It’s Okay to Keep Your Money

If you’re not already aware, then let me be the first to say the following: it’s okay to keep your money! You don’t have to spend all of it.

Now, you probably shouldn’t keep all of it either. After all, doing so means you won’t eat, nor have a roof over your heard or clothes on your back. Keeping every single penny of what you earn causes just as many problems as spending it all! A balance should be found as soon as possible.

Today’s post is based on my observation that there’s a goodly number of people out there who appear to operate on the belief that they simply must ensure that their expenses are equal to their income. I’m here to tell that such a belief is simply not true. It’s a formula guaranteed to keep you running in a hamster wheel for your whole life. Without keeping a little bit of your own money, you’ll never have the option of quitting whatever it is you’re paid to do now so that you can do whatever it is that you really want to do with your time.

You’re More than a Conduit

From what I’ve seen on a daily basis, there are many people who are little more than conduits between their paycheques and various retailers. These are people who work hard for their money, possibly at jobs they love and possibly not. They leave the comfort of their homes when they’d rather not. Nearly all are giving up time otherwise spent doing what they truly enjoy so that they can go to work and earn a paycheque. They’re foregoing sleep and health and time with friends & family all so that they can meet work obligations!

And then they turn around and spend every cent they’ve earned with barely a thought about the effort expended to earn it. I find this behaviour utterly baffling!

My comments are directed at those of you whose income don’t keep you on the absolute edge of solvency. I’m targeting those of you who can live well away from the edge yet you choose to put yourselves there. You work so hard for your money and you choose to spend it all.

Has no one told you that you don’t need to spend your money this way?

Again, it’s perfectly okay to keep your money.

Contrary to what the AdMan and the Creditor tell you every waking moment of your day, you’re not obligated to spend everything you earn. I will admit that the advertisements are enticing. Beautiful people are selling me everything from toothpaste to Tesla’s. Their sparkling white teeth and full heads of shiny hair inspire confidence that the products they’re hawking will complete my life. All I have to do is hand over my money and my life will be perfect.

It’s a seductive message.

Sadly, it’s also completely false! If we learned one thing from the Grinch by way of Dr. Seuss, it is this: happiness doesn’t come from the store!

Your Dreams Won’t Fund Themselves

So I say it again – it’s okay to keep your money! Put a portion of it away in an investment account so you can fund those years when your paycheque goes away. Create a few dream accounts! These are the accounts where you save up for those things that make your heart dance with joy. Maybe that’s a fancy cooking class. Perhaps it’s a trip to Greece. It might even be a fancy cooking class in Greece! You alone know what your truest desires are.

Yet, you won’t be able to fund those dreams and desires if you consistently spend every penny as fast as you can. The Hair & Teeth of Marketing aren’t going to help you achieve your goals. Their only objective is to persuade you to open your wallet. You have to believe me when I tell you that it’s okay to save your money for the things that you really want.

To be very clear, I’m not talking about people who have to devote their entire paycheques to rent and food. If you’re keeping it all together on a shoestring, then more power to you! The ones I’m talking about are those who have disposable income. They have some slack. If they had to take a pay-cut at work, they’d be able to stay in their current home and eat what they currently eat. Maybe they’d have to give up a few subscriptions, annual travel, and their plans to replace a 3-year old vehicle. Bottom line is that they would still have enough money to meet the survival expenses of food, shelter, and basic clothing.

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Weekly Tip: The 2019 RRSP contribution deadline is March 2, 2020. Make sure that you contribute something to your RRSP so that you have some cushion for your retirement years. Do not get trapped in analysis-paralysis. Make an RRSP contribution, preferably in an exchange-traded fund. Then leave the money alone for a long-time. While your RRSP-money is growing & compounding, your duty to Future You is to continue learning about investment options by reading books, blogs, magazines, websites, forums, stickies, and post-it’s. Learn as much as you can about this because it’s very, very important. Save-invest-learn-repeat.

What If…

When I talk about financial independence and wanting to retire early, many people look at me as if I’d sprouted a second head right in front of them.

“I love my job!” they say. “I don’t want to retire!”

Great! Wonderful! You’re being paid to do what you love – that makes you one of the Lucky Ones!

Take a moment and consider what it’s like for those of us who aren’t so blessed as to love our livelihoods, those of us who dream of a day when we can do what we want with all of our precious, precious time. Most of us work because we have to, not because we love what we do. And a good number of workers don’t actively hate their jobs. They simply don’t love them and would rather be paid to do something that they enjoyed.

And if you’re wondering why we don’t just find jobs that we love and do those instead, please gently hit yourself in the head with a hammer. Take it on good authority that we have tried to find jobs that we love as much as you love yours. There just aren’t as many of those ideal positions going around so not all of us are going to get one.

Instead, I’m going to ask you Lucky Ones to put yourselves in the shoes of the rest of us. That way, you might gain some insight into why some of us are working so hard to achieve financial independence and, possibly, early retirement.

Lucky Ones, ask yourselves the following: What if you didn’t love your job? And what if the job you love today turns into one that you don’t love tomorrow?

What if any of the following things happen?

  • The boss you love retires…and the new boss isn’t to your liking.
  • Your best work buddies move away.
  • You have to take on duties that make you stressed and irritable.
  • You’re passed over for a promotion that you know you earned.
  • Others are laid off, which means your workload goes up.
  • Harassment, sexual or otherwise, creeps into your daily workday.

There are many, many things that can happen in one hot minute to turn a job-you-love into a job-you-hate. Spend an hour or two at Ask-A-Manager to see what I mean. If half of the people writing to Alison had built up enough money to leave their jobs when they wished, then she’d have so much less to write about!

Or maybe your job never causes you to shed a tear, yet you lose it anyway. For example, your company is bought by another one, or there’s some kind of re-organization. For whatever reason, your job is eliminated. It happens to a lot of people. Those who don’t have a financial cushion are the ones who will be stressed and desperate to find something else. People who’ve been working towards financial independence have the luxury of taking some time to figure out what the next steps are going to be.

What if you had enough money to walk away from your job when it stops making you happy? Or what if you had a great, big cushion of money to land on if you were kicked to the curb due to downsizing or ageism?

That’s the beauty and power of financial independence. When your job stops being one that brings you joy, being financially independent gives you the choice to walk away.

I want to be explicitly clear – you don’t have to retire early just because you’re financially independent. Money = choices. Having money doesn’t remove your choice to keep working. It simply gives you the choice to do something else when your current position stops bringing you happiness.

So make hay while the sun shines! Get in touch with your inner squirrel and start gathering that sweet, sweet cash for the day when you’ve simply had enough. You won’t regret having the options that only money can buy when the time comes.

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Weekly Tip: Pick one day a week to be the day that you don’t spend any money. Most of us spend a little something every single day. Did you know that it only takes $27.40 per day to spend $10,000 in one year? Challenge yourself to keep your money in your pocket atleast one day out of every 7.

Progress need not be Perfect!

When you know better, you do better…

from one wise soul to another, Maya Angelou to Oprah Winfrey

No one is born knowing how to invest. This is awesome news! It means that anyone can learn how to invest if they take the time to practice the skill. It also means that progress need not be perfect.

Much like walking, playing the piano, and mastering Candy Crush, the skills of investing must be practiced and honed before one becomes proficient at them.

I’m a huge fan of YouTube. As I was perusing the millions of videos on that platform, I came across one that was called “Vanguard or Fidelity – Which one is Better?”

And do you want to know something?

Yes, Blue Lobster. Please, tell us what you’re thinking.

My initial reaction to that post’s title was to scroll right past it. I’ve learned a little bit of wisdom on my relatively few revolutions around the sun. And one of those bits is that it’s best to just start investing, regardless of where you do so. Progress need not be perfect in order for you to achieve your dreams. Think of it this way – every journey starts with a single step but not every journey to the same destination requires the same number of steps. If a person needs to take a few extra steps to where she’s going, then she still gets there.

Focus on progress, not on perfection.

For example, we will look at the situation of an investor named One. Let’s say One decides to invest with Fidelity. (To be frank and open, I invest with Vanguard Canada. And no – I’m not being compensated for mentioning them in this blog post.) One sets up an account at Fidelity and creates an automatic transfer to have a fixed amount invested into an exchange traded fund every time One gets paid.

Superb! One has taken the very first steps towards investing for One’s own future.

Did One make the absolutely best choice for an investment account? It’s hard to say without knowing if One spent hours doing the research to determine the management expense ratios, various fees, product offerings, and account features from all of the investing companies that One could have chosen.

What we do know with certainty is that One did not delay her progress by staying in the quagmire created by analysis-paralysis. One made the smart choice by focusing on progress, rather than trying to achieve perfection. One is taking action by accepting the maxim that progress need not be perfect.

There’s no doubt in my mind that a perfect, best account does exist somewhere out there. I’m just not certain that it makes sense to waste more than 3-4 hours looking for it. The ultimate objective is to start investing your money; it’s not “to open the perfect, best investment account.” Keep your eyes on the prize! No one is going to pat you on the back for opening the absolute best and perfect investment account if it takes you 2 years to find it after sifting through all the options. The best and perfect account doesn’t actually help you if you never actually open it and make an investment.

Again, progress need not be perfect. I know a baby who has just started to walk. He’s only been doing it for a few weeks, but he’s focused on progress, not on perfection. At first, he could only stand and would fall down every time he moved his head. A week later, he could walk ten steps unaided. The next time I saw him, he would walk slowly…and drop down to crawl if he had to get somewhere quickly. (The kid’s got a great big brain and understands that sometimes speed is of the essence!) The last time I saw him, this kid was very nearly walking like a champ – moving his head, going further distances, turning around without falling down too much. In another six weeks, crawling will have long been forgotten as a preferred method of travel.

The first time you walked, you fell down after a few steps. You didn’t let that stop you, did you? No, you didn’t! Instead, you tried again and again and again and again until you could do it. Without knowing you personally, I’m willing to bet that you’re now quite a proficient walker. The same principle applies to investing.

Always be learning while making progress.

Be like a baby – save and invest your money with the perspective that progress need not be perfect!

You see, there’s nothing stopping you from continuing to research investment accounts once you’ve started investing. Save-invest-learn-repeat. You are free to keep learning after you’ve made an investment.

Again, full-disclosure, I invest with BMO Investorline. And, again, I’m not getting compensated for mentioning them. Yet just because I invest with BMO Investorline doesn’t mean that I haven’t also research Scotia I-Trade, Questrade, RBC Direct Investing, or any other investing platform/company. (I’m not being paid for mentioning these platforms.)

Further, I have no idea if BMO Investorline is the ultimate, best and perfect option for me. It doesn’t matter. What does matter is that I am automatically investing in very inexpensive exchange traded funds and earning big dividends every month. And even though I’ve been with BMO Investorline for years, I would switch my investment portfolio in a heartbeat if I found a platform that better suited my needs for a lower price.

If One discovers that Vanguard Canada offers a more suitable range of investments products than Fidelity, then One is not in any way prevented from moving One’s investment account from Fidelity to Vanguard Canada.

Procrastination is the enemy of progress.

When it comes to investing your money, procrastination is extremely detrimental to achieving your financial goals. The reason why it is so bad is because you have a finite amount of time in which to grow your money. Money needs to be invested so it can compound. And compounding is most effective over long periods of time. Ergo, start investing your money right now so that it has as long as possible to compound.

Don’t let analysis-paralysis stop you from taking action today!

Your progress need not be perfect in order for you to reach your goals. Lord knows that my investment path hasn’t been smooth, nor will it ever be exalted as the absolutely correct path to take. If anything, my investment story should be viewed as a cautionary tale for fellow investors. However imperfect my journey has been, the fact that I started when I was 21 and have consistently invested my money for the past 2.5 decades has been a key factor in me pursuing and achieving my goals.

Neither you nor I can get to where we want to go without making some kind of progress. So we have an obligation to ourselves to keep moving forwards. Whether that’s listening to a podcast, reading a book, following a blog, or using trial-and-error, doing any or all of these things will lead us closer to taking action. And taking action is how we will progress towards making our dreams come true.

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Weekly Tip: Don’t pay for memberships or subscriptions if they’re no longer making your happy. As much as we might like to believe it, peer pressure didn’t end when we graduated from high school. Review your monthly expenses. How many things are you paying for simply because your friends are paying for them? If those things are no longer bringing you joy, then stop paying for them.

Book Review – Quit Like A Millionaire

Two people I’ve been following online for the past few years – Kristy Shen and Bryce Leung – wrote a fabulous book called Quit Like a Millionaire. You should read it sooner rather than later. (And let me be very clear, right up front – I am not being compensated by anyone for this review.)

Kristy and Bryce are also the masterminds behind the magnificent blog called Millennial-Revolution. And while some of the tidbits of the book have been disclosed on their blog, I can assure readers of MR that there’s so much more to their story that they haven’t already divulged online.

Their story is great for a variety of reasons. To start off, Kristy came from poverty. Her parents immigrated to Canada when she was young and she’s worked very hard to achieve her current success. I can’t tell her story as well as she can. However, this is a very accomplished woman whose initial idea of wealth was having a single can of Coca-Cola. Kristy has worked her ass off to earn her wealth!

Another thing I love about Kristy & Bryce’s story is that it’s a great example of how living below your means and wisely investing in the market can propel you to financial independence very early. Despite the volatility that they faced during their initial years, they stuck to their plan to invest in equities to achieve their goal of early retirement. Did I mention that they retired at age 31?

I’m not trying to blow smoke. Their means were more than adequate. Both of them graduated with engineering degrees and, together, they were earning a six-figure income within a year of graduating. Unlike the majority of people who start earning big-money after graduating, this dynamic financial duo chose to save very large chunks of their paycheque and to invest it in the stock market.

Show of hands – are you saving big chunks of your disposable income? Or have you made the choice to spend every penny you make?

Do what you want! It’s your money after all. I’m simply going to tune you out when you complain that you don’t earn enough to do what they did. You’ll need to show me your expenses and your income if you want to convince me that you can’t live below your means and invest for long-term growth. Knowing where your money goes is the first step towards controlling it.

That’s another beautiful element of Quit Like a Millionaire! Kristy and Bryce tracked their expenses for years, and then they disclosed them in the book. In other words, they laid bare the money choices they made each year to live the life they wanted while pursuing financial freedom. Not every blogger does this so I give them kudos for being so transparent. Even though they were making bank as DINKs, they never lived on more than $51,000. And you want to know what’s even crazier?

They spent $51,000 shortly after graduating from their engineering program. Every year after that, their annual spending went down while their incomes continued to go up!!! This is a couple who understood the perils of lifestyle inflation and fought against it, hard. They continued to live cheaply while still traveling, investing, and enjoying life with their friends. Kristy and Bryce didn’t become hermits or give up anything that really, really mattered to them. They prioritized their goals and made sure that their money was funding their dreams of attaining early retirement.

Kristy and Bryce also made the wise decision of finding a crusty but trustworthy financial advisor who helped them invest their money when they decided not to follow the herd’s example. Kristy and Bryce earned their early ticket to financial freedom, in part, by not yoking themselves to a huge mortgage. (Again, I’m not endorsing Garth Turner. No one is compensating me for mentioning him or his blog. I’m just stating the facts as I understand them. If you want to work with a financial investor, then I encourage you to do your due diligence to ensure that you pick the right person for the job.)

Another magnificent feature of this book lies in the appendices. Kristy & Bryce teach you the formula for creating a spreadsheet that tells you when you’ll reach your own Financial Independence number.

Oh, come, Blue Lobster! Everyone already knows how to do that!

Well, excuse me! I’ll be the first to say that I didn’t know how to create such a spreadsheet. However, I know now and that means a little bit more knowledge to help me reach my goals. I was contemplating using some of my savings to pay off my rental property, but thanks to Kristy and Bryce’s formula I now realize that doing so would set my retirement date back by a couple of years. As they do on their blog, Kristy and Bryce’s Quit Like a Millionaire will teach you stuff that you might not already know.

A new year starts in a few days. Much ado is being made about the fact that a new decade also starts in a few days. So, if you’re looking to make some changes in your financial life, then you should do yourself a solid. Take a few hours to read this book and figure out for yourself how to Quit Like a Millionaire.

No-Spend Days

This week, I’d like to introduce you to the idea of keeping your wallet closed one day each week. I call these No-Spend Days!

Pick any day you want. It doesn’t matter. The purpose of this exercise is for you to give your wallet a break! Slow down your spending – keep your money in your wallet just a wee bit longer than you normally do.

How is this useful, Blue Lobster?

It’s been my experience that no-spend days mean that I’ve been more organized in the days prior. I’ve managed to cook some food, so I’ve had lunches to take to work and something tasty waiting for me at home for dinner.

No-spend days also mean that I’ve ingested fewer empty calories. I’ve avoided buying snacks at work or getting coffee throughout the day. Some of you might not be able to live without your daily cup of java, or something to tide you over from one meal to the next. Fair enough! I’m not asking you to be hungry or thirsty. I’m just asking you to find ways to satisfy your hunger/thirst pangs without opening your wallet.

I’m not a monster. I do indulge in sinfully delicious treats every once in awhile. They just happen to come from my own oven. Homemade baking, anyone?

These little darlings are a great reward for not spending money!

The third benefit of No-Spend days is that I keep my sweet, little ass at home. Between catching up with friends, reading for book club, tidying the house, doing laundry, cooking meals for the freezer, baking tasty things, and zoning out with a streaming service, I find that I can keep myself busy at home for hours on No-Spend Days. So many more of the daily chores of living get accomplished on my No-Spend days because I stay out of the stores.

If I leave my house, suddenly I’m at a store. Which one, you ask? Take your pick: the grocery store, the liquor store, the book store, the Things-I-Didn’t-Know-I-Needed-Until-I-Walked-Past-It-At-The-Mall store.

No-Spend Days force me to be organized. Like I said earlier if I know that I’m committed to not spending money on a particular day, then that means making some plans in advance.

  • No morning coffee run? Bring my coffee in from home.
  • No snacking during the day? Bring a bigger lunch, or bring some homemade treats. (I like cookies and muffins. You might like granola, or peanuts & raisins, or veggies with dip.)
  • No spending after work? Plan to get caught up on laundry, household chores, finishing books, watching a movie, cleaning the flowerbeds. There are many, many, many, many tasks to be done in and around your home when you commit to not spending money.
  • No online shopping? Go through your stuff and figure out what you can sell online to decrease your clutter while earning a few bucks.

It might take a few tries, but you should eventually be able to figure out how to give your wallet a break atleast one day each week.

An Unexpected Benefit

Committing to a No-Spend Day puts you in the same shoes as those shoe don’t have the choice about whether to spend money! If you’re fortunate enough to choose whether to spend money or not on a given day, then you have some disposable income kicking around. You’re not in the situation of having every dollar committed to the necessities of staying alive.

Depending on your disposition, committing to a No-Spend Day might make you more sympathetic towards those with less. It’s a privilege to have a choice about whether to spend money. Going without exercising that privilege will give you a taste of what life is like for those who aren’t as fortunate as you.

Getting Ahead vs. Getting By

You have to earn money to even be able to save and invest a portion of it… by MI154 of ESI Money

There’s a silent assumption in the Financial Independence Retire Early world that is, in my opinion, at the root of the derision heaped on this community. And it is this: everyone has a little bit of extra money that can be invested somewhere.

My position is that this assumption is false.

I’ve no doubt that there are those who believe that they can’t live without unlimited data plans, gym memberships, annual vacations, spa weekends, second homes, and cable TV. People get used to their luxuries. They easily conflate their daily, monthly, or even annual wants with basic survival needs. It’s called acclimation.

And why not? Luxuries make life better.

However, there is precious little useful information for those who are already living without any luxuries. This is a fundamental flaw of the FIRE sphere. Many of the most prominent bloggers of the FIRE community are tone-deaf to this reality. They appear to assume that everyone has money that can be diverted towards investing.

This assumption is wrong. There are many people who are barely making it from one paycheque to the next. Almost half of the Canadian population is struggling to pay their costs of living. These people aren’t setting aside money and then not using it because they’d prefer to struggle. They’re using all of the money that they earn to get from one paycheque to the next.

Now, I realize that some of these people will have some flexibility in their budgets once they pay off their debts. Former debt payments can be re-directed towards investing, a la FIRE-philosophy. This is fantastic news!

Yet, I also realize that there are many people who aren’t in debt…and are still living paycheque-to-paycheque. These are the ones who don’t have the money to spare for investing. And for these people, the FIRE-philosophy is as foreign as breathing under water.

  • Cable and gym memberships were sacrificed years ago.
  • Vacations are only taken in the imagination.
  • Wifi hotspots – if one even has a mobile phone – are the only source of connectivity.
  • Roommates and multiple part-time jobs have been part of the picture for years.
  • Cooking at home isn’t optional – it’s a requirement to ensure that one eats on a semi-regular basis because outside food is out of reach financially.

There are huge swaths of people who have already cut their budget to the bone. What does the FIRE-philosophy have to offer those who have no money to spare?

You need extra money in order to get ahead. And when you don’t have any extra money, you’re relegated out of necessity to just getting by. The FIRE movement offers little instruction on how to go from one stage to the next beyond the simply admonition to earn more money. Now that I think on it, I’m sure that those in poverty’s grip have never even considered the option of earning more money! <sarcasm off!>

Having access to “extra money” is the foundation of building that cash cushion, creating the army of money soldiers, or planting your money tree. If there’s no extra money to be found, then time and focus must be spent on using the available money to simply survive from one day to the next. Without sufficient money, life’s about figuring out where the next meal will come from and how to handle the inevitable rental increase. Heaven forbid that you should get sick and not be able to work. There’s never been enough money leftover between paycheques to build that vaunted 6-month emergency fund.

I’m not pretending to have an answer to this situation. My goal with this post is simply to remind those who have that there are many, many who have-not. If you’re one of the ones who has the ability to get ahead, be grateful. And appreciate that you might only be one misfortune away from falling down the ladder of financial security.

The paths to FIRE are varied but they all start with having a little bit of extra money. Anyone who argues otherwise is blind to the reality of poverty’s vicious grip.