It Takes Some Time

Near as I can figure, it takes some time to become wealthy. There are those who manage to do it very quickly, and they generally fall into one of these three camps:

  • Being born into wealth.
  • Winning the lottery.
  • Inheriting money from someone else.

And I have to give an honourable mention to those who, every so often, invent something that’s so valuable someone pays lots of money for it. Yet, this isn’t always a “quick” way to make money. Usually, it takes a little while … but the possibility of doing it quickly still remains.

For the rest of us who don’t fall into these categories, building wealth is an activity that doesn’t occur overnight. Even for the adherents of Mr. Money Mustache and other FIRE followers, a commonly touted timeframe for building the kind of wealth that allows for early retirement is anywhere from 5-7 years depending on how much money a person has already accumulated.

If you’re not willing or able to live a very frugal life for 5-7 years, then you’re probably looking at 2-3 decades to acquire sufficient wealth that will allow you to live the way you want without having to earn an income. No matter how you slice it, 20-30 years isn’t a short period of time. Yet it’s definitely a sufficient amount in which to build wealth.

Okay, Blue Lobster… so what?

I’m going to suggest that you figure out what best makes you happy and find a way to do that for money. It seems obvious, but the truth is that most people don’t love what they’re employed to do. They do it for the paycheque. I’m not knocking that path. It’s a valid one if you’re a fan of eating, sleeping indoors, and having some measure of comfort in your life. Working for a living has been a time-tested method for ensuring that you can earn money.

Whether your employment brings you joy or not, I’m going to urge you to have your money do the heavy lifting for you. Every time you get paid, you save a portion of your paycheque and you invest it for the long-term. You’ll re-invest the dividends and the capital gains along the way. In the first 10 years or so, these contributions from your paycheque are going to do the heavy lifting of building your wealth. After that, the dividends & capital gains that your investments generate will exceed the contributions from your paycheque. So long as you don’t interfere with the Money Machine, you’ll be creating a very nice cash flow for your later years.

And just to be blunt – “interfering with the Money Machine” means siphoning off your dividends and capital gains instead of automatically re-investing them. The phrase also covers any interruption in your commitment to send a portion of every single paycheque to your investments. Finally, these words also encompass any strange desire you might have to temporarily halt your investment contributions during times of extreme market volatility. Further, the more you save at the beginning, the faster your wealth pile will grow.

The only catch is that it will take some time before you can stop depending on your paycheque.

Simple? Yes. Easy? No.

Not easy, not at all! It has never been easy to save money consistently over a long period of time. There is always a temptation to spend. Saving money is downright boring compared to vacations, concerts, vehicles, clothes, socializing, hot air balloon rides, jewelry, collectibles, camping, road trips, golfing, theme parks, shoes, massages, new furniture, artwork, streaming services, coffee, etc… Saving money reflects a pessimist’s viewpoint because it means that you don’t trust the universe to provide for you in the future. Saving money is viewed as selfish when someone important needs your income, i.e. someone has to make a rent/mortgage payment, a sibling lost their job, a parent needs a medical device.

Building wealth… it takes some time. In some cases, it takes generations. If you’re the first in your family to graduate and earn a higher than median income, are you going to say no to helping younger siblings on their way through school? Will you turn your back on your parents if they need your help?

It’s easy to encourage people to give up the luxuries, the nice-to-have’s, the fun-stuff in order to build wealth for the future. Lately, however, I’ve started thinking about the harder choices that people face when having to choose between spending now and spending later.

A very simple definition of poverty is that it is the state of lacking of wealth. From my observations, poverty affects entire families, sometimes over generations. Few of us would put saving for retirement or a home ahead of paying for a sibling’s groceries, if push came to shove. For the majority of us, the familial bonds are stronger than the need to save for our futures.

Where families have financial wealth, there is less need for financial interdependency. If each adult child can pay their own way, then they need not look to their parents or siblings for assistance. As a result, all of the adult children and the parents are free to save & invest some of their money for the future. The invested money, aka: wealth, can be left to grow because there are no other immediate demands on it. In addition, the adult children will more than likely inherit some portion of the parents’ money once the parents are gone. The wealth moves from one generation to the next, compounding over time.

The less money a family has, the greater the interdependency among its members. When parents can barely keep the lights on, they will turn to the adult children for assistance. This limits the adult child’s ability to build wealth because the money that goes to helping their parents is money that is not invested for the future. The same principle applies if one adult child makes good money but her siblings don’t. More than likely, she’ll feel obligated to assist her siblings and that means less money is available for investing. This family doesn’t get to benefit from intergenerational wealth because all of its wealth is spent in order to survive from one day to the next.

The money is needed now, which means that its owner doesn’t have the privilege of letting it compound to be used at some point in the distant future.

Realistically speaking, building wealth from a position of poverty creates untenable choices for many. When your family needs financial help to survive, are you obligated to sacrifice your financial health? Does your paycheque belong to you or to your family?

And the answer is…?

I wish I had the answer. I honestly and truly do. One of the saddest observations that I’m seeing as I get older is that wealth is funnelling from the many to the few. More and more people are barely making it from one paycheque to the next, even when they make the so-called right choices about how to spend their money. It’s happening at such a fast pace that I wonder if the trajectory can be changed.

Marketing machines are working non-stop to get people to spend money. Sure, we’re in a pandemic (at the time of this post). However, pandemics do not last forever. The advertising industry will go into overdrive once the pandemic is over in an attempt to get people to open their wallets.

And if the pre-pandemic situation is a good predictor of behaviour, people will spend. It might be slowly at first but then they will gradually “forget” to put money into their emergency funds, to only pay with cash, to decline offers for credit.

I don’t have all the answers. What I have is a theory and it is this.

Once the not-rich are barely making it from one paycheque to the next, they reach for a lifeline to maintain the illusion that they’re living comfortably. For a great many people, appearing poor is just as awful as actually being poor. The anchor-disguised-as-help that is offered to those in this particular situation is called credit. So the paycheque that barely covered the necessities is now most definitely incapable of covering the interest charges on the debt. Remember! Once you’ve used credit, you’ve simultaneously created a debt.

The not-rich person (or family) has taken the first step towards becoming trapped in a cycle of poverty. After all, if one cannot survive before taking on debt, then how is one to use the same insufficient paycheque to pay off that debt?

Then there’s the little pesky, incidental problems such as rents eating 50% or more of a household’s income in some cities. Trust me – the high income household aren’t the ones paying the majority of their income on rent. Another pesky problem is the fact that some mortgage are over 7x the household’s income. Again, households with higher incomes can manage to get mortgages which are less than 3x their income.

So going back to where we started, the steps for building wealth are the same all of us who aren’t born rich, who haven’t inherited money, and who haven’t won the lottery. Earn an income. Save a portion of that income and invest it for long-term growth. Re-invest the dividends and capital gains for many, many years. It will take some time, but these steps will build wealth.

The reality of the situation is that not everyone has the advantage of having financially-secure loved ones. The steps to building wealth are grounded in the assumption that investing for wealth is your highest priority. When there are competing and equally important uses for your money, then the choice to save and invest gets much harder.

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Weekly Tip: Keep your emergency fund separate from your other savings accounts. Segregating your money by its intended use solidifies the line between what can be spent today and what can be spent in a true emergency. Emergency funds nestled in their own dedicated account decreases the likelihood that you’ll somehow spend the money on something that isn’t an emergency.

Budget? No, thank you.

I don’t use a budget. I’ve been in charge of my own money since I got my first part-time job, in a grocery store, at the age of 15. Not once since that time have I ever written out a budget in order to allocate a certain amount towards food, towards clothing, towards entertainment, towards X.

If you’ve been reading my blog for the past couple of years, you’ll know that I’m a huge fan of automatic transfers and sinking funds.

Very simply, my paycheque hits my bank account. My automatic transfers kick into high gear. Various amounts of money are dispersed among my many, many bank accounts. (Each account has a very specific purpose!) Then I spend whatever is left in my account.

For the cheap seats in the bank, I say again that I don’t use a budget.

If budgets work for you, then stop reading.

For my part, I’m not against budgets if they work for you. Everyone needs a good money-management system and budgets are one of the options available for controlling spending.

A budget simply doesn’t work for me.

See, if I’m at the grocery store and I see something that I want but which isn’t on my list, then I’m still going to buy it. I don’t want to walk past it solely because it’s not in the budget. (I might walk by it because I don’t need more calories/sodium in my diet, but that’s a different blog topic.) The same principle applies to clothing, shoes, gasoline, whatever isn’t already covered by my sinking funds.

And lest you think that money runs through my fingers like water, I promise you that there is a method to my budget-free madness.

The backbone of my money-management system lies in taking care of the Big, Important Priorities first. Once my priorities have been funded, then it doesn’t matter if I buy a couple of extra things at the grocery store or drive more than I’d intended in a given week. The most important elements of my financial life get funded first so that daily decisions don’t matter too, too much so long as I don’t go into debt. Rule number one of my system is always avoid debt!

Although I’m still fine-tuning it after all these years, the system I’ve developed for myself ensures that my medium-term and long-term priorities each get the lion’s share of my paycheque before I start doing my day-to-day spending. The impulse purchase of a pair of jeans while window-shopping at lunchtime is not going to derail my retirement dreams.

Automatic Transfers & Sinking Funds

The most important quivers in my money-management arsenal are automatic transfers and sinking funds. One of the most burdensome realities of adulting as a Single One is that all the expenses of my household are my responsibility. That means, I pay all the utilities and taxes and insurances. It also means that if I want to travel to Vancouver to enjoy the cherry blossoms in the spring, then I’m the one who has to scrounge up the money to do so.

In the pre-COVID19 days, I had a far more active social life that included concerts, travel, and meals with friends. Those activities have been curtailed for now, but I’m sure that I’ll get to enjoy most of them again.

My point is that I rely on automatic transfers and sinking funds to pay for the expenses of my life. For example, I pay my insurance premiums on a yearly basis. I have a sinking fund for that particular bill. I take the amount I paid last year, increase it by 10%, then divide that number by my annual number of paycheques. The final amount is then automatically sent to my sinking fund every time I get paid. When the premium due date rolls around, I’m not left wondering where to come up with several thousand dollars.

While I realize that some people pay their insurance monthly, I abhor the idea of anyone other than me withdrawing money form my account. I’d prefer not to grant access to my bank accounts to anyone else.

I have sinking funds for all of the following:

  • insurance premiums;
  • property taxes;
  • annual vacations;
  • birthday and celebration gifts;
  • Registered Retirement Savings Plan contributions;
  • Tax Free Savings Plan contributions;
  • renovations;
  • MISC.

Yes, I set aside a segment of my paycheque for miscellaneous stuff. I might decide to do something fun and unexpected, so I need to have a bit of money tucked aside for this unanticipated spending. Sometimes the MISC-money has to be spent on not-fun stuff, like a new pair of glasses – they’re quite necessary but they won’t be cheap.

Leftover money gets spent…

Yes, that’s right. Think of my automatic system as a blackjack dealer in a casino. My sinking funds are the players. The deck is my paycheque. Once the system has dealt money to each of my sinking funds, I’m free to spend whatever’s leftover however I want.

Again, I don’t use a budget. The leftover money is spent on groceries, clothes, gasoline, liquor, dining out, whatever I want. What I love best about my money-management system is that I can spend however I want in the very short-term because my medium-term and long-term goals are also being met. It’s the best of both worlds for me.

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Weekly Tip: Consider following the 50-30-20 rule for your money, which I first learned about in the book All Your Worth written by Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi. In a nutshell, the rule says that 50% of your net income is spent on your necessities, otherwise known as MUST-HAVE’s. Then next 30% is spent on non-necessities, the Want-to-Have’s. The final 20% goes straight into Savings and Investing.

The Honest Truth

Roughly 20 years ago, I landed my first professional office job. It entailed monthly meetings with my manager, wherein I updated him on my current workload. He was an amiable man and most meetings were sprinkled with little nuggets of life advice.

One of the acorns of advice that has always stayed with me is the following. “Never believe that this place needs you. Always remember that you can be replaced.”

It sounds harsh, doesn’t it? As I look back on those words, I appreciate them because they are the honest truth.

My manager wasn’t being mean or obnoxious. He was being truthful. If I hadn’t been hired to do my job, then my organization would have hired someone else. And if I had chosen to walk out at that very minute, the organization would have tackled the task of finding my replacement.

That particular acorn took root.

For nearly two decades, those words have rolled around in my head. The honest truth they embodied has been one of the underlying reasons of why I save and invest. It is imperative that my money works as hard for me as I do for it. My money must insulate me to the greatest extent possible from the financial consequences should my organization decide that it’s time for me to be replaced, that it can survive without my contributions to its operations.

If you’re somewhat sentient when this post is published, then you can’t help but be aware that a great many people have lost their jobs through no fault of their own because of the COVID-19 pandemic. The news reports are rife with articles of the millions of people who have had no choice but to turn to the government for financial assistance to survive.

However, I suspect that there is a cohort of the Recently-Let-Go who haven’t had to ask for financial assistance. I’m willing to guess that this cohort is compromised of people who’ve worked for a couple of decades and who made the choice to live below their means throughout their working lives so that they could invest their money. I wouldn’t be surprised if this fortunate cohort has made the choice to stay out of debt no matter how often credit was offered to them. And I’ve assumed that this cohort is going to keep a tight, heavy lid on their status so that they can continue to live as they always have – social distancing & hand-washing as required – without drawing the ire of their family, friends, neighbours & former co-workers. Check out the comments on this article.

Continued employment isn’t guaranteed.

As a result of my manager’s words, I’ve always known that my employment was at the whim of someone else. Sure – I’d likely find another position somewhere else, but what if it took me a long time to do so? How would I pay for my life between one employer and the next? Even if I tried to become self-employed (something that has never held any appeal to me), how would I pay for my life before the money started rolling in?

Hearing the honest truth from my manager during a routine monthly meeting incentivized me to do all of the following things:

  • pay off my student loans as quickly as possible;
  • build my emergency fund through automatic transfers every payday;
  • re-pay the loan on my SUV in 6 months by making gargantuan payments every two weeks & by sacrificing a little bit of fun & frivolity;
  • invest a portion every paycheque in the stock market once the mortgage on my principle residence had been paid off;
  • move out of mutual funds and into exchange traded funds once I learned how deeply management expense ratios impacted my overall rate of return;
  • stay out of debt by paying off my credit cards every single month; and
  • pay cash for everything.

I know those last two bullet points sound contradictory, but they aren’t. If I don’t have cash, then I don’t use my credit cards. Once the cash is in my bank account, then out comes my credit card to make the purchase. This method means that I earn cash back or points towards groceries. The charge is applied to my account then I send a payment from my bank account to my credit card. Best of both worlds – I always pay cash while taking advantage of the perks of having my credit cards. If you can’t pay off your credit cards every month, then don’t do what I do. Only spend cash or use a debit card!

Motivation comes from unlikely sources.

It’s taken me a long time to see the link between words spoken nearly 20 years ago and the financial choices that I’ve made in my life. The honest truth from my manager’s lips motivated me to build as big a financial cushion as I could as fast as humanly possible. It didn’t happen overnight, and there were many mistakes made along the way. To this day, payday still means that a chunk of money is set aside for the future.

Another source of motivation for me comes from our current global pandemic. COVID-19 has me re-assessing whether my emergency fund is big enough. For record, I have made plans to increase it. It’s my firm belief that no one has ever regretted having “too much money” during an emergency.

In a similar vein, the money saved from staying home while most everything is closed has been re-directed into sinking funds. There are still big expenses on the horizon. Property taxes will still have to be paid at some point. My home and vehicle insurance premiums are still due in a few months. Birthdays and other celebrations might still require me to open my wallet, even if I can only visit with people via video and telephone. The annually recurring expenses of living will continue to come around, whether we’re still in a pandemic or not.

Do yourself a favour! Go back to my manager’s works and let them sink in. At the end of the day, your employer can always choose to replace you. Sooner or later, there is going to be a parting of the ways for reasons that may be beyond your control. Be proactive – take the steps today to ensure that you’ll be financially okay when that time comes.

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Weekly Tip: Live below your means so that you have money to invest. This is another way of saying pay yourself first. After you’ve paid yourself, then you can get down to the business of paying everyone else.

It’s Okay to Keep Your Money

If you’re not already aware, then let me be the first to say the following: it’s okay to keep your money! You don’t have to spend all of it.

Now, you probably shouldn’t keep all of it either. After all, doing so means you won’t eat, nor have a roof over your heard or clothes on your back. Keeping every single penny of what you earn causes just as many problems as spending it all! A balance should be found as soon as possible.

Today’s post is based on my observation that there’s a goodly number of people out there who appear to operate on the belief that they simply must ensure that their expenses are equal to their income. I’m here to tell that such a belief is simply not true. It’s a formula guaranteed to keep you running in a hamster wheel for your whole life. Without keeping a little bit of your own money, you’ll never have the option of quitting whatever it is you’re paid to do now so that you can do whatever it is that you really want to do with your time.

You’re More than a Conduit

From what I’ve seen on a daily basis, there are many people who are little more than conduits between their paycheques and various retailers. These are people who work hard for their money, possibly at jobs they love and possibly not. They leave the comfort of their homes when they’d rather not. Nearly all are giving up time otherwise spent doing what they truly enjoy so that they can go to work and earn a paycheque. They’re foregoing sleep and health and time with friends & family all so that they can meet work obligations!

And then they turn around and spend every cent they’ve earned with barely a thought about the effort expended to earn it. I find this behaviour utterly baffling!

My comments are directed at those of you whose income don’t keep you on the absolute edge of solvency. I’m targeting those of you who can live well away from the edge yet you choose to put yourselves there. You work so hard for your money and you choose to spend it all.

Has no one told you that you don’t need to spend your money this way?

Again, it’s perfectly okay to keep your money.

Contrary to what the AdMan and the Creditor tell you every waking moment of your day, you’re not obligated to spend everything you earn. I will admit that the advertisements are enticing. Beautiful people are selling me everything from toothpaste to Tesla’s. Their sparkling white teeth and full heads of shiny hair inspire confidence that the products they’re hawking will complete my life. All I have to do is hand over my money and my life will be perfect.

It’s a seductive message.

Sadly, it’s also completely false! If we learned one thing from the Grinch by way of Dr. Seuss, it is this: happiness doesn’t come from the store!

Your Dreams Won’t Fund Themselves

So I say it again – it’s okay to keep your money! Put a portion of it away in an investment account so you can fund those years when your paycheque goes away. Create a few dream accounts! These are the accounts where you save up for those things that make your heart dance with joy. Maybe that’s a fancy cooking class. Perhaps it’s a trip to Greece. It might even be a fancy cooking class in Greece! You alone know what your truest desires are.

Yet, you won’t be able to fund those dreams and desires if you consistently spend every penny as fast as you can. The Hair & Teeth of Marketing aren’t going to help you achieve your goals. Their only objective is to persuade you to open your wallet. You have to believe me when I tell you that it’s okay to save your money for the things that you really want.

To be very clear, I’m not talking about people who have to devote their entire paycheques to rent and food. If you’re keeping it all together on a shoestring, then more power to you! The ones I’m talking about are those who have disposable income. They have some slack. If they had to take a pay-cut at work, they’d be able to stay in their current home and eat what they currently eat. Maybe they’d have to give up a few subscriptions, annual travel, and their plans to replace a 3-year old vehicle. Bottom line is that they would still have enough money to meet the survival expenses of food, shelter, and basic clothing.

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Weekly Tip: The 2019 RRSP contribution deadline is March 2, 2020. Make sure that you contribute something to your RRSP so that you have some cushion for your retirement years. Do not get trapped in analysis-paralysis. Make an RRSP contribution, preferably in an exchange-traded fund. Then leave the money alone for a long-time. While your RRSP-money is growing & compounding, your duty to Future You is to continue learning about investment options by reading books, blogs, magazines, websites, forums, stickies, and post-it’s. Learn as much as you can about this because it’s very, very important. Save-invest-learn-repeat.

What If…

When I talk about financial independence and wanting to retire early, many people look at me as if I’d sprouted a second head right in front of them.

“I love my job!” they say. “I don’t want to retire!”

Great! Wonderful! You’re being paid to do what you love – that makes you one of the Lucky Ones!

Take a moment and consider what it’s like for those of us who aren’t so blessed as to love our livelihoods, those of us who dream of a day when we can do what we want with all of our precious, precious time. Most of us work because we have to, not because we love what we do. And a good number of workers don’t actively hate their jobs. They simply don’t love them and would rather be paid to do something that they enjoyed.

And if you’re wondering why we don’t just find jobs that we love and do those instead, please gently hit yourself in the head with a hammer. Take it on good authority that we have tried to find jobs that we love as much as you love yours. There just aren’t as many of those ideal positions going around so not all of us are going to get one.

Instead, I’m going to ask you Lucky Ones to put yourselves in the shoes of the rest of us. That way, you might gain some insight into why some of us are working so hard to achieve financial independence and, possibly, early retirement.

Lucky Ones, ask yourselves the following: What if you didn’t love your job? And what if the job you love today turns into one that you don’t love tomorrow?

What if any of the following things happen?

  • The boss you love retires…and the new boss isn’t to your liking.
  • Your best work buddies move away.
  • You have to take on duties that make you stressed and irritable.
  • You’re passed over for a promotion that you know you earned.
  • Others are laid off, which means your workload goes up.
  • Harassment, sexual or otherwise, creeps into your daily workday.

There are many, many things that can happen in one hot minute to turn a job-you-love into a job-you-hate. Spend an hour or two at Ask-A-Manager to see what I mean. If half of the people writing to Alison had built up enough money to leave their jobs when they wished, then she’d have so much less to write about!

Or maybe your job never causes you to shed a tear, yet you lose it anyway. For example, your company is bought by another one, or there’s some kind of re-organization. For whatever reason, your job is eliminated. It happens to a lot of people. Those who don’t have a financial cushion are the ones who will be stressed and desperate to find something else. People who’ve been working towards financial independence have the luxury of taking some time to figure out what the next steps are going to be.

What if you had enough money to walk away from your job when it stops making you happy? Or what if you had a great, big cushion of money to land on if you were kicked to the curb due to downsizing or ageism?

That’s the beauty and power of financial independence. When your job stops being one that brings you joy, being financially independent gives you the choice to walk away.

I want to be explicitly clear – you don’t have to retire early just because you’re financially independent. Money = choices. Having money doesn’t remove your choice to keep working. It simply gives you the choice to do something else when your current position stops bringing you happiness.

So make hay while the sun shines! Get in touch with your inner squirrel and start gathering that sweet, sweet cash for the day when you’ve simply had enough. You won’t regret having the options that only money can buy when the time comes.

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Weekly Tip: Pick one day a week to be the day that you don’t spend any money. Most of us spend a little something every single day. Did you know that it only takes $27.40 per day to spend $10,000 in one year? Challenge yourself to keep your money in your pocket atleast one day out of every 7.

Book Review – Quit Like A Millionaire

Two people I’ve been following online for the past few years – Kristy Shen and Bryce Leung – wrote a fabulous book called Quit Like a Millionaire. You should read it sooner rather than later. (And let me be very clear, right up front – I am not being compensated by anyone for this review.)

Kristy and Bryce are also the masterminds behind the magnificent blog called Millennial-Revolution. And while some of the tidbits of the book have been disclosed on their blog, I can assure readers of MR that there’s so much more to their story that they haven’t already divulged online.

Their story is great for a variety of reasons. To start off, Kristy came from poverty. Her parents immigrated to Canada when she was young and she’s worked very hard to achieve her current success. I can’t tell her story as well as she can. However, this is a very accomplished woman whose initial idea of wealth was having a single can of Coca-Cola. Kristy has worked her ass off to earn her wealth!

Another thing I love about Kristy & Bryce’s story is that it’s a great example of how living below your means and wisely investing in the market can propel you to financial independence very early. Despite the volatility that they faced during their initial years, they stuck to their plan to invest in equities to achieve their goal of early retirement. Did I mention that they retired at age 31?

I’m not trying to blow smoke. Their means were more than adequate. Both of them graduated with engineering degrees and, together, they were earning a six-figure income within a year of graduating. Unlike the majority of people who start earning big-money after graduating, this dynamic financial duo chose to save very large chunks of their paycheque and to invest it in the stock market.

Show of hands – are you saving big chunks of your disposable income? Or have you made the choice to spend every penny you make?

Do what you want! It’s your money after all. I’m simply going to tune you out when you complain that you don’t earn enough to do what they did. You’ll need to show me your expenses and your income if you want to convince me that you can’t live below your means and invest for long-term growth. Knowing where your money goes is the first step towards controlling it.

That’s another beautiful element of Quit Like a Millionaire! Kristy and Bryce tracked their expenses for years, and then they disclosed them in the book. In other words, they laid bare the money choices they made each year to live the life they wanted while pursuing financial freedom. Not every blogger does this so I give them kudos for being so transparent. Even though they were making bank as DINKs, they never lived on more than $51,000. And you want to know what’s even crazier?

They spent $51,000 shortly after graduating from their engineering program. Every year after that, their annual spending went down while their incomes continued to go up!!! This is a couple who understood the perils of lifestyle inflation and fought against it, hard. They continued to live cheaply while still traveling, investing, and enjoying life with their friends. Kristy and Bryce didn’t become hermits or give up anything that really, really mattered to them. They prioritized their goals and made sure that their money was funding their dreams of attaining early retirement.

Kristy and Bryce also made the wise decision of finding a crusty but trustworthy financial advisor who helped them invest their money when they decided not to follow the herd’s example. Kristy and Bryce earned their early ticket to financial freedom, in part, by not yoking themselves to a huge mortgage. (Again, I’m not endorsing Garth Turner. No one is compensating me for mentioning him or his blog. I’m just stating the facts as I understand them. If you want to work with a financial investor, then I encourage you to do your due diligence to ensure that you pick the right person for the job.)

Another magnificent feature of this book lies in the appendices. Kristy & Bryce teach you the formula for creating a spreadsheet that tells you when you’ll reach your own Financial Independence number.

Oh, come, Blue Lobster! Everyone already knows how to do that!

Well, excuse me! I’ll be the first to say that I didn’t know how to create such a spreadsheet. However, I know now and that means a little bit more knowledge to help me reach my goals. I was contemplating using some of my savings to pay off my rental property, but thanks to Kristy and Bryce’s formula I now realize that doing so would set my retirement date back by a couple of years. As they do on their blog, Kristy and Bryce’s Quit Like a Millionaire will teach you stuff that you might not already know.

A new year starts in a few days. Much ado is being made about the fact that a new decade also starts in a few days. So, if you’re looking to make some changes in your financial life, then you should do yourself a solid. Take a few hours to read this book and figure out for yourself how to Quit Like a Millionaire.

A Faucet of Income

Even if you’re a Singleton like me, the implications of intergenerational wealth may have touched your life at some point. I like to think of intergenerational wealth as a faucet of income that helps younger generations to start their adult lives without debt. It’s a financial tool that allows young adults to master the skills of successful adulthood without being burdened by the yoke of debt.

In my case, my parents were able to pay for most of my education. They did the same for my brother. And had I not moved out during my second degree, they likely would have paid for all of it. I graduated with $15,000 in student loans and was fortunately able to pay them off within 2 years of graduating.

I’ve mentioned before that my parents weren’t rich, but they were long-term thinkers. My “Baby Bonus” cheques were deposited into the bank to buy Canada Savings Bonds from the time I was born. Interest rates were good – the money grew – my (and my brother’s) university was paid for – hooray! This is but one small example of the power of intergenerational wealth.

The parents in my social circle are using Registered Education Savings Plans (RESPs) to fund the costs of their kids’ educations. I’ve no idea how they invest their money, but I admire their determination to ensure that their kids have access to this form of intergenerational wealth when the time comes.

This week, I was listening to Beardy Brandon of Bigger Pockets on his YouTube channel. (Rest assured that I’m not getting paid for mentioning this website.) If you don’t know who he is, Brandon is a very successful real estate investor who runs a very, very successful blog teaching other people how to be successful real estate investors too. In one particular episode, Brandon mentioned buying properties for his children and having them paid off by the time that his kids started post-secondary school.

Wait! What?

Yes – you read that right. Part of Brandon’s plan to create a faucet of income for his family is to buy his children a property when they’re young, have it paid off by the time they graduate high school, and use the rental income and/or equity to pay for their post-secondary schooling. Along the way, Brandon’s kids will learn the real estate investment business while having some skin in the game.

Plans are the Result of Dreams Mixing with Money

Intergenerational wealth starts with a plan. This is not surprising. Yet, a plan without the money to implement it remains a dream. If Brandon didn’t have money, then he couldn’t have bought homes for his children. If my parents hadn’t had money, then they couldn’t have bought Canada Savings Bonds for their kids’ education. Sam Walton had to have the cash set aside to buy the first store way back in the day, long before the Wal-Mart empire took over the world and ensured that his kids never had to run a cash register for a living.

What I find so incredible about the stories of intergenerational wealth is that the parents (or grandparents) set a living-and-breathing example of delayed gratification for their children. They are long-term thinkers who find ways to use today’s money to fund the dreams of a tomorrow that may be well over a decade away. I always imagine young parents holding their new baby for the first time and thinking “How are we going to pay for med school?”

The decision by an ancestor to keep a little bit back in order to invest it in something profitable changes a family tree. The parent is taking a leap of faith, although hopefully a well-researched one. No one knows what tomorrow will bring and there are no guarantees that the investment will pay off. However, choosing to never invest in anything is guaranteed to bring a return of absolutely nothing.

Start Adult Life Without Debt

If not for my stubborn decision to move out of the house, I could have graduated completely debt free. My parents had created a faucet of income that would’ve allowed me that privilege. Instead, I made a short-term decision and there was a debt to pay.

Now that I’m well into adulthood, I have a better appreciation of how significant a gift it is to start adulthood without debt. I’ve paid off a mortgage, car loans, and student loans during my time. I took out the debt knowing full well that I had an obligation to pay it back – no argument there.

However, that doesn’t stop me from envying Brandon’s children who won’t have to take out a mortgage for a home. If they want to live in the homes that their father has bought them, they can. Should they decide to live in another home and have the first one pay the mortgage on the second home, they can do that too. And if they want to travel the world, their rental income can fund their travels. In short, they don’t have to take on debt because their father has created a faucet of income for them. It’s a plan that’s 15+ years in the making – another example of that long-term thinking that I was mentioning before.

Intergenerational wealth is a way to avoid assuming crippling debt burdens in your 20s. Beneficiaries of such largesse are able to start their adult lives on a firm financial foundation.

For example, take student loans. For some people, they’re a path to a financially secure future. After all, one can’t become a cardiologist without somehow footing the bill for medical school. However, there’s no denying that student loans can also trap people on a hellish repayment treadmill because they borrowed $100,000 for employment that pays $35,000.

It’s astonishing to me that people as young as 18 are allowed to take on huge financial debts, yet they’re not allowed to legally imbibe alcohol in many jurisdictions in North America.

“I’d like to borrow $30,000 per year for a degree, please. I have no idea how much I’ll have to pay back for these student loans once the interest is calculated. I’m not certain whether the salary of my desired career will allow me to pay off these loans while still saving for a home, a family, and a retirement. I also have no idea how to calculate how much my anticipated monthly repayment will be.”

“Sure – not a problem. Just sign here.”

“And I’d like a beer.”

“What the hell is wrong with you?!?!! You’re too young to drink!”

Play the Hand You’re Dealt

When you have access to intergenerational wealth, then debt isn’t such a significant factor in your life. You don’t have to borrow money for your education. You might not have to borrow money for a home! Just imagine how different your life would be if you didn’t have any debts to re-pay.

The reality is that not all of us are born to parents who have the money to buy properties for us. Some of us have parents who have the money but also believe that we should take out loans or find another way to fund our educations without their help. What can I say? You play the hand you’re dealt and you do the best you can.

Singleton or not, you have the power to create a faucet of income for someone else.

Living hand-to-mouth means that there’s no room for savings. This is a tough way to survive since you’re always living on the edge. Your income is barely enough to satisfy your necessities of life. This is a poor foundation from which you can build intergenerational wealth, but I’m not saying it’s impossible to do so.

You might want to think about how you’d like your money to be spent when you don’t need it anymore. Do you have nieces or nephews? Maybe there’s a neighbourhood kid who doesn’t drive you crazy? Perhaps you’ve always wanted to start a scholarship for kids interested in the things that tickle your fancy?

Even if you’re not a parent, you have the ability to create intergenerational wealth for someone in your world.