi-weekly/weekly savings amount towards something else.

There’s no limit to how many sinking funds you can have going at once. If you’re fortunate enough to have the extra disposable income, then you can fund more than one goal at a time.

What if you can’t think of something you really, really, really want? Well, in that case, you should still have a sinking fund that you’re filling with cash. You can call it your Dream Fund, or your When I Figure Out What I Really Want Fund. The point is to have the money in place so that you can cash flow whatever your heart eventually desires.

Automatic Payments are also an Excellent Tool

Maybe your goal for 2020 isn’t to buy anything. Perhaps you’re in debt and you simply want out.

If this is the case, sinking funds aren’t the tool for you. There’s no sense paying additional interest on your debt while money builds in a savings account. That’s a foolproof way of ensuring that you pay way more interest than necessary to your creditors. We definitely do not want that!

Let’s say that you want to pay down atleast $2500 against your debt. It doesn’t matter if it’s credit cards, a vehicle, student loans, whatever. I want you to set up an automatic payment that sends money directly to your debt every single month.

Pay attention to the following because this where the steak stars to sizzle. This automatic payment is over and above your minimum monthly payment. You’ll get out of debt way, way faster by making extra payments than you will by paying the minimum amount owed.

By paying the minimum amount owed, you’re guaranteeing that you’ll pay the maximum amount of interest to your creditors. If you can avoid doing that, then avoid doing that. Pay as little interest as you can to your creditors and keep your money for the things that make you happiest.

A New Year, A New Decade, A New You?

I’m never been one for New Year’s resolutions. To my mind, if a resolution is going to improve your life, then you should implement that resolution today. Waiting until some arbitrary date in the future always seemed counter-productive to me. Why keep doing less-than-optimal things in your life simply because of a date on the calendar?

That said, I know that many people imbue January 1 with a whole lot of importance. So I urge you to start planning today so that you improve your odds of making your dreams come true.

No-Spend Days

This week, I’d like to introduce you to the idea of keeping your wallet closed one day each week. I call these No-Spend Days!

Pick any day you want. It doesn’t matter. The purpose of this exercise is for you to give your wallet a break! Slow down your spending – keep your money in your wallet just a wee bit longer than you normally do.

How is this useful, Blue Lobster?

It’s been my experience that no-spend days mean that I’ve been more organized in the days prior. I’ve managed to cook some food, so I’ve had lunches to take to work and something tasty waiting for me at home for dinner.

No-spend days also mean that I’ve ingested fewer empty calories. I’ve avoided buying snacks at work or getting coffee throughout the day. Some of you might not be able to live without your daily cup of java, or something to tide you over from one meal to the next. Fair enough! I’m not asking you to be hungry or thirsty. I’m just asking you to find ways to satisfy your hunger/thirst pangs without opening your wallet.

I’m not a monster. I do indulge in sinfully delicious treats every once in awhile. They just happen to come from my own oven. Homemade baking, anyone?

These little darlings are a great reward for not spending money!

The third benefit of No-Spend days is that I keep my sweet, little ass at home. Between catching up with friends, reading for book club, tidying the house, doing laundry, cooking meals for the freezer, baking tasty things, and zoning out with a streaming service, I find that I can keep myself busy at home for hours on No-Spend Days. So many more of the daily chores of living get accomplished on my No-Spend days because I stay out of the stores.

If I leave my house, suddenly I’m at a store. Which one, you ask? Take your pick: the grocery store, the liquor store, the book store, the Things-I-Didn’t-Know-I-Needed-Until-I-Walked-Past-It-At-The-Mall store.

No-Spend Days force me to be organized. Like I said earlier if I know that I’m committed to not spending money on a particular day, then that means making some plans in advance.

  • No morning coffee run? Bring my coffee in from home.
  • No snacking during the day? Bring a bigger lunch, or bring some homemade treats. (I like cookies and muffins. You might like granola, or peanuts & raisins, or veggies with dip.)
  • No spending after work? Plan to get caught up on laundry, household chores, finishing books, watching a movie, cleaning the flowerbeds. There are many, many, many, many tasks to be done in and around your home when you commit to not spending money.
  • No online shopping? Go through your stuff and figure out what you can sell online to decrease your clutter while earning a few bucks.

It might take a few tries, but you should eventually be able to figure out how to give your wallet a break atleast one day each week.

An Unexpected Benefit

Committing to a No-Spend Day puts you in the same shoes as those shoe don’t have the choice about whether to spend money! If you’re fortunate enough to choose whether to spend money or not on a given day, then you have some disposable income kicking around. You’re not in the situation of having every dollar committed to the necessities of staying alive.

Depending on your disposition, committing to a No-Spend Day might make you more sympathetic towards those with less. It’s a privilege to have a choice about whether to spend money. Going without exercising that privilege will give you a taste of what life is like for those who aren’t as fortunate as you.

Know Where Your Money Goes

It is a simple truism that what gets measured is also what gets managed. I can think of few other places where people fail to put this truism to good work beyond their money behaviour. People will track their calories, the amount of gas they put in their cars, the number of times they work out. Yet so few people will track their own money.

This is very perplexing to me. Tracking your money is one of the first steps towards controlling it. You have to know where you money goes.

Lately, I’ve been hearing a lot of talk about “self-care”. Since this is a personal finance blog, I’m going to put my own little twist on this idea. You can feel free to share this bit of wisdom with anyone and everyone.

One of the best ways for you to practice self-care is to know where your money goes. Every single time you spend money, you should know exactly where it is going and why. Anything less is a self-inflicted financial wound.

When I had cable, I loved watching “Til Debt Do Us Part”. (Sadly, the show has since been cancelled.) It was a TV show about couples who turned to a guru to help them figure out their money before money destroyed their relationship. The very first thing the couples had to do was track their money for a month or so before Madam Guru showed up.

Most of the couples had never tracked their money. I always enjoyed the look on their faces when they discovered that they were spending hundreds of dollars each month on bank fees and coffee! It was as though they’d convinced themselves that small amounts didn’t really count when it came to spending their money.

Does this sound familiar to you? Is it possible that you’re one who believes “it’s only a couple of bucks” each time you buy a coffee? Never mind that you buy coffee two or three times a day, Monday to Friday… which works out to over $1000 per year on coffee alone. That amount could fund a nice weekend getaway somewhere.

Relax, relax! I’m not going to tell you not to buy coffee. It’s your money – that means you get to decide how it’s spent. If you would rather spend money on coffee than on something else, that’s your business. Your money, your choice.

And yet… Who among us hasn’t looked in their wallet or bank account and asked: “Where did all my money go?”

I’m here to tell you that getting a solid answer to that question depends on you. Measure you money so that you can manage it. Given how hard you work for your paycheque, it’s in your own best interest to understand why each of your dollars leaves your hands. In other words, you must start keeping track all of your money.

Some people use Personal Capital. Others use Mint. There are probably many other apps for money-tracking that are unknown to me. Myself? I’m relatively old-school. I don’t keep track of my money with lead pencils by candlelight anymore. Instead, I created two personalized spreadsheets. When I spend money, I keep the receipts then I add the amount spent to the appropriate spreadsheet. If I don’t get a receipt, I make a note on my phone of how much money left my wallet. Every nickel is accounted for. This how I know how much it costs me to run my life.

Thanks to the wisdom of TDDUP, I started tracking my spending in 2016. I have a spreadsheet for the cost of running my home where I track my monthly expenses. Those include lawn care, snow removal, Netflix, phone, power, water, car registration, property taxes, insurance premiums and internet. These are the standard bills that have to be paid on a recurrent basis, whether monthly or annually. Some expenses can be eliminated if I choose since they’re luxuries – lawn care & snow removal – while others are fixed. My car and home certainly won’t insure themselves! And I suspect my municipality will get testy if I were to neglect to pay my property taxes.

I have a second spreadsheet for the day-to-day variable expenses of my life. This document tracks my groceries, clothing, medication, gasoline, parking, entertainment, travel, gifts, donations at work, outside food & drinks, taxis, books, etc… Anything that doesn’t go towards the recurring expenses on spreadsheet #1 is recorded on spreadsheet #2. My goal is to spend less than $1,000 each month on these variable expenses. Since 2016, I think I’ve hit my goal twice!

You see, the beauty of my spreadsheets is that they provide me with information and insights into how I spend my money. Up until a few months ago, when I started cooking at home more often, I was spending atleast 1.5X more on food outside my home than I was expending on groceries. I don’t begrudge the money spent on outside-food (as I like to call it). I was hungry. The food was there. I had money – I ate – I wasn’t hungry anymore. The system was satisfactory… until I started pondering on my priorities for my money.

Was spending so much on outside-food getting me closer or further away from my goals? Was I spending the same amount each month on eating out? Would my money go farther if I cooked my own meals more often than not?

Tracking my money helped me to answer these questions. I was able to look at my historical spending patterns to see where I was spending too much. I analyzed which categories needed to be trimmed in order for my spending to align with my personal goals. The information garnered from knowing where my money motivated me to make better spending choices.

I challenge to you to track all of your purchases for a few weeks. Then determine for yourself if your spending choices are helping you to fund the priorities that matter most to you. Know where your money goes.

The Money-Saving Magic of my Kitchen

I have to admit that it sometimes takes me a very long time to learn lessons that should be obvious. One of those lessons is how the kitchen can be used to significantly cut food costs. Today’s lesson, Gentle Reader, is about the money-saving magic of my kitchen.

At the end of last week, I found myself in the very happy position of having some extra money in my bank account. Hurray! Being the money nerd that I am, I promptly started reviewing my outstanding credit card charges and my surplus funds went to paying them off.

But I had to ask myself – where did that extra money come from? I’m almost always wondering how to stretch my remaining money at this point in my paycheque cycle. If my bank account were a gas tank, I’d characterize this point of the cycle as “running on financial fumes.” It’s not fun, but I’d also believed it was unavoidable.

I was wrong.

The reason for my unexpected largesse was the money-saving magic of my kitchen.

Clarification please, Blue Lobster – what in the hell are you talking about?

My kitchen is home to my fridge, an old-fashioned upright refrigerator with a handy-dandy freezer at the top. The weekend before last, I went grocery-shopping and purchased a bulk pack of chicken. I decided to cook several pieces for lunch. The rest of the chicken was rubbed in a lovely marinade, portioned into freezer bags, and set inside my freezer. I took my lunch to work with me four days last week, saving myself atleast $80 in the process.

In addition to my magnificent refrigerator and its freezer, my kitchen is also home to a working oven & stovetop. Again, I cooked some of the chicken and I also prepared some saffron rice for myself. After dinner, I portioned out the chicken and rice into several reusable containers. They were stacked in the fridge and I simply tossed one into my lunch-bag each morning before I left to catch my bus. No more scrambling to make a tasty lunch in the morning. I didn’t have to figure out which of the it-all-tastes-the-same-to-me dining establishments would have the privilege of serving me their food.

As I’ve written before, cooking at home is a money-saver. It’s healthier and often tastier than whatever you can buy at a restaurant or fast-food outlet. For the most part, you control the amount of sugar, fat and salt that goes into the food you cook because you get to adjust the recipe to suit your tastes. The cherry on the sundae is that your wallet stays heavy as you eat your own homemade food.

The beauty of using the freezer along with my range is that I minimized the amount of cooking and grocery-shopping that I have to do. For as much as I love eating good food, I really hate shopping for groceries. In my family, I’m an oddity. Both my mother and my brother love grocery-shopping. I chalk it up to them both being Pisces…

After a long day in the office, I’m not exactly excited to get into the kitchen and create a lovely meal from scratch. I’m far more likely to eat Triscuits with cheese, or enjoy a lovely bowl of breakfast cereal. These aren’t good meal options!

The awesome appliances in my kitchen minimize the drudgery of cooking every single day!!! I cook on Sundays, then – maybe – again on Thursday or Friday night. The marinated meat that I’d stashed in my freezer is ready to be put into the oven after having been safely thawed in the fridge. It doesn’t take long to cook some rice, to boil some potatoes, or to make some pasta to go with my meat. Add in a bag of salad or some veggies and voila! Dinner is ready to go relatively quickly. Again, there is no need to cook every day – make enough rice/potatoes/pasta/whatever-side-you-prefer to last for a few days.

No Fail Marinade Recipes

If you’re a fan of sweet-and-spicy, try this recipe for sriracha brown sugar chicken. It’s absolute delicious! I wish I could say that I created this recipe but I did not. It’s from the website Dinner then Dessert, one of my favorite places to find new recipes. I’m already salivating as I sit here thinking about how tasty my lunches are going to be this week!

Here’s another magnificent recipe for honey garlic chicken. Again, I can’t take credit for this recipe. I found it at Chef Savvy. What I can take credit for is creating a honey garlic marinade for the two packages of chicken thighs that are currently sitting in my freezer. They will be utterly scrumptious when I cook them for lunch in the future.

This particular recipe for sheet pan chicken tinga bowls has been on my mind since I first saw it on my Instagram feed. Again, the credit for this recipe has to go to the website called Pinch of Yum. Technically, this is a make-ahead meal but I think you could make the sauce, let it cool, pour it over the chicken, then freeze it until you’re ready to eat it.

So far, I’ve only used chicken with my marinades. This is because I love chicken in all forms, except feet & liver. Chicken liver = yucky! That said, I’m not adverse to finding marinade recipes for other meats. Ideally, I’d like to find an equally delightful marinade for pork chops that can be baked in the oven.

Learn it, live it!

I have learned my lesson. There is no way around my deep-seated fondness for eating. However, I do have the capacity to find recipes that will make my tummy happier. I’m smart enough to cook without starting fires. The internet is filled with recipes and You Tube is bursting with videos of people making those recipes.

I’ve learned my lesson – cooking once a week is grand. Marinating my meat in advance will save me trips to the grocery store and will save me some prep time during the week. My range & my freezer are my friends. I can eat well without whipping out my wallet on workdays.

Let me say it again – I love the money-saving magic of my kitchen! I have the tools at my disposal to create fabulous meals for myself while saving a boatload of money at the same time. When it comes to food, what could be better than that?

Give Yourself Some Credit

I want you to give yourself some credit – literally.

Allow me to back up a little bit, to give you some context. A year ago, my credit card number was stolen when someone booked a hotel with my information. Although it took a few weeks, my bank reversed the charges and life went on as normal.

One of the lessons that I took from this experience was to keep my authorized credit card limit at an amount I could pay off within 30 days. I was lucky. The thief only stole enough credit to book a hotel room. He or she could have racked up way more charges since my limit had been around $5,000. I’m not entirely confident that my bank would have made me whole if the stolen credit amount had been to the max of my credit limit.

Luckily, I’m the kind of person who checks all of my bank and credit balances every few days. That’s how I was able to catch this fraudulent transaction within 24 hours of it being posted to my account.

Protect Yourself with Lower Limits

After this unfortunate event, I lowered my credit card limits. I have two cards, although I use one more often than the other. The first card is for transactions like buying gas, dining with friends, tickets for entertainment, and my monthly bus pass. It’s the card I use for my regular life. The other card is for travel, so it has an even lower credit limit. Should my card be compromised while I’m away from home, the potential damage is much lower. There’s less credit for a thief to steal.

You may want to consider lowering your credit card limits if they’re more than what you could repay in a month. If a Bad Person uses your card fraudulently and you can’t report it right away, then you might have trouble convincing your bank to help you get those charges reversed. Until such time as they freeze those transactions, you might have to pay interest on them. I’m not an expert on how banks operate when people experience credit card fraud. Contact your bank and find out what they will do to help you if you find yourself a victim of credit card theft.

Sometimes, a Higher Limit is Necessary

However, there are circumstances where I need a larger credit limit. In my case, I’m getting some house renovations completed before winter. After 18 months of saving money in a designated account, I pulled the trigger and signed the contract. If I were to run the renovation cost through my credit card, there is no way that my limit would be sufficient. A five-figure renovation is more than my credit cards can handle.

So what’s the solution?

Most people would apply for more credit from their bank. This is a bad solution to this kind of challenge. The smart solution is take matters into my own hands by giving myself some credit.

Again, I already having the savings in place for this home renovation. The money is already in the bank. The solution of how to use my credit card to pay for my renovations is to front-load my credit card with the savings that are already in my bank account.

What are you talking about, Blue Lobster?

It’s really very simple. If it’s possible to make payments to your credit card, then it is similarly possible to front-load your credit card with cash. You essentially turn your credit card into a gift certificate.

  • Step One: The money is loaded onto your card, which gives you a positive credit balance on your card.
  • Step Two: You use your credit card as you normally would.

When you need more credit than is currently available to you, then you need to give yourself some credit by front-loading your credit card with cash.

Can I really do that?

Whether you make payments in person or online, you have the ability to apply cash to your credit card. In fact, this is precisely how you pay off your credit card balance each month. (And if you’re not paying off your credit card balance each month, then stop using your credit card. Make payments until the balance is $0.00. Lower your credit limit to $1,500. At that point, you can start front-loading your card with cash so that you can use your credit cards and simultaneously stay of credit card debt forever.)

There’s no law that limits how big that payment is. Front-loading cash onto your credit card results in a credit limit higher than the one given to you by the bank. The front-loaded money is available for you to spend but there’s no concomitant obligation to a lender.

The credit available to you from your bank via your credit limit results in a debt that you owe to the bank at the end of the billing cycle.

The front-loaded cash on your credit card does not yield any debt whatsoever. It is money that is spent for you to acquire whatever it is that you want without requiring you to pay any interest to anyone.

Do you see how my solution is way, way better than getting an increase to your credit limit?

Benefits of Front-Loading Credit Cards

I’m going to repeat myself – give yourself some credit. The benefits of using your own cash to increase your credit limit are awesome.

  • You don’t pay any interest on the money that you front-load onto your card. This is money from your bank account, which means that it is not money that you are borrowing from the bank.
  • You can eliminate the impact of fradulent transactions on your account. Only front-load your credit card a day or two before you’re planning to buy whatever it is that costs more than your credit limit. Do not carry an artificially-high credit limit at all times. That puts you at the same risk of having a high credit limit when your credit card gets compromised. Credit card thieves will steal your money just as easily as they will steal the bank’s.
  • You’ll be far less tempted to spend your savings on stuff that doesn’t matter. The reason you’ve front-loaded your card in the first place is because you’re spending the money on something that’s very important to you. It could be tuition, a trip, a celebration, a piece of art, jewelry, whatever. The point is that if you were committed enough to save up for that purchase, then it’s very unlikely that you will squander your front-loaded funds on stuff.
  • Your credit score is not impacted by the act of front-loading your credit card with cash.
  • Front-loading your credit card is the same as paying with cash without having to carry cash on your person. You are spending your own money, instead of the bank’s, but you’re doing so via plastic. Imagine if my contractor was actually willing to be paid $10,000 in cash. Neither of us would exactly be comfortable flashing a brick of $100-bills around. However, he has no problem accepting my money via a credit card.
  • Front-loading your credit card eliminates the need to pay a bank fee in order to buy a bank draft or a certified cheque. Even with e-transfers, there is a limit on how much can be transferred electronically.
  • Finally, front-loading your credit card prevents you from going into debt. Banks who lend you money want to make profits off of you. They do so by charging you interest when you can’t pay your credit balance in full. They want you to go into debt so that you’re in a never-ending cycle of paying them interest every month. While this is good for them, it’s very, very bad for you.

When you have a credit limit that can be satisfied by your monthly income, then you won’t go into debt. This is due to the fact that you’re in a position to pay off your balance every single month.

Keeping your credit limit low and front-loading your card with cash means that you’ll stay out of debt while still buying the things that really matter to you.

Don’t rely on the banks to control how much you can spend on your credit cards. Instead, give yourself some credit by front-loading your credit cards with your own money.